were to find a wife?

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khalid84 said:
no brother as said b4 im kinda not kinda alot shy person:embarrass and i can manage it after i get married but when they give me work permit i will get a good job and they give u house if ur not working i know a person who did the same they council gave him a house after getting married .
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Common bro don't be so shy .. You have to be a man.. stop being a boy :P .

you have to either decide if you want marriage or shyness :P
 
Afg said:
:wa: Marriage is a blessing and if you feel like you need to get married, then may Allah help you. Since you stated that it's going to be hard because you don't have much support from your parents, but do you know anyone you would like to marry? Maybe someone in your work place or someone you met? If you know someone, then you just go and talk to your father. InshaAllah he will understand. Just tell him that you want to get married and tell him to whom. But if you don't know anyone, then still let him know that you want to get married and he can help you. Maybe marrying someone from your country will make things easier. You two will be able to understand one another better. But if you don't want to, then there is someone you know from your area? And don't worry akhi :) there is surely someone for you :) And ya the other suggestion talking to the Imam, don't be shy ;) InshaAllah he will help you.
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yes i can do that but as my father said he cant do anything unless my step mom do anything u know how it is in afghan comunity ur from there:p

zakirs said:
Common bro don't be so shy .. You have to be a man.. stop being a boy :P .

you have to either decide if you want marriage or shyness :P
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im shy and something else is stoping me is who will marry some 1 like me i mean in my setuation dont have a proper job no house thats why
 
khalid84 said:
yes i can do that but as my father said he cant do anything unless my step mom do anything u know how it is in afghan comunity ur from there:p


im shy and something else is stoping me is who will marry some 1 like me i mean in my setuation dont have a proper job no house thats why
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you need to do two tings simultaneously .. 1) try searching for some partime job or something 2) search for spouse
 

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