Cabdullahi
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There are two by-products of being desperate for marriage
1. It could become a tool for the shaytan to beat you with ( your desperation might lead you to commit sin)
2. It clouds your judgment ( it could be that you are so desperate you never question things like ''is this person the right person ''do they have good character'' ''are they religious'' ''whats their mentality like'' )
Its unhealthy to be desperate because when you are desperate you don't observe your surroundings you tend to rush things
1. It could become a tool for the shaytan to beat you with ( your desperation might lead you to commit sin)
2. It clouds your judgment ( it could be that you are so desperate you never question things like ''is this person the right person ''do they have good character'' ''are they religious'' ''whats their mentality like'' )
Its unhealthy to be desperate because when you are desperate you don't observe your surroundings you tend to rush things