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12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

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    12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast (OP)


    12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast
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    We all know people who don’t fast and others who make excuses not to fast. The excuses below are not an exhaustive list but just some of the excuses which people give not to fast. The objective is not to ridicule individuals who are astray from Islam and victims of the predominant culture around us, but rather for us to be aware that not every single Muslim fasts and they all give different excuses which we should be able to refute and explain to them why they should fast.

    In some cases confusion exists about fasting itself, and in others people are confused about their Islamic identity and belief itself.

    1. I don’t pray so why should I fast

    I normally just about attend jummah now and again and havn’t prayed in ages, well not quite ages, the last time I prayed was my dad’s janazah a few years ago. So why should I fast when I don’t even pray 5 time’s day?

    2. it’s my choice, we live in a free country

    Yes one of the things I love about Britain apart from its women, clubbing and booze is the fact that everyone can live and behave as they wish. Even parents can’t control your life after 16 and the police can only nick you if you break the law. So yes I choose not to fast, no law against not fasting is there?

    3. It clashes with my exams

    My exams are so so important, parents got expectations for me to do well and go and study medicine and become a Dr Saaab, and then go back home and marry the politician’s daughter and raise our family’s status sky high. Fasting is tough especially when I got exams, and when I fast I noticed that it’s hard to concentrate and do well in your exams.


    4. I have a busy lifestyle and demanding job

    My life is so stressful and busy; I got so many projects on the go. I start at 8 and finish at 8, and even work on my laptop on the train as well as bring work home. I suppose when your earning over 85k the company expects you to be fully committed and my boss told me at interview “ this aint a job, this is your life, so treat it accordingly”, and in all honesty I have, so I cant afford to fast a whole month. ‘God why couldn’t Ramadhan be for a few days over the bank holidays ‘


    5. None of my mates fast

    All my mates are integrated and proud to be British and don’t really bother with backward traditions from bong bongo land, we were born here and this is our country and its traditions are ours and fasting is so silly. “What’s the point of going without food and drink as well as sex for a whole month? “

    6. I'm not ready for it yet

    At the moment I’m just chilling and enjoying life, I’m only 25 so I got the whole of my life left until I die in my 80s, so what’s the rush for? I’ll start in a few years time and continue how I mean to go on

    7. I only fast when the days are short
    Fasting in the winter used to be so cool, I mean me and my mates would eat sehri and go to bed really late then wake up about 2pm and its nearly iftar time. We’d put on a DVD and before it’s over you hear the maghrib Azaan. Nowadays fasts are getting longer and even if you wake up at 2pm its still a long way to go. InshAllah when the fasts get shorter again in about 10 years time I’ll start fasting.

    8. I've done about 16/17 I think it’s enough

    I usually do about 16/17 just over the half way mark which I think is enough sacrifice for the religion, I know some people who do less so I am better than most people I know.

    9. Its dangerous to fast and drive

    Someone told me that its fard in Islam not to do anything that endangers your life as well as other peoples, so I drive a lot in my job and its dangerous to drive and fast, in case you cause an accident, so that’s my excuse why I don’t fast.

    10. I get bad breath, cracked lips and look terrible
    Yeah I’m very fashion conscious and cracked lips, bad breath and bags under my eyes make me look like an old bag, despite tons of make up. So I prefer to leave fasting until I get old, in which case looking terrible as a result of fasting wont matter since I will look terrible anyway.


    11. I don’t want to put on any weight; I worked so hard to get a figure like this.

    I always gain weight in Ramadhan no matter how little I eat for Sehri and iftar and my clothes become even tighter than usual. It seems a waste working hard to get a nice figure and then by fasting a whole month you lose it and its back to square one after Eid.


    12. Non-Muslims say bad things and give sad looks

    This really ps me off, when non-Muslims feel sorry for you and pity you and say “ ahh, they have to go without food and drink for their God”. Some even give you sad, pitying looks and the nasty ones talk about you in the canteen and say that I’m a fanatic. So to avoid all this I prefer not to fast.


