Heartbroken, overwhelmed. Please help.

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Yes it does.. But I'm the one that played a sick game with him. And said something had happened to me, and then went to great lengths to cover it up. I am consumed with guilt and self hatred :(
 
Ukti said:
Yes it does.. But I'm the one that played a sick game with him. And said something had happened to me, and then went to great lengths to cover it up. I am consumed with guilt and self hatred :(
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Emotions make us do crazy things that we would never usually do, I know in the past I've said something based upon emotions and I've regretted it later and would never had said it had my emotions not been going crazy.

The point is we all do stuff we wouldn't normally do when our emotions get the better of us so don't beat yourself up, yeah you did something wrong but he isn't exactly free of blame also, one could argue that, had he stopped himself from getting into the relationship with you then you would never have had the opportunity to play the "sick game" in the first place.

So it's not completely your fault, women do crazy things for men because they have such strong feelings of love.
 
Ukti said:
Yes it does.. But I'm the one that played a sick game with him. And said something had happened to me, and then went to great lengths to cover it up. I am consumed with guilt and self hatred :(
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I know how you feel when you mention guilt, but use that guilt as your motivation to live a righteous life and a constant reminder to never get involved in something like this again. Use the guilt to make repentance, it's very good you feel guilty as repentance is remorse, if you didn't care then it would be worrying but the fact you feel guilt is good because it shows you have emaan alhamdulilah.

You learn to live with the guilt, it never really leaves you and you never stop feeling sick when you think about it however it serves as a constant reminder and you never let yourself fall into the same situation again because of it. Without guilt there'd be nothing stopping you from doing it all again so it's good.

If the guilt reduces you to tears it's very good time to ask Allah for forgiveness, even in the future when you look back and think "How could I have done that, how did I let that happen" use moments like that to repent to Allah again for your short comings.

The trials we go through shape us as individuals and if we never went through them we wouldn't be the person we are today, maybe this sin will take you to paradise because you feel so guilty that you will all ways live a righteous life from here on in.

And for the heartache maybe you could make du'a to Allah to heal your heart and remove the pain you're feeling.

Trust me when I say you'll learn to cope with the guilt you just have to give it time and make lots of repentance, I once felt so much guilt I started to get grey hairs and age, I would think to myself, "this guilt will never ever leave me" but I learned to live with it eventually and you will also inshaAllah.

And after a while it won't have any impact upon you when you think back, you'll just know that what you done was wrong but the feelings of guilt won't be as strong as they are now so it gets better believe me.
 
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Ukti said:
Yes it does.. But I'm the one that played a sick game with him. And said something had happened to me, and then went to great lengths to cover it up. I am consumed with guilt and self hatred :(
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Sister as i mentioned in my previous post you were driven to do it because he started ignoring you. If are couple are so far in their relationship and suddenly one person starts ignoring the other then obviously it will drive the other person to desperation. That is why he does not blame you because he is the one who started ignoring you. You need to wake up and see that.

You should be more guilty about the fact that you had a haraam relationship and so you should resolve never to do such a thing again. Thats what you should be guilty about not the fact that you were driven to do something out of character.

So sister ask of Allah for forgiveness and thank him for getting you out of such a relationship. Surely he has done the best for you in this situation and you should really thank him for that and use this opportunity in Ramadan to get closer to him. You own that guy NOTHING. You owe Allah everything. So devote yourself to Allah and put your FULL trust in him. He will do what is best for you.
 
Salaam

I need your help. Im really worried,

I think i have no taqwa or emaan. I say this because although i verbally pray, do dhikr, nothing happens to me. i am unable to cry out of fear for my sins. i have lost tawakul. why cant i trust in Allaah?

do i really want paradise? if so, why am i not striving for it? or is it because i dont really believe in it!

what the hell is wrong with me.

im such a hypocrite.
 
Ukti said:
Salaam

I need your help. Im really worried,

I think i have no taqwa or emaan. I say this because although i verbally pray, do dhikr, nothing happens to me. i am unable to cry out of fear for my sins. i have lost tawakul. why cant i trust in Allaah?

do i really want paradise? if so, why am i not striving for it? or is it because i dont really believe in it!

what the hell is wrong with me.

im such a hypocrite.
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The very fact you're worried shows you have taqwa and emaan, if you had none you wouldn't be worried about it. You're not a hypocrite, a hypocrite in Islam is someone who conceals their disbelieve and pretends to be a believer but really they laugh at the Muslims for believing and try to misguide them. This isn't you so don't worry.

