Men desire for more than one woman

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Do you think all of the men desire more than one woman

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nocturne said:
Most men would be happy to marry one, but in their younger days probably wanted more than they can handle
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not reallly.

i know of a family friend who is old enough to be my grandad and has just married his third wife, who is prob just a teenager.....it has nothing to do with age....you men..will always be men, even if you left foot is dangling over the grave, as the saying goes!

i am suprised that so many sisters voted for men only looking/desiring/marrying (whatever) just one......i thought i was simple and deluded......lol.

men will always desire other women
some may not marry them though, for various reasons...financial, emotional, whatever..

Allah knows best what is in the hearts of men.

All i know is.....unless the man is amazingly god-fearing,..if an oppturnity is presented before him where he can marry a woman, who is desireable and he as the means to do so, he will do it.....and deal with the first wife 'mess' later on.
 
Holy moley. There's a bit of mysandry in this thread. I think it stems from the poll options:

I'm a man : i think one good woman is good enough for me
I'm a man : the more the merrier
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These choices are specifically referring to marriage as opposed to desire or lust or whatever else.

I'm a woman : they are guys out there who only look only at the one he love
I'm a woman : i think all guys desire more than one woman
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These choices are far less specific. 'I think all guys desire more than one woman' is ambiguous - it could mean 'all guys desire more than one woman as a wife' or it could mean 'all guys find more than one woman attractive, regardless of whether they intend to marry them'.

I could clarify the poll options if the thread starter would tell me her intent.
 
salam
i think one of the unfortunate new trends that if seen on the rise in the west is where a man is not true in his marriage but rather flirts with other ladies and its slowly becoming a norm.
the society we live is mostly to blame this is not why islam has allowed polygamy rather in islam a man is required to be sincere in his relationship to his wife, support her take care of her and fulfil the rights she has over him.... this is not what is taking place today if ud agree with me...
however the man is not totally to blame the wife also has a role and is she is not fulfillng the rights of her husband this can also lead to him seeking pleasure else where.
And i think that we should remember like the arabs say the mother makes a nation!
may Allah show us the truth and give us the ability to act upon it.
 
Sahabiyaat said:
i am suprised that so many sisters voted for men only looking/desiring/marrying (whatever) just one......i thought i was simple and deluded......lol.
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I believe the option said '...there are guys out there...', meaning not all, or even a substantial percentage... just simply some men. Therefore, unless some of the brothers in this thread are lying (which out of husnu adh-dhann I assume they aren't), that statement is true.

And yeah, it would be nice if the poll was altered to reflect the exact intent of the thread starter.
 
i honestly voted for "the more the merrier", i wouldn't mind having more then 1 wife thats my truthful opinion, but! saying that i dont mean i wouldnt be happy with just 1 tho, if my future wife didnt want me to have another wife then i wouldn't mind at all to be honest.

May Allah Grant us all pious Wifes! ameen
 
Faizah said:
I believe the option said '...there are guys out there...', meaning not all, or even a substantial percentage... just simply some men. Therefore, unless some of the brothers in this thread are lying (which out of husnu adh-dhann I assume they aren't), that statement is true.

And yeah, it would be nice if the poll was altered to reflect the exact intent of the thread starter.
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Probably you can help me out with that... i don't think i can edit the poll.

Jazakallah khayr.
 
One women who is good is alhumdulilah enough for me:)
 
desiring more than one is all very well, but when u get one you find out its too many :D
 
:sl: Just wanted to know if any of the brothers have any self retraint and patience.................. I mean i am always being told to have subur (cos of my husbands desires for other women)............... Can it not be that the man has subur instead.............why always the women?:w::bump1:
 
because...that is just how it is.


when i see Allah i will ask him.

and he will give me a really clever anwser.

and i wont be able to anwser back! ...and ill think darn, de javu! :enough!:
 
There should have been option for: "Let me get married and then I'll get back to you on that." :D

Chose option 1 though.
 
:sl: I feel this thread is filled with too many generalisations (maybe that's just me though...)
 
One is enough. I dont see why anyone would have desire for another woman. This way of thinking only leads to self destruction imo.

Yes its human nature we are attracted to the opposite gender but one must control his desires and not fall into the trap of shaytan.

Troubled Soul
 
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E.E. said:
Whether men accept it or not, they cannot be satisfied with one woman. They need new everyday as they have more desire than women, which cannot be fulfilled by 1 woman.
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thats not actually true...my dad and younger bro are those type of "one-woman" kinda men. they simply arent the type to handle/want another one...
 
when it comes to desire, any heterosexual/bisexual guys would love to have zillions of women...

but when it comes to giving commitment (ie marriage), one woman is enough...as it's hard to maintain the expenses of one woman....and of course it'll be ultra hard to have more than one wives... :D

I'll be strictly monogamous when it comes to marriage.. Inshallah... i dont want to share my wife with others and I dont want to be shared by other women too...
 
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