What would you ask a potential partner?

  • Thread starter Thread starter ~Taalibah~
  • Start date Start date
  • Replies Replies 579
  • Views Views 78K
My dad. :(
So when I move out I better be able to have a cat..
 
BNDGR said:
Asalam alaikum,
Maybe questions like:
Do you make Salat daily?
What are some of your goals for the future?
What would some of your close friends say about you?
What do you consider to be a "good marriage"?
Tell me about your family?
What are things you feel are essential in a wife?
How do you handle difficulties when they come up in life?

Generally I would like to get a true sense of what kind of person they are, and what they consider important. And if they are a practicing muslim, since this would be important if you want a strong relationship where you both can grow together in your deen.
Click to expand...

:sl: I agree, i know i am not going to sit there with 50 questions and tick them as i go on lol i be freaked out if someone did that, general open questions are quite good
 
Sabeeha said:
I thought it the women who are after the bank details.:P



:s:
Lol, thats true! That kinda what happened to my friend.
Click to expand...

I think Sabeeha is talking about me:embarrass Thing is, i think girls should limit their q's to 5 if u don't hav limited time. Ok, so there are alot of stuff u need to now, so why not ask after the guy proposes?
Some guys find it suffocating and u may come off as a very talkative or inquisitive person. Not good.
:peace:
 
The only question I would want to ask a potential marriage partner, before he saw me, was which one was more important to him......beauty or being religously committed. Depending on that answer, to me, all the rest are just details that can be worked out together in time.
 
Sabeeha said:
:sl:

Brothers and Sisters in Islam,

Seeing that there are quite a few marriage threads around, i'll add one...

What questions would you ask a potential partner?

This question has been on my mind for a while, and i know that it will depend on the persons but, on the whole which are questions that will help you get a better understanding of the person and his/her likes or dislikes?
Click to expand...


What can run but never walks, has a mouth but never talks, has a head but never weeps, and has a bed but never sleeps??

You have to make sure she has brains. :statisfie

Someone in the relationship would have to :p
 
Last edited:
crayon said:
My dad. :(
So when I move out I better be able to have a cat..
Click to expand...

It's not all fun and games. When I was in high school the weights were in the basement, where the family cat slept. Once when I was down there exercising I was doing stomach crunches. In between sets my cat strolled in and hoped on my stomach and started walking about which really tickled :ooh: Of course my laughing startles her, so out came the claws for balance:'( then once she has surveyed the situation and bit and calmed down she decided to lay down and chill there for a bit. Every time I tried to lift her up she got startled again. So there I was for like laying on the floor for like ten minutes with my fat worthless cat napping on me:D

Actually my cat is really loyal, she comes when I call her and follows me around:ooh:

I wish I could have her at school then I could walk around campus with my fat cat following me around:statisfie

Also, when she was younger she'd have a litter kittens every now and again, they were incredibly adorable, but after a few weeks I had to give them away:raging:


Actually, now that I think of it she's really getting old (for a cat). She won't be around for to many more years:cry:
 
I love cats too.
If a potential marriage partner doesnt like them/allergic, i'll not be crossing him off just because of that.^o)
 
Simply: Are you religious?

I'd have to cross them off if they said no.

Then of course make sure they arent pagan and etc.

Looks are 36% important to me, personality is 64%.

Without a personality you fail. Without looks, you are just a friend.:p
 
:sl:

you would ask and find out things about her, usual stuff, what she likes doing, what she doing etc

It all depends what you the individual is looking for

plz make dua for me as im looking as well
 

Similar Threads

Back
Top