I think the problem is you're just really stressed out atm and you need to take it easy, relax and stop worrying so much. When you're really stressed you can't do anything properly so just try to relax and make a fresh start.
 
Ukti said:
Salaam

I need your help. Im really worried,

I think i have no taqwa or emaan. I say this because although i verbally pray, do dhikr, nothing happens to me. i am unable to cry out of fear for my sins. i have lost tawakul. why cant i trust in Allaah?

do i really want paradise? if so, why am i not striving for it? or is it because i dont really believe in it!

what the hell is wrong with me.

im such a hypocrite.
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My sister you have gone through trauma recently and so that is why you are feeling this way. But you must internalise in your mind that NOTHING can happen without the will of Allah. EVERYTHING happens by his permission. So you should look at what happened to you as a blessing. Allah helped you. He did not abandon you. So return to him and strive to get closer to him. Ask of Allah in your dua's sincerely for forgiveness and for Allah to help you get through this.

You should look at this as it was not meant to be. it is easy to say move on but let time do the healing. Time will heal your heart but you just have to give your heart time for it to sink in what has happened.

You know that have done a very big error in getting into a relationship because you and i both know that a relationship is NOT a guarantee for marriage. We should not give our love, affection and our all to a relationship partner but ONLY to our marriage partner. Unfortunatley in life we all have to learn from our errors and mistakes and this is what you are going to have to do.

Whatever has happened has happened now and you cannot turn back time. We all want to go back and do things differently but life is such that we make mistakes and we learn from them. We learn from our failures NOT our successes. If we all succeeded in life then how will we ever become better people? How will we ever grow as individuals if we never made mistakes. You need to think of this relationship as a mistake that you have made because it was just that. You should ONLY have ever fallen for your marriage partner and falling for a guy outside of marriage is a grave sin and you only have yourself to blame so we cannot sugar coat this for you. Many go through what you are going through and it is all because they chose to get into relationships outside of marriage.

You need to think to yourself that if you followed Islam and obeyed Allah none of this would have happened so therefore see this as a big error that you have made in your life in that you fell for someone outside of marriage. Look at it as you tried your best but that it was just not meant to be in your kismat because whatever is decreed for us will happen and the fact that you tried evrything but it did not go through proves that it was just not meant to be.

As humans we all think that we know what is best for us in life. A person falls into a relationship, they create false hopes and dreams together imagining and talking about a life together forever and having babies etc. But this is just a bubble and a world that the couple create with each other which usually ends up being just a dream and the bubble bursts when reality hits. We as humans think we know what is best for us but the fact is we don't! ONLY Allah knows what is best so therefore we must do EVERYTHING to please him and refrain from EVERYTHING that displeases him and causes his wrath and anger!

We need to accept that because something is not meant for us that maybe it is because it is not best for us. I have heard of SO many stories of couples who were together in a relationship long before marriage and when they got married things just went so wrong and they ended up either miserable or divorced. This is because such marriage started off in a haraam way so they have NO peace or blessings in them. If we want the help of Allah and if we want Allah to put peace and blessings into whatever we do in life then we MUST do things in the right way in order to please him otherwise we will end up being miserable and unhappy. So maybe if you did marry him then reality would have hit you and you would have ended up having a terribley miserable marriage which would have ended bitterly in divorce. If children are involved then it is all the more nastier.

So i think you should thank Allah that he has done what is best for you even though it is difficult because you have been with him for so long but you must accept that Allah knows best and maybe Allah saved you from a potentially miserable life! Whatever is not meant for us then it is always the case that Allah has soemthing better in store for us.

I do know of MANY who have had relationships and break ups before marriage and after they got married they realised that they were only living in a dream world with that person and that in reality they are so thank ful to Allah that Allah found them the best partner. The love before marriage and after marriage is very different. Once you are married inshallah you will realise what true love is. You will also realise that you were only ever living in a dream world and that you have now woken up.

