What would you ask a potential partner?

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what they expect in a wife, how much money they are making and if they can support me cos im not working :p

just kidding. TBH i dont know it depends on the person and how im talking to them and if im nervous or not :?
 
Sabeeha said:
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Brothers and Sisters in Islam,

Seeing that there are quite a few marriage threads around, i'll add one...

What questions would you ask a potential partner?

This question has been on my mind for a while, and i know that it will depend on the persons but, on the whole which are questions that will help you get a better understanding of the person and his/her likes or dislikes?
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Ask him where he sees himself in 10 years time you'll know if the answers right.
 
I plan to follow up my "marriage one" poll thread with a questionnaire survey. If you guys interested in having your questions included, let me know :)
 
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ive been awake since 6:30 and i feel a bit giddy so bear with me LI!

All these serious questions are asked when youve known the person for a while and are comfortable with telling everything about yourself. Otherwise in the beginning its all giggling and looking down, and joking around and not getting to the point.

anyhow, what would i ask.............................................. ^o)

i would ask most of the questions people have mentioned about deen/education/ likes/dislikes/habits.

Usually you cant get a word out when they just sit and stare at you and smile serenely, and you have to say could you please stop doing that man :skeleton:
 
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Sahabiyaat said:
Usually you cant get a word out when they just sit and stare at you and smile serenely, and you have to say could you please stop doing that man :skeleton:
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and you have to be all polite and not roll your eyes and say what are you looking at? :p :rolleyes:

i hope i never have to do that
 
What would trigger you to embark on a physical Jihad?
What do you do for the Ummah?
Can you cook?
How often do you attend the barber shop?
 
SubhanAllah, jazakAllah for your suggestions :) things went well Alhamdulilah. two questions I was asked took me by surprise so thought I'd add them here:

1/ Do you like swimming? ( :? I think this was mainly because he liked swimming I think)
2/ What are your bad habits? (was totally speechless to this so left it to my dad lol)
 
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I have a few on my head that I know I'd ask..but they've been already mentioned in some form or another already..and some interesting ones too that I hadn't thought of before.
 
a question akhee junior would ask;

Number one lady, just tell me if you roll ur eyes, because i just cant stand women who roll their eyes, if you roll ur eyes just once, you aint gna have none to roll.You got that!

*someone will be staying single for a very very long time to come* :D
 
Sahabiyaat said:
a question akhee junior would ask;

Number one lady, just tell me if you roll ur eyes, because i just cant stand women who roll their eyes, if you roll ur eyes just once, you aint gna have none to roll.You got that!

*someone will be staying single for a very very long time to come* :D
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if there's no prospect of finding a good muslimah with a pulchritudinous smile then staying single is the next best thing

and to ask a potential wife if she rolls her eyes is abt stupid....cus its natural for females to do it and so for me to hate it is trivial even though its alil annoying

even my beloved mother rolls her eyes :)
 
lol.

:D

i learnt a new word today..*looks in dictionary*...pulchritudinous; as having great beauty or appeal

its sounds like a fruit?
 

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