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Salam! Yes, my parents are second cousin
Its HALAL =]
 
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Some people will think that this is immortal. But, that is because you treat your cousins like your sisters/brothers. In this case, this person has not ever been oround his/her sousin in secret, or something like that.

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yeah it is allowed but i personally would be afraid about the genetic diseases i am very modern in that sense so i would object to it thats my own personal belief. any type of mix up could happen.. so yeah it is allowed if the two of you are in agreement
 
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^You mean she was married to her father's :saws1: cousin?? =]

But yes, it's allowed all right.

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Cousins are not included from those who are forbidden to marry so yes this is permissible. Allah says in Surah'tul Nisa

23. Forbidden to you (for marriage) are: your mothers, your daughters, your sisters, your father's sisters, your mother's sisters, your brother's daughters, your sister's daughters, your foster mother who gave you suck, your foster milk suckling sisters, your wives' mothers, your step daughters under your guardianship, born of your wives to whom you have gone in - but there is no sin on you if you have not gone in them (to marry their daughters), - the wives of your sons who (spring) from your own loins, and two sisters in wedlock at the same time, except for what has already passed; verily, Allâh is Oft*Forgiving, Most Merciful.

As for the issue of genetics then it has more to do with simply having a defect in your genes than marrying one's cousin. If there is a defect in the family genes then yes its not advisable to marry one's cousin due to the possibility of having those very genes in both the mother and father thus resulting in a mental or physical handicap in the baby. This happened to my aunt and uncle who are cousins and all of their children were severely retarded.
 
Thanks for the post brother. Jazak. I am sorry for what happened to the children of ur Aunt and uncle but i dun think thats due to genes. Allah wants it to be like that maybe for a reason only He knows. As for the topic, i wanna marry my mum's elder sister's grand daughter insyallah. hope thats not really too close a cousin...=)...

salam...
 
the reason why im so into marrying her is because of her religion. she can speak arabic and has memorised the quran!!! it would be a blessing to have someone like her...for me, i prefer marrying outside my family..but in this case, the religion takes prevalence..
 
OMG!! Muslimwoman!! i hope what u said is true!! that would save me from a possible "incest" embarrassment from the disbelievers as well!!! someone please confirm her words??? if its true, i wanna marry you muslimwoman!!

Salam...jazaak
 
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muslimbhai;1230532 that would save me from a possible "incest" embarrassment from the disbelievers as well!!! [/QUOTE said:
What Allah made halal , does not matter what disbelievers says about it , it's halal till the final day. Offer Istekhara and take a decision.


if its true, i wanna marry you muslimwoman!!

but you are toooooo late bro , sorry . I am already married :statisfie
 
It is not only permitted in Islam, it is permitted in many religions and cultures. For that matter President Franklin Roosevelt was married to his Cousin. Eleanor Roosevelt was his cousin and her maiden name was Roosevelt before they married.
 
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That's interesting . I guess , now a days Christians don't marry cousins anymore or do they ?

It seems to occur in some of the Scandinavian Countries. Here in the US it is illegal in some states but not all. It occurs often in several of the Southern States.
 
Salam,

Thanks for all your enlightenment brothers and sisters...this has been bugging me for years..ever since i was young...both of us has a fondness for each other...she likes me insyallah...i love her coz she has the religion...and beauty(secondary)...Insyallah, i will marry her...insyallah...

Salam, Jazaakumullah khair..
 

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