marriage question

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sanah said:
but if he was sent down for the reformation of man kind, by god, then how else is god supposed to speak to him/ help him etc.?
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Ok looks like you're falling for these lies, this mirza ghulam was a cripple, he was soo cursed that he'd have to crap more than 20 times a days

you can see the kufr all over his face

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his lies will earn him alot of something on the day of judgement
 
aadil77 said:
Ok looks like you're falling for these lies, this mirza ghulam was a cripple, he was soo cursed that he'd have to crap more than 20 times a days

you can see the kufr all over his face



his lies will earn him alot of something on the day of judgement
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im sorry, but how do you see kufr on someones face?
 
sis just give it up, do live near middlesborough by the way? its full of them, where this movement mostly started
 
sanah said:
lol i have no idea where middlesborough is.

apparently though, they're all over the world.
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they're not all over the world, their kufr has only spread in a hand full of countries mostly, india, pakistan, bangladesh etc

I doubt their population is even in the millions
 
aadil77 said:
they're not all over the world, their kufr has only spread in a hand full of countries mostly, india, pakistan, bangladesh etc

I doubt their population is even in the millions
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theres a big community in the UK, in the USA and Canada as well. (from what ive found doing my research)

their population is in millions, i think someone was saying around 22 million. i will find out the exact figure for you though.
 
sanah said:
theres a big community in the UK, in the USA and Canada as well. (from what ive found doing my research)

their population is in millions, i think someone was saying around 22 million. i will find out the exact figure for you though.
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Compared to more than 1800 million muslims, its nothing, but even then most of their population is in the jahil countries I've already mentioned

Sis you came here for islamic advice, we gave it to you now its up to you if you want to rebel against Allah and do it your own way or stick to the islamic way. If you do decide to go for the haraam option then remember Allah can and probably will screw you over at anytime, don't expect an all happy days marriage. I've seen the most unfortunate deaths in ahmadi/qadiani families, keep it mind.
 
^ im sorry but what does 'jahil' mean?

and thankyou for your advice. i'll try my best to adhere to to islam and its principles as much as possible.

thankyou
 
jahil means ignorant.

I hope that Allah helps you and keeps you strong in following the correct path. Ameen.
 
Sis you came here for islamic advice, we gave it to you now its up to you if you want to rebel against Allah and do it your own way or stick to the islamic way. If you do decide to go for the haraam option then remember Allah can and probably will screw you over at anytime, don't expect an all happy days marriage. I've seen the most unfortunate deaths in ahmadi/qadiani families, keep it mind.
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Snap.
 
Sister, you keep on saying that he is good at heart and he calls himself a Muslim.

But many of the Christians I know are, at least to all discernible appearances good at heart. If one of them chose to call himself Muslim, without changing any of his beliefs or practices, it does not make him a Muslim. And, Muslim women are forbidden to marry kafir men
 
My dear, you say you want answers, people have given you the answer, again and again. He is not considered a muslim, so any marriage contract you have with him is considered invalid. The fact that you don't like this answer doesn't negate that it's there. What it seems like is you having a set opinion in your head, and coming here for our approval. Whatever we say will not convince you if your mind is already made up. The decision is up you now, no one can force you to do anything, it's your choice whether to to marry him or let him go. My post may sound harsh, but it's the truth.
 
Sis your parents would not say no without a good reason, ask them, if there say no, ask them why and im sure there'll explain it all, probally whats already been said on here
 
the truth is that a lot of ahmadis who marry sunni women then go on to marry ahmad women and destroy the lives of the sunni women. not to mention all the children being raised as ahmadis. a lot of sunni wives of ahmadis end up on sleeping pills cuz they can't sleep. do you want a life like that? stay away from ahmadis. they are kuffaar and they have no good intentions toward real muslims.
 
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A great thread, I wanted to know about Ahmadis and got very useful info here. Jazakallah Khair All.

Now sister, apart from the Ahmadi thing there's this thing called Love and its so strong that people devote each others' lives for it to one another. When you are in love, even if your beloved makes a mistake, you overlook it regardless whether its rare or regular. Most marriages that are set by the bride and groom themselves end up in divorce and there's the unneccessary drama that people bring upon themselves of heart-break (absolutely shattering). So firstly getting married on your instinct without any regard to the deen will be a big mistake and later you won't be able to do anything but regret (Allah forbid).

So come to terms with the fact, you being a believer of one God and his LAST messenger Muhammad (SallAllahu Alayhi Wasallam) cannot marry him. If he wants to marry you, ask him to give up his creed and start learning under a sunni sheikh. Alhamdulillah, Allah guided your parents to say no to this and you to seek guidance for this issue.
May Allah guide you and him to the path of Muhammad :saws:
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sanah said:
hes ahmaddi.

he says that they don't beleive in another rasul. they beleive in the reformer..
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Do they beleive this reformer got revealation from Allah ? If yes , then it contradicts holy Quran as Muhammed (pbuh) is the last messenger and no new revealation will come to anyone else.

Pl. learn more about them and ask Allah to guide you .
 
sanah said:
but if he was sent down for the reformation of man kind, by god, then how else is god supposed to speak to him/ help him etc.?
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woah woah woah did he tell you this??? If so then this is not correct sister, to believe that this Mirza guy was sent down by god for the reformation of man isn't right. DO NOT BE FOOLED BY THIS

Was not the prophet pbuh sent down to reform mankind also aswell as many other things??? does this mean he wasn't classed as a messenger of God???

it sounds like all he's doing is replacing the word "messenger" with reformer to trick you.

If someone is sent by God then is he not a messenger from God to the peoplee HUH?????? whether it be to reform the people or whatever reason he is sent he is still classified as a messenger from god isn't he???

because he's sent from God!!!!!!

it's so clear this is kufr, sister to believe another man is sent from God after the final prophet is KUFUR. except if that man is Isa or the mahdi. and mirza was none of those.

so even if they believe he was sent as a reformer from god that still means they believe he was a messenger of god doesn't it???

Your parents are wise alhamdulilah for not letting you marry this man. You are still youthful and unexperienced with men.

Your not the first girl who's been taken in by a guy who it's haraam for her to marry, hence Islam doesn't allow free mixing.

I understand you do not have much islamic knowledge but isn't that all the more reason to believe us when we say we know what we're talking about and it's haraam to marry him.
 
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squiggle said:
.... to believe that this Mirza guy was sent down by god for the reformation of man isn't right. DO NOT BE FOOLED BY THIS.......
it sounds like all he's doing is replacing the word "messenger" with reformer to trick you..
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Exactly :exhausted
 
:sl: sister.

Whether he says reformer/messenger isn't the issue. Prophet Muhammad(saw) was the seal for this deen and no one is meant to come with anything. Allah(swt) says in the Qur'aan that he has perfected this deen for us. So what's the deal with Ghulam Ahmed coming as a reformer? Would Allah(swt) not have mentioned something as HUGE as this? Think about it. If he was such a reformer and here to bring people to the final message brought the Prophet Muhammad(saw), then he wouldn't have had such a lousy and filthy life. Read on his life and you'll realize it's not reformer worthy.

I suggest you do not get caught up in his nonsense. If you are truly concerned about your deen, you will think about it InshaAllah. Ultimately the decision is on you, but we tell you cuz we care and would rather not see you make such a mistake. If possible, you may try and give him information on Islam the right way or even bring him here.

May Allah(swt) guide us all and keep you safe from harm sister, Ameen.

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