Here is what you can do to get over what has happened:

1. Accept what has happened and accept that it has happened because you disobeyed Allah and decided to have a relationship outside of marriage even though you knew it was wrong. Accept that you were in the wrong but that you have fallen into error and that you have learnt from this mistake and have become a MUCH better and wiser person out of this. Accept that we learn from our failures and NOT our successes!

2. Once you have accepted that it was your own fault and that you could easily have decided not to get into it then you must also accept that you did try your best but whatever will happen in your life will happen if it is decreed. It is clear that it was not decreed so it did not happen. Therefore accept that whatever Allah decrees is the best for you whether you like it or not because we as humans know not what is best for us. Maybe Allah saved you from a life of misery.

3. Once you have accepted that this was the consequances of your own choices that you made and that it was not in your decree to be with him and that whatever is decreed in our lives is the best for us then you must try to move forward with your life because death will not wait for anyone and wasting more time and more of your precious seconds that you have left will ONLY be of detriment to you because we ONLY have one chance which is our life and our once chance can end at ANY second. If you continuously waste more time on something which was never decreed for you then surely you will regret it forever if not in this life then definatley the next!

4. Make the necessery mental changes in having a fresh new start to your life and you can do this by firstly changing your number/s. Change your e mail address/es. Get rid of any social networks that you are on. Get rid of any pictures of him or present of gifts that he gave to you or anything that reminds you of him. Inernalise that you want to make a fresh start with your life and that you want to move on and progress. realise that death is near and that you cannot waste anymore time on that which was not meant for you. Accept that Allah has something better in store for you!

5. Time is the best healer. Once you have taken all these steps then let time heal your heart. The way you think will affect the speed of your recovery. You need to get your heart to accept the above 4 steps and once you have then recovery will be quicker.

6. You need to focus your mind on the purpose of your life. Allah did not create you to follow your own desires in life but he created you for one purpose and ONLY one purpose and that is to worship him. This should be your new focus in life which is to please Allah and you should strive to do EVERYTHING you can to get closer to him and to please him. You should also realise that Allah ONLY wants what is best for you and he took you out of this because he has something better in store for you!

Hope my advice has helped in some way. Know that Allah is wanting you to be close to him so will you not take a small step towards Allah that he may take a huge step towards you? Desire to be closer to Allah and to do EVERYTHING to please him. Continue to repent for what you have done and ask of Allah to help you through this hard time. Always share how you feel with Allah for your heart will feel MUCH better in doing so. Strive to be closer to Allah in established all of your fard obligations to him.

Also do much nafils and recite the Qur'an along with its meanings to understand what Allah is telling us in the Qur'an. Learn as much about Islam as possible and most of all ALWAYS busy yourself with the remembrance of Allah in glorifying and praising him as well as pondering and contemplating over his creations. The more you remember Allah the quicker your heart will heal!

Join a local sisters Islamic circle and involve yourself with Islamic events, activities and be with good and pious sisters. Serve your parents as much as possible for they ONLY want the best for you and serving ones parents is of the BEST of ALL deeds. NEVER even raise your voice to your parents for they have been given the highest status by Allah, The way we treat our parents is how our parents will treat us. Therefore treat your parents the best and if shaythan tries to create enmity in your heart that seek refuge with Allah for shaythan is your eternal enemy and only wants you to be destroyed. He wants you to waste your time and life over the past and does NOT want you to move on. He wants to prevent you from progressing in life and in your deen. He does not want you to go towards Allah so will you not reject your sworn enemy?

Therefore my sister let now be the start of a whole new chapter in your life where you can progress and move forward gradually. There is no time to waste my sister and there will be times where you will find it hard but with Allah you will find peace and contentment but with shaythan all you will find is misery and discontent. Therefore if you want to get healed then go towards Allah and strive to please him and make him the happiest. Ask of him to help you through this and in every aspect of your life. Repent to him always and ask of him to heal your heart. If you put your FULL faith, trust, reliance and hopes in Allah then you will find this is enough for you and your heart will heal and be replaced with the love for Allah and his messenger.

