Dua to get married soon

format_quote Originally Posted by amani

hey sis inshaAllah this may help
http://www.islamqa.com/index.php?ref...=dua%20married

Thanks sister amani. That was useful information for me as I am fasting nowadays so that should increase chances of my dua getting accepted.

format_quote Originally Posted by Alpha Dude

Let's not divert the attention of this thread onto zAk.

He is soo mising from this forum. I wonder when did he write the 20.000 posts, when he is no able to write 1 post/day or better 1 post/ month.

format_quote Originally Posted by Ebtisweetsam

Before u get married u dont think of the LIST:

The cooking
The Cleaning up after EVERYONE
The kids
The nappy changing
The waking in the mid of the night
The husband that is considered the 'other baby'
The' no day to be sick'.................

I could go on and on and on and on ....................:X

But then again, you got ur good times!!

Yeah actually i hear a lot from mothers on tv and in real about the horror and pain fo the beginning days after the child is born :confused: . But i guess i will have to be good at managing my time. I will sleep when the baby is asleep and wake up when he wakes up. As far the 'other baby' is concerned...hmmmm that will be a problem.

format_quote Originally Posted by S.A.

As far the 'other baby' is concerned...hmmmm that will be a problem.

I heard about that too. Never tell him open what you really think if you think he cannot handle the truth; always need to protect his feelings; doesn't forget to tell him in every half hour how you miss him and so on. Its very complicated.

format_quote Originally Posted by Amatul Malik

Ok-kee, let's re-word it then: Why so eager to get married?

Reasons for my eagerness:

I am 22 (I think girls should get married at an age younger than this. somewhere around 17 or 18. Thats my view. No arguments over that please)
I would love to be a housewife (taking care of husband and house). I want to have children (as many as Allah wishes for me coz i prefer big families over small ones with just 1 or 3 kids). I do not want to go for any job (that should be my husbands' headache. would love the profession of a housewfe instead) mmmm..wht else..for the time being only these.

Very simple, and the usual reason for which girls would be eager to get married. arent they.

But i do think one thing. I hope it shouldnt hurt or annoy anyone in here. When i first read the question on why iam desperate to get married, i didnt like it so didnt reply to it. I just think that it is not an appropriate question to ask for some reason .

format_quote Originally Posted by amani

lol thats what they all say but it doesnt work that way. its not an easy job yet theres so much reward for it Alhumdulillah

I think u sisters are on a mission to scare me.

format_quote Originally Posted by S.A.

I do not want to go for any job (that should be my husbands' headache)

lol i agree wid u there

format_quote Originally Posted by S.A.

Reasons for my eagerness:


I would love to be a housewife (taking care of husband and house). I want to have children (as many as Allah wishes for me coz i prefer big families over small ones with just 1 or 3 kids). I do not want to go for any job (that should be my husbands' headache. would love the profession of a housewfe instead) mmmm..wht else..for the time being only these.

Everything that starts in a rush ends in a rush, so dont be too eager....

Sister marriage completes half of your religion.... so i recommend that you be interested..... but have you asked urself why it completes half ur religion?
When you feel like ur being torn in half (ahem sorry brothers) due to giving birth... or ur so exhausted after cleaning all day and ur husband walks in grubby/ dirty from work, stinking and dropping his clothes on the way to the bathroom, then you would have answered the question why does marriage complete half ur religion.

I dont want to scare u, i want to awaken you to reality.:laugh:

Sorry sis im telling u only the bad bits........ im sure ur mind is dreaming of the good bits

format_quote Originally Posted by Al-Zaara

Selam aleykum,

lol This is funny. Just as I have decided to not get married in a loong time [inshaAllah], I see someone saying they would have prefered to have married at the age of 17... We're all different, alhamdulillah. :smile:

But mashaAllah, you seem to really wanna get married.

Sister have you met anyone suitable? Or is it like dua to find someone?

No one in my mind and im in no ones mind, but i would love to be in someones mind so thats why asked u all to say ameen from all ur mind.

Hey ...that was good one..

Have you tried to sit at home for around 3 or 4 months I can sit this time and i am content but more than this would make me depressed, deeply unhappy. You should try it before to give up at your job.

format_quote Originally Posted by DeepOcean

Marriage is a companionship. You struggle through the bad bits together....as long as you use Islam as your guide

True but (yes unfortunately there is always a but) what if you are both right islamically, like an example i dont like going to relatives because it is mixing males and females but he likes to because he doesnt want to cut relations in islam............ so who wins???????????????????????

format_quote Originally Posted by Ebtisweetsam

Sorry sis im telling u only the bad bits........ im sure ur mind is dreaming of the good bits

Come on...marriage is a blessing from Allah. Good or bad i want to get married.

But u know what, when i was in my high school i used to hate the concept of marriage. To me then it was a daily routine job of keeping our husbands pleased in the beginning, then all those housework chores at the same time managing the whole house, I used to dread at the thought of giving birth to a child with all that talk of labour pain and the mess with it, and then there was the tension of raising kids, assisting them in their homework and exams, etc etc...And then i came to know this girl in my class who just changed my every single thought on marriage. Not purposely or intentionally though, but whenever she used to tell me of her family and the numerous funny stories and incidents happening between her family members, with all their kids it just somehow made me feel so happy. And slowly as time passed by things changed.

SubhanAllah today i am longing for exactly the same things i hated earlier.

For all those girls who do not prefer a marriage life my message is you never know what Allah's plan is for you. Anything can happen anytime.