enaged and marriage?

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what is difference between engaged and marriage? just explain simply rules :bump1: thanks!
 
Bub said:
what is difference between engaged and marriage? just explain simply rules :bump1: thanks!
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Well when you're married you can do whatever you want with your partner +you live together
 
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could you then say that engaged is just an intention to marry. As far as I know there is no concept of engagement within Islam as any intention can either happen or not happen as everything i up to Allah. So until you are married you are still complete strangers to each other.
 
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i guess it all depends on how you define engagment.(to me nikkah=engagement)..
i say if the couples have nikkah then they re officially married...

wallahu allam
 
Well, I got also a few questions :D actually I did not care about those things :D


When I have nikkah with the person I want to get married, can I hug her? Well, other questions will follow insha'allah :D
 
Engaged... you just plan to get married. Some people get engaged, but the marriage eventually doesn't go through. So you can't really spend all that much time together alone without the girl's mahram.

Married... you're stuck with the person :D, and can do what ever you please :).
 
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Brasco said:
Well, I got also a few questions :D actually I did not care about those things :D


When I have nikkah with the person I want to get married, can I hug her? Well, other questions will follow insha'allah :D
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Banu_Hashim said:
Engaged... you just plan to get married. Some people get engaged, but the marriage eventually doesn't go through.

Married... you're stuck with the person :D.
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She will still be your non-mahram..
 
Banu_Hashim said:
Yes... I don't know where you got that she won't be from my post ??
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Ohhh loq! Akh you're confused, I quoted you because you answered bro Brasco indirectly, I wanted him to understand that he cannot hug her until after marriage, that is EXACTLY why people shouldn't be engaged for several centuries (Exaggeration).
 
Brasco said:
The only thing, I can do to hug her, is to marry her?
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When you marry her, you get to hug her & do all sorts of extra lovvy dovvy stuff :-[, as well as completing half your deen, All the best bro!
 
Insha'allahu ta'ala, I'll marry her as soon as possible :D when we marry, is it right that we live apart. She at her parents' and me at mine?
 
Insha'allah not forever :D just as long as we finish our studies insha'allah! and then we will live together insha'allah! May allah ta'ala reward you!! :D
 
I do not think an engagement is really part of Islam in the way that people do a big celebration...I spose by engagement you mean when the two people in question have agreed to get married to each other hence they are engaged?
 
Brasco said:
Insha'allahu ta'ala, I'll marry her as soon as possible :D when we marry, is it right that we live apart. She at her parents' and me at mine?
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InshaAllaah! :statisfie Why do you wana live away from her? When you marry her she has rights to you, just as you have rights to her, theres no point in getting married if you're living away from eachother... Why don't you live together? Or bring her to your parents house?
 
sarah85 said:
I do not think an engagement is really part of Islam in the way that people do a big celebration...I spose by engagement you mean when the two people in question have agreed to get married to each other hence they are engaged?
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That's right!! she wants engagement, but to me there is no sense!! I just want marriage insha'allah! and all will be fine! :D
 
Brasco said:
That's right!! she wants engagement, but to me there is no sense!! I just want marriage insha'allah! and all will be fine! :D
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Yes it is not a good idea to delay an engagement for too long. Perhaps you should ask her what her reasons are for prolonging it and try to overcome them.
 
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InshaAllaah! :statisfie Why do you wana live away from her? When you marry her she has rights to you, just as you have rights to her, theres no point in getting married if you're living away from eachother... Why don't you live together? Or bring her to your parents house?
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I really do not want to live far away from her :( I always miss her so much :( It is just, alhamdulillah I have a big family, 8 persons, and our house is very small. There will be no place :( Of course, it would be great, if we could live together. And insha'allah after finishing our studies, we would decide where to live. :D
 
sarah85 said:
Yes it is not a good idea to delay an engagement for too long. Perhaps you should ask her what her reasons are for prolonging it and try to overcome them.
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Well, she says, it will show that we love each other :S but to me it means nothing :S but if she truly wants it, we will do it, I mean, I fine with everything unless she is happy
 

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