wa alaikum asalam wr wb
Bro, I STRONGLY suggest you to listen to the lectures of scholars to get the proper answers to your questions. If you got all these questions from non muslims, then I suggest you to visit
www.answering-christianity.com where you can find ALL the answers against such allegations
Wasnt one of Muhammad sws wife like 9 years old, why would htat happen? isnt she just a little girl? isnt that like child like marriege something?
Well you should also remember that Aisha(ra) was already engaged to someone else at that age. so marriage was BOUND to happen. Besides it was Allah(swt) who chose Aisha(ra) for the prophet(saw) and if you look at how many hadiths were transmitted by Aisha(ra), you could figure out why the marriage happened. You should remember the culture followed 1400+ yrs ago was so different. Well something that NEVER gets the limelight is the fact that prophet(saw) married an older lady Khadija(ra)!!! It would help better if you read about what happened in non-muslim societies back then till now. so here you go:
http://www.answering-christianity.com/aisha.htm
Oh Well I forgot to mention that in those days in non muslim society, if a husband dies, then the wife becomes a property of the father in law. so you can imagine how different the culture was that time. child marriage happened in India until 200 yrs back. Infact if a female child was widowed at an early age, they would even shave the girl's head and she is pretty much a walking dead body. So if this was happening until the 18th century, imagine how sick 6th century would have been when it comes to treating women! Islam is the one religion that made the life of women and slaves much easier.
So in the quran it says those who disbelieve christian and jews will go to hell, but then it says the christians and jews will be questioned by their books?
I guess this question has a typo. I will take it as "those who disbelieve in Allah and don't accept Muhammed(saw) as the final messenger" or rather kafirs"
The books given to christians and jews have got corrupted and that is the obvious reason for the revealations of the Quran. So the *books* referred to here are the *original* ones and not the ones used by christians and jews now. for more:
http://www.answering-christianity.com/jesus_in_islam.htm
When it says in one ayat i forgot that kill the disbelievers when u see them? and does islam allow slavery?
If you are gonna ask such a serious question, you should come up with the exact Ayah!!! anyways lets go by logic here.. If this was indeed true, why would the prophet, after victory over the Quraish and after entering Makkah, would forgive all the kafirs? When Omar(ra) first conquered Jerusalem, he refused to offer prayer inside a church. Doesnt that show how tolerant islam is against other faiths? During the initial phase of revealation (before hijrah), muslims were severely persecuted in Makkah. Did any muslim ever kill a kafir?
Islam is the only religion that brought respect to the slaves. This can be seen from how after the conquest of Makkah, Prophet(SAW) asked Bilal (who was a slave and a black african slave, which was EVEN WORSE in the eyes of Quraish), to do the Adhan in Kaaba? Further there is a story about how a sahabi and his slave used to wear the same kind of dress and have the same kind of food. I dont think this can happen EVEN now. Just for the record, you should look at how slavery is still prevalent. so here is another link for you:
http://magma.nationalgeographic.com/ngm/0309/feature1/index.html
Also why do you beat your wife with like 100 lashes if she isnt obediant to u?
I find this question too offensive and naive. There is a way to ask questions. Did you even bother to show one concrete proof before making such allegations? But anyways, just for the sake of answering, here you go:
http://www.answering-christianity.com/beating.htm
Also you should look at how the Prophet(saw) treated his wives.
Does the hadith contradict the Quran?
Hadiths are like sea. You wont find an answer for such a question. I would suggest you to do strong research. I haven't come across a hadith that outrightly rejects the Quran, I dont think that is ever possible. But if that ever happens, the word of Allah(swt) takes the higher precedence. but this might be an interesting read:
http://www.albalagh.net/prophethood/response_rejecters.shtml