me and my husband and him

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Assalamou alaikoum sisters and brothers,

Im happy to share with you my problems because i have no family and no friends here in the UK.Jazakoum allah khayiran,

Today the landlord stop my internet connexion as revenge because he knows we will move hes panic, one thing i dont understand why my husband does not take any action against the landlord and hes so nice to him because they are from same country origin,

An other problem is that my husband force me to move to an other place which there is a girl i didnt like her behave and i really dont know what to do , Im crying all the time and i feel alone with my tears.My husband is a muslim but hes not practising and he likes to look at the women but not flirt but if a man looking at me is a big problem for him and he get up set but me im not allowed to get up set.

Jazakoum allah khaiyran
 
your not alone sis, why don't you go masjid and talk to some sisters if you feel alone.

alhamdulilah it's good you are moving no more creepy landlord.
 
squiggle said:
your not alone sis, why don't you go masjid and talk to some sisters if you feel alone.

alhamdulilah it's good you are moving no more creepy landlord.
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My husband doesnt let me go plus the mosque is very far from us
 
Does your husband let you do anything that is PROPER? I'm wondering. Honestly I'm glad you're moving out of there sis. You're husband isn't really taking a stand but rather falling into his trap of words...
 
Light of Heaven said:
Does your husband let you do anything that is PROPER? I'm wondering. Honestly I'm glad you're moving out of there sis. You're husband isn't really taking a stand but rather falling into his trap of words...
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Sister my husband is a lovely man but he is not practising , I dont know why hes weak in front of the landlord?
 
Assalamou alaikoum,

We are very worry if the landlord refuse to give reference to the agency what to do please, I would like to know what is the big sins and the small sins in the islam and what is the difference between them?

Jazakoum allah khaiyran
 
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Assalamou alaikoum,

We are very worry if the landlord refuse to give reference to the agency what to do please, I would like to know what is the big sins and the small sins in the islam and what is the difference between them?

Jazakoum allah khaiyran]
 
touba said:
Assalamou alaikoum,

We are very worry if the landlord refuse to give reference to the agency what to do please, I would like to know what is the big sins and the small sins in the islam and what is the difference between them?

Jazakoum allah khaiyran]
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Firstly Have you been bad tenants? Have you missed rent payments? Have you left the place in a mess?
If you have not then he cannot say you are bad tenants, or you can sue him and if the agency refuses to show you his reference then you can tag them with the freedom of information act. Any inaccuracies and you can sue him.
WHen you leave video the flat with a newspaper in the view to show the condition of the place and provide a proveable date to counter any accusations.

Certainly an employer cannot refuse a reference and he has to be very careful about what he says because anything said without proof is actionable.
And I believe the freedon of information act will allow you to look at any reference he gives about you.
 
Santoku said:
Firstly Have you been bad tenants? Have you missed rent payments? Have you left the place in a mess?
If you have not then he cannot say you are bad tenants, or you can sue him and if the agency refuses to show you his reference then you can tag them with the freedom of information act. Any inaccuracies and you can sue him.
WHen you leave video the flat with a newspaper in the view to show the condition of the place and provide a proveable date to counter any accusations.

Certainly an employer cannot refuse a reference and he has to be very careful about what he says because anything said without proof is actionable.
And I believe the freedon of information act will allow you to look at any reference he gives about you.
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We paid him everyweek there is no mess at his place only i had a problem with him hes bothering me
 
move out! i was in the same situation aswel only the difference was it was a man whom my husband knew from work, i mean b4 he moved in, my husband didn't even know him that well. we had to get some one to live with us to help with the rent you know but then he started to interfere in our marriage.

he would put our foot our buisness so much that he told my husband to have ego with me and my husband l8r became abusive towards me. he even made my husband lose his job by telling him to fight with his bosses.

i was also getting serious health problems... and my husbands behaviour grew worse and i was getting highly insecure, my heart would beat fast, i don't know where this fear came from, it would just hit me..i later found out, black magic was done on us...

we are now moved out because the problems between us grew worse when we found out some one had done something on us, we recounciled,its been couple of mnths my husband and i are praying everyday and reading holy quran and hasnt laid a finger in me since.

i believe the man we were living with inflicted the magic on us..... he was the only one who had access to our hair and clothes food etc... everything added up.

i sugest you move out as soon as possible. this guy seems dangerous.

hope i helped.