So do not feel that you are a hypocrite sister and make the best of each precious second in this most blessed month to get closer to Allah because he wants you closer to him. Subhaanallah! He is giving you this opportunity to be closer to him so will you not take it? Will you not grab this opportunity? So trust in him and put your FULL reliance in him. Know that he listens to your prayers and is closer to you than your jugular vein.

I pray that Allah heals your heart and makes you of his close servants. I pray he finds you the best partner that will lead you towards success in this life and the next and i pray he helps you through this and every aspect of your life. Please also remember me in your dua's.

Here are some very beneficial lectures to help you get closer to Allah and realise your purpose in life:

This Could Change Your Life Forever!

http://www.gawaher.com/index.php?showtopic=731837.html&

Here are some very beneficial lectures which you and your siblings should listen to, to increase your imaan and fear of Allah:

Remembrance: ask Allah for his forgiveness

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z-EK9r3rMzQ


Angel of Death!!! - Sheikh Ahmed Ali

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tUzRJXlB2uA

HARD HITTING Lecture on HELLFIRE & the Day of JUDGEMENT! يوم القيامة والجحيم

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0O6L_fBk7VM

Sheikh Ahmad Ali - Hellfire Talk Part 1/3

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DWTehIeCOUU

Sheikh Ahmad Ali - Hellfire Talk Part 2/3

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yXTtk7rWx_U

Sheikh Ahmad Ali - Hellfire Talk Part 3/3

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wmiD86w9fBc


Islam - Punishment of the Grave by Sheikh Riyadh ul Haq

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UWb-hYIm2WE

Death and the Grave by Murtaza Khan

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7r2nzJVecqo

How can we not appreciate what we have after watching this?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AkEBUC0APMg[/QUOTE]

AMAZING short speech -"The Goodly Life"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-fugf1DcNyc


 
Jazak'Allaah khayr for your reply brother. Your reward is with Allaah, and may He reward you abundantly, may He reward you with jannatul firdous. AMEEN.

The thing is brother, it actually hasn't been called off between us yet. So im kind of in limbo. His father said to mine, we will talk after ramadhan and your umrah trip, just make lots of dua over there.

And last week the brother said the same thing to me... he said he's not 100%, and we need Allaah to change the hearts of our families (because alot has happened), he said we would need a miracle but only Allaah can make it happen.

He basically said lets just put our full trust in Allaah.. if its meant to be, He will make it easy, and if it isnt, we'll both have to walk away..
 
Ukti said:
Can you advise me now please?

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As'Salaamu Alaaykum

sure sis! reading from your last post i understand that you now need to continue to seek the pleasure of Allaah from this blessed month, to have patience. Sabarun Jameel-beautiful patience.

i tried searching for the thread 'beautiful patience', i cant seem to find it, insha'Allaah if someone does please do post it here..
 
Ukti said:
Jazak'Allaah khayr for your reply brother. Your reward is with Allaah, and may He reward you abundantly, may He reward you with jannatul firdous. AMEEN.

The thing is brother, it actually hasn't been called off between us yet. So im kind of in limbo. His father said to mine, we will talk after ramadhan and your umrah trip, just make lots of dua over there.

And last week the brother said the same thing to me... he said he's not 100%, and we need Allaah to change the hearts of our families (because alot has happened), he said we would need a miracle but only Allaah can make it happen.

He basically said lets just put our full trust in Allaah.. if its meant to be, He will make it easy, and if it isnt, we'll both have to walk away..
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Asalaamu Alaikum, My sister surely you came here for a reason and that is for you to know that you should put your FULL trust in Allah no matter what the outcome. Sister i know you had a relationship with him before marriage and because of that you developed feelings for him etc but surely the signs that things were not working out were already there. But it is just that you did not want to see it. You were blind at the time and hopefully now your eyes will open.

Sister you admitted that things were going so wrong before marriage so how could they improve after marriage? Things get much harder after marriage sister. You can see the signs now which is a blessing but many do not see the signs and when they get married they find out when it is too late. The signs that this relationship was never going to work out were apparent early on sister theres no denying that.

