What would you select?

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Blonde and blue eyes! Hahaha... I see that daily and no, I am not surrounded by gorgeous people. :D Well, then again, beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.
 
ok

can i clarify one more time, that i really regret mentioning this beauty aspect!!!!!!!!!!!:mmokay:

tune down my preference!!, just dont want a humpback.....:cry:...is that too much to ask for.

lol ok...going off-topic, back on topic now.
 
dilkadr said:
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“A woman is married for four reasons, her wealth, lineage, status and Deen. Choose the one who is religious.” (Sahih al-Bukhari)

Well, it says choose the one who is religious... But, in present times, what would be your choice???
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(doublechecks to make sure this isn't in the sister's section...:X)

i met a divorced sister living by herself, on section 8, and with no money. she told me that she gets up everday to read 1 Juz of the Qur'an before Fajr and that she fasts every Monday and Thursday...




















we've been married for 14 months now! :thumbs_up

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^MashaAllah Bro

I would Choose Someone Whos is Always By My Side No matter What Happens , the One Who Forgives , The One Who Is Full Of Imaan , Full Of Knowledge and is Loyal and Beautiful (inner And Outer) Like Me Oke ?Naah Just Kiddin:D
But No Seriously Deen Is Very Important , Even If Its The Most Beautiful Woman In The Universe But Has Not a Single Imaan or Deen I wouldnt Marry Her :)
 
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I would go for attraction first (in the case of an already regular practicing Hijabi) becuase I don't want to leave off a nice pious sister simply because I realize that I'm not attracted to her..to me that's like choosing something material over something much more valuable. Like wise, I wouldn't marry a supermodel sister if she lacked in the deen department. So its gotta be both, Insha'Allaah. The more of either quality the better. And if she has wealth and lineage along with that, that would be perfect. :D
 
Ahmedjunior said:
^ brother i feel you are asking for too much
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:sl: bro,

Do you mean in regards to lineage and wealth? You're probably right. But those personally don't matter to me in the least. If my wife has it, then its a plus. If she doesn't, then it's no problem. But I don't think its too much if one wants to look for a sister that has both beauty and deen.
 
Salaam !deen ,piety is above evrything long lasting , beauty is a temporary thing and if we are trying 2 be good muslims and striving for jannah definitly! we should obey hadithThe Prophet said Sallahlahualihaywassalm , "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers. Narrated Abu Huraira: Volume 7, Book 62, Number 27:
 
akhee, just a question, you keep saying 'simple', what do u mean simple???
low maintenance:X lol. or somebody who is not too extravagant in their habits, looks, ideas etc...

i dont get what simple means :?:-[
 
dilkadr said:
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“A woman is married for four reasons, her wealth, lineage, status and Deen. Choose the one who is religious.” (Sahih al-Bukhari)

Well, it says choose the one who is religious... But, in present times, what would be your choice???
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:wasalamex:,

Astaghfirullah, the hadith been has been quoted wrongly, but no one noticed (EDIT: Except sis Sahabiyaat :O ) since it's too well known, huhu.

Hadith Al-Bukhari - Narrated Abu Huraira:
The Prophet (Sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam) said, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty and her religion. So you should marry the religious woman (otherwise) you will be a losers.

Haha you better marry the religious one or you'll be a loser, I laugh at all the losers!! ;D *runs away*

Wassalam.
 
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