me and my husband and him

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touba said:
Assalamou alaikoum,

Even when my husband told him we will move because we need a place only for us he still want to keep us in his an other house telling my husband please i can give you a place by your selves in my other house , Yarabbi even with that hes involving wallah i never see somebody like that in my life , The problem so many people moved from his place but he doesnt begin them to stay like he does to us .
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oh God.. pls sis be careful. and try to move no matter if he has another house for only you and husband, because he will still be your landlord. tell him to stay the hell away from you and to stop being around you like the whole time and to stop telling your husband bad things about you, and InshaAllah may Allah give you courage and may Allah keep you and your husband save from this no good person who seems to be ruining you and your husband's relationship.
 
Afg said:
oh God.. pls sis be careful. and try to move no matter if he has another house for only you and husband, because he will still be your landlord. tell him to stay the hell away from you and to stop being around you like the whole time and to stop telling your husband bad things about you, and InshaAllah may Allah give you courage and may Allah keep you and your husband save from this no good person who seems to be ruining you and your husband's relationship.
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Assalamou alaikoum ,

Sister we will move soon inshallah because i dont want to see him around us only we are afraid after we move our letters will still come to his address and may be he will destroy it or may be he will contact us to bring it to us as excuse to get close to us again , Allah help us inshallah to be far from this man.

Jazaki allah khayiran
 
Assalamualikum

Its too bad.Really It angered me.I badly hate these kind of people.There is a lot of private things between the spouses and he has no right to interfere in it.Tell your husband to leave that house and find a good place to live in and ask Allah for help.
And if he forces for something, leave to the law.He has nothing to with your issues, pregnancy and wishes.
I would like to just.....now I cant say something bad..!
Is he a Muslim?
 
Aslam alaikum

I truly loathe such people weather they are Muslim or not.
 
MMohammed said:
Assalamualikum

Its too bad.Really It angered me.I badly hate these kind of people.There is a lot of private things between the spouses and he has no right to interfere in it.Tell your husband to leave that house and find a good place to live in and ask Allah for help.
And if he forces for something, leave to the law.He has nothing to with your issues, pregnancy and wishes.
I would like to just.....now I cant say something bad..!
Is he a Muslim?
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Alaikoum salam,

Yes brother hes a muslim and hes praying but i dont know what happen to him with me ?

believe me if he was a woman landlord and she does this i would think that shes jalous or after my husband but hes the man and i dont understand why hes after ?
 
abu_musab461 said:
lol

deposit?

plus its not allowed?

squiggle needs 10 lashes :p
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lol hmmm those things seemed to have escaped my young inexperienced mind, :statisfie

sister if a lady landlord did the same thing, you'd think she was jealous and after your husband wouldn't you as you just said. So isn't it possible that this male landlord is jealous and after you :raging:

There are many places to rent just get away from him as soon as possible, and don't worry about letters all you have to do is phone up every 1 you can think of and tell them your new address. And if you don't remember to update them about your address then they can't be that important :p

bank, doctor surgery, hospital, water company, electric company, internet company, phone company. that's it , then your good to go ;D

try talking to your husband also and maybe telling him you don't feel safe with that land lord around cos he gives you the creeps.
 
touba said:
Alaikoum salam,

Yes brother hes a muslim and hes praying but i dont know what happen to him with me ?

believe me if he was a woman landlord and she does this i would think that shes jalous or after my husband but hes the man and i dont understand why hes after ?
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Walikum Assalam.
Tell him about Islam.And move as quickly as you can.
He may be interested in you(Because you stated that he asks your husband of your pregnancy etc).Your husband should help you.
Best of lucks..
 
squiggle said:
lol hmmm those things seemed to have escaped my young inexperienced mind, :statisfie

sister if a lady landlord did the same thing, you'd think she was jealous and after your husband wouldn't you as you just said. So isn't it possible that this male landlord is jealous and after you :raging:

There are many places to rent just get away from him as soon as possible, and don't worry about letters all you have to do is phone up every 1 you can think of and tell them your new address. And if you don't remember to update them about your address then they can't be that important :p

bank, doctor surgery, hospital, water company, electric company, internet company, phone company. that's it , then your good to go ;D

try talking to your husband also and maybe telling him you don't feel safe with that land lord around cos he gives you the creeps.
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Assalamou alaikoum,

My husband is very naive person, when i told him about why this landlord insist that we stay with him my husband replied me because he likes me as a brother my husband doesnt know wheres the danger because hes using my husband and talking to him with a religious way
 
Do you have a contact with your other family members?Like Brothers and Male Cousins?
They Can help you if your Husband is naive.
This world is really selfish.
 
MMohammed said:
Do you have a contact with your other family members?Like Brothers and Male Cousins?
They Can help you if your Husband is naive.
This world is really selfish.
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Assalamou alaikoum,

Brother only me and my husband we live in UK , all my family are living abroad
 
Dont Worry.Keep Asking to Allah and live in a new safe place.And tell your husband about him and discuss about him in private.
We all are with you.
 
He told my husband i will give you a place in my other house but dont tell your wife it is my house coz she will refuse look at him shaytan a3ozo billah
 
Wow, a husband who allows another non-Mahram man in the house. Be FIRM with him. You can't walk around in the house where you should find peace and comfort as a married couple, you must always observe the hijab, 'cause that man might pop up out of nowhere. Horrible situation!
 
Al-Zaara said:
Wow, a husband who allows another non-Mahram man in the house. Be FIRM with him. You can't walk around in the house where you should find peace and comfort as a married couple, you must always observe the hijab, 'cause that man might pop up out of nowhere. Horrible situation!
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He will not live with us but he will be the landlord to come bothering us all the time and put fitna in my husband mind thats hes job now
 
if it was me i would beat him up then he wont say anything like this to any 1 and who the hell is he telling ur husband those thing and why would ur husband tell him something back and the landlord got something i his mind so i sudgest find another place or tell ur husband to teach him some manors
 
touba said:
Assalamou alaikoum wa rahmatou allah taala wa barakatou,

Me and my husband we are living as a tenants and the landlord live with us in the same house hes a man , The problem is this landlord always when we decided to move out he ask my husband to stay even he doesnt ask other people to stay only us and always telling my husband to not give your wife value to not listen to your wife and asking my husband about my privacy is your wife pregenant is she had a pregancy test , he really made fitna between me and my husband, i dont understand why he involved in my life and why he doesnt do that to other people ,everyday asking my husband about me and hes telling my husband why not to not let her come cook for my tenants and my husband said no im jalous i cannot let my wife cook for your tenants ,and so many things, could somebody explain to me whats going on i really get crazy of the situation please any advice thank you

Jazakoum allah khaiyran
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This guy sounds like a total creep!
LEt you cook for him and his tenants? What next have you go and clean house for him?

Seriously it sounds as though he has serious mental problems, I don't like to say this on such scant evidence but i sounds to me as though he has some sort of fixation on you. This cooking for him and his tenants might that be similar to what a wife might do? Not sure about your culture.
His actions in suggesting a move to where you would not know he was the landlord seems very odd, also his suggestions that seem to denigrate your honesty and truthfullness, this don't trust her bit, gives rise to a whole raft of possible explanations, none of them good, but why would he want to make it so your husband does not trust your word nd judgement, only if you are going to testify against him.

Girl my immediate thought is go somewhere else, presto allegro, my second and third thoughts only add the word quickly.
 
sister touba which place are you from ?.

i think you should leave that house , sorry to hear when people do this stuff
 
just move away from him, it's not like there's a shortage of properties that are for rent. There's many properties that are for rent just find another 1.
 

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