Should a Muslim be happy?

Sometimes I wonder why some people feel the need to display their bigoted behaviour. I don’t see the problem with Glo posting. I hope you don’t take offence to my comment. I am merely suggesting that you are over reacting and your dislike toward non Muslims is palpable.

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Why shouldn’t a Muslim be happy? It is the only way to keep me sane. I think is particularly important to be happy around children.
 
Sister Unknown said:
I disllike non-Muslims posting under my threads, thanks. Unless if it was for the intention to learn Islam.

JazzakAllahu Khayr sabr nad the rest.
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I sometimes feel like leaving this forum for precisely this reason. This is not what muslims do, we are supposed to be setting an example. This is not Islam and not what Nabi Sallalahu Allaihi Wassalam has taught us. I have said it before and I am saying it again, adopt the character of Muhammad Sallalahu Allaihi Wassalam and people will enter the fold of Islam in droves, there won't even be a need for forums like these. I can understand when someone is being insultful that you may retaliate out of emotion, but this is highly uncalled for. May allah guide us. Ameen.

Allah has said in The Qur'an "Tolerate patiently what they (the unbeliever) say and part from them in a polite manner" (73:10).

The Prophet
has said "Modesty is part of faith" (Bukhari and Muslim). The person is never arrogant or rude because he/she knows that everything on earth belongs to Allah and he/she knows that everything one has is from Allah, so there's no reason to be proud and boastful.

 
There are some sicussions, called "Islamic discussions." Under Islamic discussions, the kuffar cannot give Islamic discussions.

Sometimes I wonder why some people feel the need to display their bigoted behaviour. I don’t see the problem with Glo posting. I hope you don’t take offence to my comment. I am merely suggesting that you are over reacting and your dislike toward non Muslims is palpable.
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I think you're accusing me of something you're doing, sister. Under my methology, we make complete friendship towad the believers, and complete enmity toward disbelievers.

Salam
 
Sister Unknown, I am sorry that you do not wish for non-Muslims to post in your thread. I hope you don't mind me posting this hadith, as I think it is very relevant to your question.
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Dear sister in humanity. Since our paths are different, our ways are also separate. Muslims must be very careful in aquiring teachings that are from a perfect path. Otherwise, we will go astray. Christians belong with Christians. Muslims belong with Muslims.

I am sure tha tyou are here to give a call to a Christian path. I am here to benefit from Muslims and so tehy benefit from me.
You will never be satisified with me until I follow your way.
I hopw you understand.
 
sweet106 said:
Sometimes I wonder why some people feel the need to display their bigoted behaviour. I don’t see the problem with Glo posting. I hope you don’t take offence to my comment. I am merely suggesting that you are over reacting and your dislike toward non Muslims is palpable.
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You don't see a problem? Did you or she make this thread? As far as I can see the members can limit their own threads.

However, Sister unknown could have mentioned her wish in the opening post. Also as brother Marwen said the General and the comparative religion sections are read by many non-Muslims. Hence, it's better for her to use a different section.

:w:
 
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Greetings Sister Unknown

I doubt that you can possibly be sure of my reasons for being here, but that aside I understand your perception that our paths are different.

However, in four years in this forum have I never come across a situation where a thread-starter could stipulate who was allowed to participate in his/her thread and who wasn't.
Based on that I respectfully disagree with **muslimah** in her statement that "members can limit their own threads".

Unless I am advised by mods to the contrary I will continue to post in those forum areas which are open to me, if I so wish.

I make no apologies for that, as I believe I am acting within the forum rules. If people disagree, please refer the issue to the mods.

Perhaps the problem could be solved by the mods moving this particular thread to the Advice and Support section?

Salaam
 
glo said:
However, in four years in this forum have I never come across a situation where a thread-starter could stipulate who was allowed to participate in his/her thread and who wasn't.
Based on that I respectfully disagree with **muslimah** in her statement that "members can limit their own threads".
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However, you have come across threads where the thread-starter has wished or requested replies from a certain people, like reverts or knowledgeable members? Similarly, I don't see anything wrong with a member asking advice or info from those who've experienced the same situation as him/her.

Edit: I'm sorry, perhaps I framed it wrong. ^^ Anyway, there's A&S section for Muslims only.
 
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Greetings Sister Unknown

I doubt that you can possibly be sure of my reasons for being here, but that aside I understand your perception that our paths are different.

However, in four years in this forum have I never come across a situation where a thread-starter could stipulate who was allowed to participate in his/her thread and who wasn't.
Based on that I respectfully disagree with **muslimah** in her statement that "members can limit their own threads".

Unless I am advised by mods to the contrary I will continue to post in those forum areas which are open to me, if I so wish.

I make no apologies for that, as I believe I am acting within the forum rules. If people disagree, please refer the issue to the mods.

Perhaps the problem could be solved by the mods moving this particular thread to the Advice and Support section?

Salaam
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I apologize if I have done injustice. It was a simple request, a bit straightforard. Islam is a straightforward religion.

May I ask what your purpose here is? Just curious since you seemed offended by what I've said.
 
Sister Unknown said:
There are some sicussions, called "Islamic discussions." Under Islamic discussions, the kuffar cannot give Islamic discussions.

I think you're accusing me of something you're doing, sister. Under my methology, we make complete friendship towad the believers, and complete enmity toward disbelievers.

Salam
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Salam

I don’t know how you managed to live in society where majority are non Muslims if you can’t handle one post made by non Muslim.

And it is clearly your fault for not stating your intention at the beginning of the topic.

One post or several posts from non Muslim doesn’t mean you are friends with them. Patience and tolerance is the key here.
 
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**muslimah** said:
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You don't see a problem? Did you or she make this thread? As far as I can see the members can limit their own threads.

However, Sister unknown could have mentioned her wish in the opening post. Also as brother Marwen said the General and the comparative religion sections are read by many non-Muslims. Hence, it's better for her to use a different section.

:w:
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So what if I did not make this thread? I made earlier thread asking Muslims to make duas for fellow Muslim, Glo posted there. Did I have heart attack over it? No...
 
sweet106 said:
Salam

I don’t know how you managed to live in society where majority are non Muslims if you can’t handle one post made by non Muslim.

And it is clearly your fault for not stating your intention at the beginning of the topic.

One post or several posts from non Muslim doesn’t mean you are friends with them. Patience and tolerance is the key here.
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Sweet heart, I understand. I can respect your viewpoint. Now, off topic! The answer to the question has been given. I pray I have not offended.
 
Sister Unknown said:
Sweet heart, I understand. I can respect your viewpoint. Now, off topic! The answer to the question has been given. I pray I have not offended.
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:statisfie:statisfie:statisfie:p

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Happy?

hmm

Obviously one cannot overly express happiness in front of those in hardship or display sadness. That would be insensitive of course.
Since Ramadan is coming up, I think being happy is one to get through it. Being sad and complaining would mean you dislike serving Allah (swt).


Best Regards,
sweet106
 
sweet106 said:
:statisfie:statisfie:statisfie:p

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Happy?

hmm

Obviously one cannot overly express happiness in front of those in hardship or display sadness. That would be insensitive of course.
Since Ramadan is coming up, I think being happy is one to get through it. Being sad and complaining would mean you dislike serving Allah (swt).


Best Regards,
sweet106
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Good respnse, jazzakAllahu Khayr. may Allah grant us all jennah ...
 

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