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    Peace and greetings to everyone.

    Are you emotionally attached to forums?

    For example, someone really goes hard on you, and makes you feel like a right loser, you treat it like it really happened to you. Or the classic example is if a female member says something sweet about you, you get really chuffed and treat it like the hot girl next door just popped round and said the same things about you to your mother.

    I know I am. I can't help it. I'm very emotionally attached to forums.

    There's no other poll options other than 'Yes' and 'No'. It's a straight answer, no but's and if's.
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    Re: Emotionally Attached

    Salaam,

    Yes I do I have to admit that I am emotionally attached to forums. I don't want to be but yet i cannot help it! It can be one of your friends on the forum that may say something that may offend you and they have no way of knowing it. Or when there's a whole thread a everybody's participating in it, but yet you feel left out. That's the main reason why I really don't want to get involved with forum. Obviously when we post we start making friends and those friends can end up hurting you. Or when you wanna say a complement to a brother but someone else might take it for flirting... goddd i hate that. That's why I'm reserved and I act like how a muslimah is supposed to act. I don't like acting wild.
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    nah man sorry i just dont give the damn, know what i mean?

    p.s. bet my £20, this thread is gonna get closed
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    Re: Emotionally Attached

    Peace.

    Danish, obviously you can't see the light of this poll. With members letting other members know how they interact with forums, it should help members to further proof their posts.
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    Re: Emotionally Attached

    Or the classic example is if a female member says something sweet about you, you get really chuffed and treat it like the hot girl next door just popped round and said the same things about you to your mother.

    ha ha
    dnt tell me u do that
    NEVER DO THAT!




    i used to be like that
    at the age of ..what 16 -17 ? not long ago
    not anymore
    u grow out of it
    u have to realise its not real
    its just a sqaure called the computer.
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    Your one smile takes it for free.Rumi
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    honestly...............NOWAY!

    subhanallah, im here to learn! To interact with muslim brothers and sisters so that i may gain from their knowledge and inshallah they may gain from mine.

    :sister:

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    Re: Emotionally Attached

    format_quote Originally Posted by h1jabi_sista View Post


    honestly...............NOWAY!

    subhanallah, im here to learn! To interact with muslim brothers and sisters so that i may gain from their knowledge and inshallah they may gain from mine.

    :sister:

    same here:aliencool
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    Re: Emotionally Attached



    Yes, but only to this forum. As i dont go on to many forums just 2 beside this one, (halo and photoshop related).
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    Do not argue with your Lord on behalf of your soul, rather argue with your soul on behalf of your Lord.” - Dhul-Nun

    "It is the very pursuit of happiness that thwarts happiness." - Victor Frankl
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    Re: Emotionally Attached

    salaamz...
    yeh same ere bro....
    am also emotionally attatched 2 forums...
    if sum1 sez n e fin nasty...i always end up taking it 2 heart
    i dont wanna but its jus lyk dat
    take care
    w/salaamzzzzzzzzz
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    Re: Emotionally Attached



    I would imagine that everyone is emtionally attached to forums to some degree or another, since we are all living people (I hope!) behind those posts, and just because we are looking at a lifeless computer screen does not mean that we are not receiving intelligent responses through it (from real people).

    So if a member posts something offensive, we all get offended, simple as that (therefore don't do it please!)

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    funnily enough...i am...i mean if someone embarrasses me i still get kind of embarrassed even if im never going to meet them.....
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    Re: Emotionally Attached

    The Internet is merely a tool of communication. Like other forms of media, use of the Internet is regarded as a value, rather praiseworthy if for a good cause. On the other hand, like other tools, it is open to abuse. Know how to use it .

    There are so many false sects and kuffaar who have set up sites, each one portraying to reflect true Islam. This is proper harmful to those Muslims who are not very learned.

    The internet has no rule!!
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    Re: Emotionally Attached

    format_quote Originally Posted by modez View Post

    The internet has no rule!!

    As a matter of fact it does..incase if there are any rapists or murderes lurking around..


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    I will not give out personal information such as my address, telephone number, parents’ work address/telephone number, or the name and location of my school without my parents’ permission.

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    I will tell my parents right away if I come across any information that makes me feel uncomfortable.

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    I will never agree to get together with someone I "meet" online without first checking with my parents. If my parents agree to the meeting, I will be sure that it is in a public place and bring my mother or father along.

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    I will never send a person my picture or anything else without first checking with my parents.

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    I will not respond to any messages that are mean or in any way make me feel uncomfortable. It is not my fault if I get a message like that. If I do I will tell my parents right away so that they can contact the service provider.

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    I will talk with my parents so that we can set up rules for going online. We will decide upon the time of day that I can be online, the length of time I can be online and appropriate areas for me to visit. I will not access other areas or break these rules without their permission.

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    I will not give out my Internet password to anyone (even my best friends) other than my parents.

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    I will check with my parents before downloading or installing software or doing anything that could possibly hurt our computer or jeopardize my family’s privacy

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    I will be a good online citizen and not do anything that hurts other people or is against the law.

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    I will help my parents understand how to have fun and learn things online and teach them things about the Internet, computers and other technology.
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    I meant that in a totally different way. lol
    Tell me u didn't go in to all that bother, typing, for a mere little comment.
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    loll 'your' parentz must know loadzzz about 'you'..


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    Re: Emotionally Attached

    format_quote Originally Posted by muslimahimprovin
    u have to realise its not real
    its just a sqaure called the computer.
    REALLY?! Oh i'm glad someone told me that. Jeez, i was so close to posting a thread in the marriage forum, titled: would you marry a pc with 3.2ghz over 1.9? I SEE THE LIGHT NOW!

    Back on topic. the only forum i go on is this one ( i'm so sad, yes i know ). otherwise i'm either studyin (yeah right ) or playin pc games.
    Last edited by aamirsaab; 11-09-2005 at 09:29 PM.
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    Re: Emotionally Attached

    format_quote Originally Posted by modez View Post
    I meant that in a totally different way. lol
    Tell me u didn't go in to all that bother, typing, for a mere little comment.
    I felt that the little comment you have made is very important becuase it's true. alot fo people dont know the internet rules and they need to learn. Sonner or later.
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    warhamtulahi wabarakthu

    lol, im only attatched to islamic forums, if i am too busy to use the computer i always miss my forums lol, they just too entataning and you learn soo much about Islam which is awesome

    warhamtulahi wabarakthu
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    Danish, obviously you can't see the light of this poll. With members letting other members know how they interact with forums, it should help members to further proof their posts.
    yes...how very silly of me not to notice such an obvious thing :
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    Assalamu alaikum

    Yes, I am..

    If a member freeposts I get :mad:

    If a member contributes and posts something beneficial I get

    If a member breaks one of the rules, I start to :rant:

    format_quote Originally Posted by Muhammad
    So if a member posts something offensive, we all get offended, simple as that (therefore don't do it please!)
    'tis true, please please dont!
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