Just because you were engaged and had a relationship then it does not mean that you are destined for each other and it also does not mean that you are best for each other. Is it not a blessing from Allah that he may possibly save you from a potentially terrible marriage? How many people are lucky enough to be saved from such a marriage? Not many because many learn the hard way but you are possibly being saved from such a marriage. So thank Allah.

Do NOT ask Allah for both of you to marry because as i said it may be that you will have a terrible marriage together because all the signs are there but ask Allah to do what is best for the both of you. Then leave your affairs with Allah. Who else can we trust in this world but Allah? Who is better to be trusted than the one who created us? The one who gave us everything we can imagine.

The Almighty says, "Put your trust in the Living who does not, die" (25:58) and the Almighty says, "So let the believers put their trust in Allah," (W14:14; H14:11)


Surely he is the BEST one to trust all of our affairs to. If we put our trust in a human then there is always a chance they may break that trust because they are human and they have their flaws, but Allah has NO flaws and he CANNOT break a trust. So put your FULKL trust in him of all of your affairs in your life. Rely upon him for he will do what is best for you.

The Almighty says, "Whoever puts his trust in Allah; He will be enough for him." (65:3)

The Almighty says, "The believers are those whose hearts tremble when Allah is mentioned, whose faith is increased when His Signs are mentioned to them, and who put their trust in their Lord." (8:2)

NOTHING can happen without the will of Allah and those who trust in him accept his decree no matter what because they know that his decision is the best decision. Surely we do not know what is best for us but the one who created us knows what is best for us in every aspect of our lives from borth until death.

'Umar (RA) said, "I heard the Messenger of Allah, (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) say, "If you were to rely on Allah as He should be relied on, He would provide for you as He provides for the birds. They go out in the morning hungry and return in the evening full." [at-Tirmidhi]

So my sister put your full trust in Allah and knows that his decision will not only be the right decision but the BEST decision for the both of you.

You are so lucky you are going Umrah. Im very jealous lol. Even after everything that has happened Allah has blessed you to invite you to heaven on Earth. Subhaaanallah you should be so thankful and excited. You should make the best of now and every second of this precious month and prepare for this amazing journey. Do you know how much reward it is to do Umra in Ramadan?

Ibn Abbaas said: The Messenger of Allaah (Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam) said to a woman from among the Ansaar – Ibn Abbaas mentioned her name but I forgot it – “What kept you from performing Hajj with us?” She said: We only have two camels and the father of her son and her son had gone for Hajj on one camel, and he left us the other camel so that we could carry water on it. He said: “When Ramadan comes, go for Umrah, for Umrah in (that month) is equivalent to Hajj.”[/COLOR] (Al-Bukhari: 1782, Muslim: 1256)

Subhaanallah, you will gain the reward of Hajj for doing Umrah in Ramadan. What a blessing and how lucky you are.

So my sister you can ease your mind now because all of your affairs are with Allah and he will decide the best outcome. If you do end up marrying him then it was the best for you but if you do not then Allah has someone better in store for you.

But you must not waste a second more of this blessed month. It is far too precious to waste. This may well be our last Ramadan for life is so uncertain and death can strike at any second for each one of us. Therefore you must make every effort to get closer to Allah by worshipping him as much as possible. This is our opprtunity to increase our imaan and fear of Allah and to gain his pleasure. So remember Allah no matter what you do and focus on your goal which is to make the best of your precious seconds in this month and for te rest of your life until death.

Here are some Ramadan threads that will help you to maximise every second in this precious month inshallah:

12 Ways to Maximise everyday in Ramadan

http://www.islamicboard.com/fasting...308088-12-ways-maximize-everyday-ramadan.html

15 Good deeds to do throughout Ramadan

http://www.islamicboard.com/fasting...15-easy-good-deeds-do-throughout-ramadan.html

9 things a Women on Menses can do in Ramadan

http://www.islamicboard.com/fasting...146-9-things-women-menses-can-do-ramadan.html

The inner dimensions of fasting

http://www.islamicboard.com/fasting...08099-inner-dimensions-fasting-must-read.html


If you need anymore help or advice then please do not hesitate to ask. Please do remember me in your dua's. Ma'asalaam
 
Brothers and sisters please help me! I feel like contacting him. I want to say sorry. I want to clarify things. but i know i cannot... im struggling. nothing is making me feel better. i dont know what to do :(
 
He'll probably be annoyed if you do contact him. Just leave it. Concentrate on preparing for Umrah.
 
