Doubts

Shaitaan already has the disbelievers around his fingers...

But for believers, he will come like a Tank with full ammunition... You can consider this as one of those attacks... Brace yourself.

Will you submit to Shaitaan or stand tall along side the dwellers of Paradise?


To give you sense of comfort...
Believers who don't marry in this world, Allah will marry them to other pious believers in Jannah. What an Honor, in my opinion.

Have you considered, because of all your good deeds, you have surpassed this person you want to marry and Allah has saved you for someone even better and more rewarding?

Know that only Good comes from Allah and bad comes from yourself.
 
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^ trust me those dreams are from SHAYTAN (not from thinking too much)

too many times i have slept without thinking about ANYTHING and still dreamt something which did not help my nafs


just keep your chin up and fight through it
 
AnonymousGender said:
i jus feel this is a test for me i shud remain faithful and stop wantin to do stupid things
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Your not alone. I wanted to do stupid things as well. :hmm:

What puts me off? Hellfire. I imagine the horrors that shall await in the next world if I take part in haraam activities.
 
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AnonymousGender said:
Ive been reading posts on the forum...one was asking if allah has chosen our partners for us ... and according to islamonline.com thats true

whats if one partner makes the other's life hell...then allah willed someone to have a horrible life? and ok i heard that dua can change your qudar...but allah already knows if we gonna make dua or not...

jus dont make sense to me anymore. i keep to the basic five pillars of islam...but somethings dont add up in the equation.
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i have other things to add, but since im in a hurry, i'll say this for now. i see that a pattern is developing. i see that pattern first started from a weakness and a desire and from something you wanted then slowly evoked into questioning Allah and questing your iman due to this thing that you cant get. know, this is the handi work of shaytaan. he will not leave you alone until you give up Allah and the way he is going about making your stray, is by using this little thing that you want so badly to his advantage.

people who develop such doubts are never satisfied with the answers people get them, till the extent that they ask questions about Allah that simply dont have any answers to them, and as a result deviate and possibly even apsoatize, wal 3yaatho billah (and the refuge is with allah). no matter what people tell them, their thirst will never be quenched, and anything people tell them wont make sense.

i feel, and with all due respect here, that you are being too extreme in the way you are questioning Allah and though Islam encourages as to ask when we dont know, there are limits.how do think all these groups deviated from the true path. through extremism and excessive questioning, no doubt.
check this fatwa out

http://islam-qa.com/en/ref/98295/satan
 
Am not the original Poster

AnonymousGender said:
i jus feel this is a test for me i shud remain faithful and stop wantin to do stupid things
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You feel correct.

AnonymousGender said:
I keep dreamin about this brother though...it jus doesnt help me i dont know if the dreams are from Allah or Shaitaan or if im thinkin too much
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You think too much about him, therefore he comes in your dreams as well.

AnonymousGender said:
I do pray thats the thing... i did so many voluntary prays to purify myself in Ramazan and even completed the Quran i wanted to concentrate a lot on Islam that month and did and learnt a lot about islam...then i go downhill at times....

Yes it was over a guy... i just seem to be depressed and cant let go. I do good deeds i try .. i sponsor an orphan every month as sadqa...but will still caryy on doing this. i dont know. :cry::cry::cry::cry::cry::cry:
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This love thing is flipped before marriage :hiding:

These feelings that you have - I don't know whether you did something physical with the guy or not - but if you did then that is definitely the shaytaan. :raging:

We feel its love, but I'll say it again - TRUE love can only exist after marriage. Because somewhere inside, you feel that it is wrong that you are talking to the person, looking at them, sitting with them, kissing them, doing things with them, etc. You KNOW it's wrong, yet you don't want to allow yourself to feel that way, because you being with the person gives you "temporary peace and pleasure". :exhausted

It's not worth it. Pull yourself out of it before something really bad happens and you end up regretting it all your life. :phew

Please. Take this advice from a sister who has been there. :skeleton:
 
AnonymousGender said:
i do believe you can fall in love outside of marriage....its feelings you cant who you fall for.
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I'm not doubting your love, sister. I loved truly as well.

But its fate, and kismat. They don't allow real love succeed sometimes, and we have to accept that.
 
AnonymousGender said:
i do believe you can fall in love outside of marriage....its feelings you cant who you fall for.
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But to fall in love you need to know the other person really well, and it is haraam to communicate with the other sex outside of marriage. At least to communicate really well.
 
Smile... Allaah loves to forgive... so InshaAllaah let us repent... =)

"Say: 'O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins: for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.' "
Qur'an, Chapter 39, Verse 53
 
I feel so rejected by this community right now

Today i was reading some Quran related stuff, still enthusiastic about becoming a Muslim and i came across something that sounded silly to me.
So i came here looking for some answers, and i made a thread in the advice section hoping for an answer. It was about a verse in the Quran that talked about women intelligence that i didnt like the sound of.
Not only did no one answer it, but the admin did not even let it appear on the forum :(

I did not speak offensively or challenge your religion at all, i was simply looking for some affirmation of Islam.

Even when i tried asking someone in a private message it would not let me send it

This isnt the sort of community i want to be a part of, where the admins shield people from a tough question.

I have no one to talk to about this and this site is so frustrating all i wanted was some help.

Oh well, ill continue my search for spirituality somewhere else where i'm welcome to speak my mind freely :(
 
awwwww...don't be so disheartened!
You are a limited member which means that you can't send PMs.. the threads need approval by the Admin since Anon posting is allowed there (I think?)..maybe none of the Admins are online?
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OOOOOPS! I didn't notice that I was posting off-topic.I got so caught up in clarifying ..:embarrass
And Marth, your post and mine are going to be deleted so don't take it personally!!
 
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There have been threads approved between now and the time i made mine in this section... i was on my way to joining Islam and now i'm very much turned off of it thanks to this website. Doesn't matter what i say because it will be deleted.. but thanks this is such a welcoming religion...
 
Im sorry your right maybe it will pop up sooner or later, i don't understand the inner working of these forums :)
 
*Since I have already made one off-topic post, I guess it wont hurt to make another :p*
Calm down girl! There are many members so it takes some time. It will be posted soon enough :)
Judging by your post count, you haven't made an intro thread? I'm sure you'll be welcomed warmly if you do :shade:
 
Salaam,

If it is not offensive im sure one of the moderators will approve it. Also, once you posted 50 posts you will become a full member and then can send Private Messages so get posting :statisfie

JazakAllah
 
T.I.A said:
Smile... Allaah loves to forgive... so InshaAllaah let us repent... =)

"Say: 'O my Servants who have transgressed against their souls! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: for Allah forgives all sins: for He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.' "
Qur'an, Chapter 39, Verse 53
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JazakAllah

just need to clear my head
 
is it normal to have to wait.. uhhh 5-6 hours before your thread gets approved?

Sorry i got frustrated before! this site is killing me! :P
 

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