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ooo sorry i just response to first post didn't about all these progress

god bless u and hope u have succeed life :)
 
Don't abort. This guy is making **** up as he goes along. All these religious reasons he's giving should be negated by the fact that he raped you - obviously he's not very religious and he's using Islam to his advantage. The guy is scum. Any parent that doesn't take responsibility for their creation is.
 
astukfirallah, why would a christian have a muslim boyfriend?

that is so friggen haraam omg, what the heck is wrong with people nowadays?
 
Salaam/Peace

MrKhan89 said:
astukfirallah, why would a christian have a muslim boyfriend?
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we may also ask why on earth a Muslim married man had a girlfriend ? He ruined her life .

I guess , when he will return to his wife , he will deny all the charges & will start a normal life again. But for the unwed mom , life won't be same again. In this world ,it's difficult to be a single mom specially when baby's dad is denying to give any financial support.

Let no married men stay away from wife for long when they can't control their desire. May Allah guide us all .
 
MrKhan89 said:
astukfirallah, why would a christian have a muslim boyfriend?

that is so friggen haraam omg, what the heck is wrong with people nowadays?
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Christians are allowed to have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. Unlike other cultures or religions, we see this stage to know our partner better and it doesn't mean that you are also into that "sex relation".
 
kwolney01 said:
Abortion is absolutely haram in Islam...I can't believe he would ask her to do that.

Them having a relationship is haram in the first place, he is just trying to take the "easy" way out.

InshAllah the women will not go through with it.
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huh? sorri but i've been told and always believed that abortion is allowed in islam, but it can only be done before between 12 weeks or 140 days...basically before the foetus is given a soul. may allah forgive me if im wrong.
 
pipay said:
sorry to hear your story ragdollcat. I just wish that i could be responsible enough to be a good mother to my baby amidst all the things happening to me.
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You can be responsibele and be a good mother, but you must choose to do so. If you set your mind to it you can do it.
 
MrKhan89 said:
astukfirallah, why would a christian have a muslim boyfriend?

that is so friggen haraam omg, what the heck is wrong with people nowadays?
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The problem is not with her but the Muslim guy. This sister is not Muslim but the guy she dated IS. So why are up at her?
 
Honestly, I didn't know that it's not allowed for muslims to have a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. I only came to know here in this forum.
 
How owould you know almost ALl the shieikhs and men away from families in UAE indulge themselves in relationships, most with on muslims, chritians. Thats disgusting, perhaps UAE is worse than many non muslim countries!
 
:sl: Pipay............. I am proud of you and the fact that you have made a mature decision.

InshaAllah all will be ok just look after yourself and your baby. Ameen.:bump1::w:
 
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true believer said:
.. abortion is allowed in islam, but it can only be done before between 12 weeks or 140 days...
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not sure about rape victim but I read that abortion is not allowed unless Doctor says
it's needed on mother's health ground. Yes , I heard that some scholars think it's permissible before ..as u mentioned 140 days but
I found it doubtful . There is no such verse in Quran .Is there any authentic hadith ? Not sure.

Don't want to be off topic. Pipay's friend , let us know when u return to your parents . If possible ,
don't come back in the same place where that man can come to you again.
 
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pipay said:
I have a friend, she's an unwed christian. She got pregnant by a muslim boyfriend. Her boyfriend wants the baby to be aborted, is it haraam? Should the baby be a muslim or a christian? Can somebody give advice to my friend?
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surely this is a decision for your friend and not her boyfriend.
 
I will try to transfer as soon as possible but maybe after my delivery because I'm in a very delicate situation right now as I am having a premature contraction up to now. Anyway, he will be transferring also, far from me. So this might be one way not to see each other again.
 
Salaam/Peace

pipay said:
.. So I think it would be better to go back to my country earlier than planned.
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yes , that's better . U need to stay with your family members now rather than facing all struggles alone.

Wish you a safe journey & may God forgive you . Also bless you & kid.
 
Best wishes for you and your baby from me too.
I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers and join Muslim Woman and Light of Heaven in their du'a. :)
 

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