    Please list the excuses you have heard and add to the list if you so wish
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

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    but by 'eating in public' what did you mean? did you mean you cant eat in restaurants or just not out in the streets? I'm confused.
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast


    sisters, i've already sent the sis a PM concerning this, based on afatwa from islamqa.com

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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    format_quote Originally Posted by maryam11 View Post

    sisters, i've already sent the sis a PM concerning this, based on afatwa from islamqa.com

    oh okay...jazakallah khayr
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    Pathetic excuses. The kids are really keen and willing to fast so these people have no excuses.

    If you fasted all your life you wound't be able to make up for the rewards you missed because this month is Holy in itself!!
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast


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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    format_quote Originally Posted by Looking4Peace View Post
    Women do not have to fast during their periods or am i wrong? Do we have to make it up?
    yeah, luckly once i didnt have 1 period at all and kept them all.. :sunny:
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    6. Verily, those who disbelieve, it is the same to them whether you (O Muhammad) warn them or do not warn them, they will not believe.
    7. Allah has set a seal on their hearts and on their hearings, and on their eyes there is a covering. Theirs will be a great torment.
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    thank you for giving that quote syrilla.
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    format_quote Originally Posted by jb17 View Post
    but by 'eating in public' what did you mean? did you mean you cant eat in restaurants or just not out in the streets?
    Eating in public - restaurants, on the street, public places, any places which is visible to the public.

    The laws only being enforced to Muslims only. Non Muslims are allowed to eat in the public.

    Most of Muslim-owned restaurants only opened at 4.00 PM. And people could take-away the food.

    There are cases where Muslims selling food to non-fasting Muslims, and the whole community would boycott the food sellers.
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    How would they know if you were Muslim lol? That's a personal thing, they can't really know your religion, only you can. That's a really unique law.
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    format_quote Originally Posted by jb17 View Post
    How would they know if you were Muslim lol? That's a personal thing, they can't really know your religion, only you can. That's a really unique law.
    It mentioned in our identity card
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    I agree, government shouldn't go around cracking down on people. Those kinds of thing are what the Taliban in Afghanistan do.
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    format_quote Originally Posted by Zarmina View Post
    I agree, government shouldn't go around cracking down on people. Those kinds of thing are what the Taliban in Afghanistan do.
    they only being sued nothing else...
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    format_quote Originally Posted by Zarmina View Post
    I agree, government shouldn't go around cracking down on people. Those kinds of thing are what the Taliban in Afghanistan do.
    Well... they would be caught red handed along with the food they eat (as evidence), later they would be brought to the lock-up in the police station. Then being produced in front of a sharia Court judge... the punishment is only paying fine. We have no Hudood laws here.

    And they're being caught as they're eating in the public, not in secluded places.

    I think 99% of Muslims want this kind of enforcement during Ramadan, why?:-

    1) Almost all Muslims in Malaysia observe Ramadan (including those who didnt perform salah)

    2) A Muslim eating in the public during Ramadan gives bad image of Muslims and Islam to the Non Muslims.

    3) A Muslim eating in the public during Ramadan gives bad example for 6 year old kids who are starting to observe Ramadan.

    4) Religious Authority message: "If you dont want to observe Ramadan, it's between you and God, but if you openly doing it, it's our job to get you!!"
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    one of my friend said that she no someone not fast only because he is in a non muslimcountry and he is alone in the house (what an excuse!!!)

    and about kids fasting, I think we have to teach them little by little about fast. for example, we can let them fast half day not the whole when they are 9. or we can let them fast on the day off.

    I was fast half day when I was 8 or 9 (I did not remember).
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    Re: 12 Excuses why some Muslims don’t fast

    format_quote Originally Posted by Zarmina View Post
    I agree, government shouldn't go around cracking down on people. Those kinds of thing are what the Taliban in Afghanistan do.


    Actually as far as I am aware it is haram for Muslims to eat in public in an Islamic state in Ramadhan.

    We shouldn't be labelling things right or wrong with out knowledge, because we might actually be condemning a command of Allah while we are ignorant of it.
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