husband and wife

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J.U.N.I.O.R said:
^ men not admitting they are wrong comes back to the way women act....for example if a man admits to wrong doing, then the woman will pick up on that and use it habitually either as a way of getting something she really wants (a form of blackmail),to use the husband's hiccup to win future arguments......or even worse revealing the shameful information to the masses to ridicule

so what if we men conceal our mistakes?!?.......women are very manipulative and are very dangerous creatures in my eyes.....reason being that they are the only species that ply trade on man’s greatest weakness


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Lord have mercy, finally i know why men never admit their mistakes! So thats what you think!

This is how i would react if my husband admitted to a mistake.

1) All my anger would immediately go, or slowly.
2) I would become relaxed and happy that the tension between us is over
3) and i would forget all about it!

I would rather keep it in my heart if he did not admit to the mistake!

as for the topic; punishemnt? if my husband stopped speaking to me, that would be the worst punishemnt for me.When your upset, just say it.dont mope around making the other person more confused, it just creates more tension, more misunderstandings and becomes a bigger mess.Trust me, in any relationship, when you just say what on your mind, clarigy and discuss it, and if need be, apologise, problems over!
 
Alhamdulliah i am a kindhearted man.Some men and women are nice to strangers or friends when they r at their home they display differnt unusual behaviour.Their friends praise them outside and their spouses are punished inside.
 
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Sahabiyaat said:
Lord have mercy, finally i know why men never admit their mistakes! So thats what you think!

This is how i would react if my husband admitted to a mistake.

1) All my anger would immediately go, or slowly.
2) I would become relaxed and happy that the tension between us is over
3) and i would forget all about it!

I would rather keep it in my heart if he did not admit to the mistake!

as for the topic; punishemnt? if my husband stopped speaking to me, that would be the worst punishemnt for me.When your upset, just say it.dont mope around making the other person more confused, it just creates more tension, more misunderstandings and becomes a bigger mess.Trust me, in any relationship, when you just say what on your mind, clarigy and discuss it, and if need be, apologise, problems over!
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I totally agree with you, on everything you said. That's how I'd react in both the situations you've described.

Secondly, all these generalisations are quite unfair - to both men and women. 'Most men are like this...', 'Most women are like this...'. How about you wait and see what person you end up with, and treat them as an individual? And to the people who are already married, I can assure you that not all men/women are like that. We can only really say 'most' when we've dealt with all men or women, or we have solid evidence that proves that. And I don't think the limited socialisations we've experienced counts as solid evidence. Allaah Knows best.
 
Alrighty!
Wow, this is a very interesting topic.

Ok so this is how I would handle the situation. If my wife had done something that I had forbidden her to do, I would first ask her why she had done it. There’s a slight chance that she did it cuz of what I had done. Maybe I did something to upset her and she did it to get my attention. Allahu a3lam

So anyways, after asking her, I would try my best to be reasonable and understandable. And hopefully inshallah after our little chat and making up, things would turn to normal and this little incident would be forgotten.
 
i think a man and wife should talk about what borthers them both, i also think that they should pick and choose thier battles not fight over all
 

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