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Assalamou alaikoum warahmatou allah wabarakatou,

As i told you before i really want to do touba and put hijjab but at the moment i have to work to help my husband coz hes working hard an hes got a back problem and he doesnt earn enough money for our rent and food as you know life is expensive in the UK,

As you know is not easy to get a job in the UK but i find only one job as a model with agenies thy called me for work for pomotionel and editorial pictures as a model but not naked,

My questions are :
Is that haram if i work for a while making some money as a model or not?
Is allah will accept my tuba afer modelling ? because allah knows my heart

Please i need your advices

Jazkoum allah khaiyran

Your sister in islam
 
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I strongly advise you not to do modelling and I can't stress this enough. Modelling is pure filth and you are exposing your self a lot of danger which can effect your family and the relationship with your husband.

Sustinance is from Allah so ask Him. Allah says: And no moving (living) creature is there on earth but its provision is due from Allaah [Hood 11:6]

View also this thread: http://www.islamicboard.com/advice-...niece-wants-become-model.html?highlight=model
 
Akhi in islam abd-al Latif,

Thank you very much , I would like to tell you that i will not use my body for modelling but only my face and hair as the agency agreed and my husband want me to do it to help him but me as afraid from allah i dont know what to do

Jazakoum allah khaiyran,

Your sister in islam
 
touba said:
Assalamou alaikoum warahmatou allah wabarakatou,

As i told you before i really want to do touba and put hijjab but at the moment i have to work to help my husband coz hes working hard an hes got a back problem and he doesnt earn enough money for our rent and food as you know life is expensive in the UK,

As you know is not easy to get a job in the UK but i find only one job as a model with agenies thy called me for work for pomotionel and editorial pictures as a model but not naked,

My questions are :
Is that haram if i work for a while making some money as a model or not?
Is allah will accept my tuba afer modelling ? because allah knows my heart

Please i need your advices

Jazkoum allah khaiyran

Your sister in islam
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I think this is right inshaAllah.. If your husband is available for employment but is off sick, he should be getting either Job Seekers Allowance or E.S.A (employment support allowance). You are available for work, so you should be getting Job Seekers Allowance.

If both of your status' is unemployed, you should be getting your rent paid or part paid. The same goes for council tax.

Other than that sis, there are tons of jobs and your local job centre will be able to help and advise you.

If you think you are not getting the right help or may be entitled to more benefits, go to you nearest neighbourhood office or C.A.B (citizens advice bureau). But please, please, whatever you do, don't turn to haram means to earn a living.

Food, living costs, are only as expensive as we make them. Eat simple and dress simple and living costs needn't reach the skies.
 
touba said:
Akhi in islam abd-al Latif,

Thank you very much , I would like to tell you that i will not use my body for modelling but only my face and hair as the agency agreed and my husband want me to do it to help him but me as afraid from allah i dont know what to do

Jazakoum allah khaiyran,

Your sister in islam
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Sister, it's not allowed for you to show your hair and pose for pictures in front of strange men. Have sabr and find a decent job. Even factory work if you have to.
 
Sister jannah,

Thank you very much , My husband still working but because of his sickness he doesnt work long to make enough money for us, My husband doesnt want me to do any other jobs as for him he will not be with me and for him modelling is a something he can be with me when im modelling and he really want me to do it but me im lost i dont know what to do wallah ,

Jazaki allah khaiyran,

Your sister in islam
 
touba said:
Akhi in islam abd-al Latif,

Thank you very much , I would like to tell you that i will not use my body for modelling but only my face and hair as the agency agreed and my husband want me to do it to help him but me as afraid from allah i dont know what to do

Jazakoum allah khaiyran,

Your sister in islam
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Either way, don't do it. If you are in UK you can seek benefits for your husband from the government such as disability allowance and income support etc.

If you are in the UK then PM me and i'll walk you through the things that can help you.
 
Are you trying to make me laugh?

Your husband doesn't want you to work where he can't watch over you, but is willing to let you work in a field where men will definitely be watching you and when published, be having disgusting thoughts about you?
 
Akh abd latif,

It will not be enough because we had so much credit to pay


Jazaka allah khayrain


Your sister in islam
 
touba said:
Akh abd latif,

It will not be enough because we had so much credit to pay


Jazaka allah khayrain


Your sister in islam
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The government can help you regardless. They can give you disability/income support, a council house (if you are renting your home - which is way cheaper then the rent of normal houses) and a mobility scheme vehicle (i.e. a free car).
 
Akh abdelatif,

But who can pay our bank loan

Your sister in islam
 
Salaam sister.

Have you spoke to your family members about this? Maybe they can help you with this loan.

Pray five times a day. Allah will surely help you if your patient.
 
Sister,

If our family had a money they could help us but unfortunatley they dont have maalassaf

Your sister in islam
 
Did you contact the bank and discussed your current situation? Certain banks are quite flexible and do offer alternatives way to pay off loans from what I heard.

I suggest you should contact Citizens Advice Bureau. They may be able to give you some financial advice.
 
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Assalaamu Alaykum sister,

Try explaining to your husband that Haram earnings will not contain blessings and it is even one of the causes that prevent du'a from being answered.

Also, Allaah (swt) must be obeyed above everyone else. If you truly want His pleasure, then avoid the sin from the beginning, because you never know whether you will get the chance to repent afterwards or what further evil it might lead to.

May Allaah (swt) protect us, Aameen.
 
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Sis I understand you're stressing but there is no obeying your husband in doing haraam and disobeying Allah. Be it your body, hair, face, you cannot expose yourself to the public like that and especially other men. I'm shocked that your husband is wanting u to do this? Doesn't it bother him and yourself that all these men are watching you and feasting off your beauty?

Doing haram won't get you halal earning. I advise you to find a different job ukhti inshaAllah :)
 
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Sis I understand you're stressing but there is no obeying your husband in doing haraam and disobeying Allah. Be it your body, hair, face, you cannot expose yourself to the public like that and especially other men. I'm shocked that your husband is wanting u to do this? Doesn't it bother him and yourself that all these men are watching you and feasting off your beauty?

Doing haram won't get you halal earning. I advise you to find a different job ukhti inshaAllah :)
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Sister,

You are right ,My husband think as he will be with me i will be safe thats why.

Jazaki allah khaiyran

Your sister in islam
 

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