Allah hafiz
 
cat eyes said:
move out! i was in the same situation aswel only the difference was it was a man whom my husband knew from work, i mean b4 he moved in, my husband didn't even know him that well. we had to get some one to live with us to help with the rent you know but then he started to interfere in our marriage.

he would put our foot our buisness so much that he told my husband to have ego with me and my husband l8r became abusive towards me. he even made my husband lose his job by telling him to fight with his bosses.

i was also getting serious health problems... and my husbands behaviour grew worse and i was getting highly insecure, my heart would beat fast, i don't know where this fear came from, it would just hit me..i later found out, black magic was done on us...

we are now moved out because the problems between us grew worse when we found out some one had done something on us, we recounciled,its been couple of mnths my husband and i are praying everyday and reading holy quran and hasnt laid a finger in me since.

i believe the man we were living with inflicted the magic on us..... he was the only one who had access to our hair and clothes food etc... everything added up.

i sugest you move out as soon as possible. this guy seems dangerous.

hope i helped.

Allah hafiz
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Sister i believe what happen to you i can feel it because im nearly to your problem yesterday my husband told him again we will move out and he still insist that we stay with him but my husband said no then he started asking my husband about me again is your wife will work and what about her pregnancy please my brother dont give her freedom dont let her go out im advising you as a brother and my husband replied him no shes my wife i loves her so much and shes not my slave to treat her like that my husband told me that the landlord face changes and getting up set and stressing wallah sister i dont understand what a man want from a married woman ,Allah is big inshallah khair for us and for all ummat sayyidina Mohammed Salla Allah Alayhi Wassallam.

Jazaki allah khaiyran sister
 
yeah he is trying to cause separation between you both by cleverly trying to cause disagreements between you both.

but he will tell your husband that hes only trying to help him out and as foolish as your husband is right now he will listen to him because these people are sweet talkers...after sometime if you continue to live with this man, a day will come that your husband won't even listen to you at all, he will become this evil person infront of you...

im worried for you both.. do you feel that you are being watched when theres nobody in your house? are you having any type of scary dreams or perverted dreams? like snakes or fire or seeing the ginn? or hearing vioces things like this? Pains in your tummy? but magic takes time to work and these people will go to extremes to make it work like praying to shaytaan

are you pregnant right now?

sister even if you husband don't come with you, you should leave anyway and go to a relative or your friends place if your husband loves you,he will find a place because he will be afraid of losing you.
 
touba said:
We paid him everyweek there is no mess at his place only i had a problem with him hes bothering me
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Then he cannot give you a bad reference, unless he can prove you have been a bad tenant.

If you are still resident take the pictures to prove your case, remember to have something in the picure to prove the date - the front page of a newspaper is good for that. Then if he gives you trouble get a no win no fee lawyer and kneecap the sunnava*****. If yuo have left the place, check the reference with the agency and if it is untrue get the lawyer and check it with him, and kneecap the sunnava*****
 
cat eyes said:
yeah he is trying to cause separation between you both by cleverly trying to cause disagreements between you both.

but he will tell your husband that hes only trying to help him out and as foolish as your husband is right now he will listen to him because these people are sweet talkers...after sometime if you continue to live with this man, a day will come that your husband won't even listen to you at all, he will become this evil person infront of you...

im worried for you both.. do you feel that you are being watched when theres nobody in your house? are you having any type of scary dreams or perverted dreams? like snakes or fire or seeing the ginn? or hearing vioces things like this? Pains in your tummy? but magic takes time to work and these people will go to extremes to make it work like praying to shaytaan

are you pregnant right now?

sister even if you husband don't come with you, you should leave anyway and go to a relative or your friends place if your husband loves you,he will find a place because he will be afraid of losing you.
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Sister really my relation with my husband getting worse we are fighting all the time without reason we lost trust each other we are accusing each other , Yesterday i was smelling my husband and accused him to be with a woman which i know is not true but something happen makes me lost and say stupid thing is like its not me who talk is like somebody else , and i was asking bad duaa to my husband inshallah allah forgive me and protect him ameen and my husband was up set and he beat me because i accused him and i know hes innocent but something i couldnt help it made me lost and say it i really dont know what happen to me,me too my hair everywhere in the house in the bath , Im not pregnant my husband told him like that to make him far from me but he come more to me , my husband tried to tell him to be far she will be a mother.I dont know what to do if there is any magic on us even we will move it will follow us ,Allah knows.
 
Assalamou alaikoum wa rahmatou Allah wa barakatou,

I found a flat but it is only 15 minutes to walk from the landlord and now i afraid to rent it because we will be again close to the landlord and he can play more making fitna between us , I dont know what to do please any advice. I dont know why my husband very weak to the landlord?

Jazakoum Allah khayiran
 
Assalamou alaikoum wa rahmatou Allah wa barakatou,

I found a flat but it is only 15 minutes to walk from the landlord and now i afraid to rent it because we will be again close to the landlord and he can play more making fitna between us , I dont know what to do please any advice. I dont know why my husband very weak to the landlord?

Jazakoum Allah khayiran
 

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