Ukti said:
Brothers and sisters please help me! I feel like contacting him. I want to say sorry. I want to clarify things. but i know i cannot... im struggling. nothing is making me feel better. i dont know what to do :(
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Asalam alaikum sister,

You may feel the urge of that temptation but I advise you to try to think about something else,such as Ramadhan. Instead of grieving over this relationship,you should try to slowly forget about him and keep up in your ibaadath towards Allah. Allah has blessed us with this holy month upon us once aagain,we don't know if it will be our last,so please treat it like your last,and try to concentrate on this and the fact that you will be going on Umrah soon,may Allah accept it. I know it will be hard at first,but once your mind dwells on other things in reality,you will slowly forget about him,insha'Allaah.

Try not to stress your mind with the thoughts of how you could've been,the brother you were with is now gone. You thought he was the right man for you at that time of your life but you were wrong,as previously stated on this thread,Allah knows whats best for you,and perhaps he has the best in store for you in the hereafter.Allah will bring a better pious brother for you,insha'Allaah in the future as he wills and as time permits.Its okay to feel like you may have been the one to mess up,your showing the responsibility for your mistakes,but you also must accept the fact that your not the only one at fault and that your a good person.

Insha'Allaah ,just remember after a hardship comes ease,you are in my duas sister,and I hope im in yours.
 
Jazak'Allaah khayr for your reply brothers.

Thats the thing though.. he hasnt gone. yet. it hasnt been called off. So thats why i feel in this state, because i know there is still a chance, and I want to make up for my actions.

I dont feel like i am a good person anymore
 
Ukti said:
Jazak'Allaah khayr for your reply brothers.

Thats the thing though.. he hasnt gone. yet. it hasnt been called off. So thats why i feel in this state, because i know there is still a chance, and I want to make up for my actions.

I dont feel like i am a good person anymore
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Ahh,but dwelling on the guilt won't help you,it will only mentally depreieve you,if it is to be then Allah will make it to be,Allah knows what is best for each one of his believers,and whatever he wills will happen,eventually. You must put your faith in him,he will not let you down as he knows what is good for you and what isn't,insha'Allaah just keep that in mind and things will eventually start to get better before you know it.
 
Ramadhan is supposed to make me strong. i am trying and making so much dua, but i still feel so weak.

i want ramadhan to be my strength, i want it to make me strong and bring me closer to Allaah- so i can put my full trust in Him.

but i feel so weak. a huge void in my heart. i cant do anything wholeheartedly. i really dont want to be like this when i visit Allaahs house!
 
Ukti said:
Im so incredibly hurt. Does he know see how hurt I am?
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My sister the both of you are hurt and it is because you gave your hearts to each other before marriage. We are only destined to be with our marriage partners and getting into relationships is not only a major sin but a huge risk as a relationship is not a guarantee that both will marry.

Sister whatever has happened in the past has happened now and you must accept that you were in great error to ever get into such a relationship before marriage and that is why you are in so much pain right now. But you must learn from this and ask of Allah to ease the pain in your heart. Time is the best healer but it can be quickened by putting your FULL trust in Allah and knowing that he will do what is best for you.

Put your trust in him and know that he knows best in all matters. If he created you then he knows what is best for his creations. Larn from the past and take lessons from it.

Please read my post again where i give you advice of how to get through this. I hope you find comfort from the words of Almighty Allah:

Verily, with the hardship,
there is relief
(i.e. there is one hardship with two reliefs, so one hardship cannot overcome two reliefs). [ Al-Inshirah 94:6]

"Peace unto you for that ye persevered in patience! Now how excellent is the final home!"
Excellent indeed is the final home!" [ Ar-Rad 13:24]

"...Do not regard it an evil to you;
nay, it is good for you...." [An- Nuur 24:11]

"...So put your trust (in Allaah)
if ye are indeed believers." [Al-Maida 5:23]

"O ye who believe!
Seek help in steadfastness
and prayer.
Lo! Allaah is with the steadfast." [Al-Baqarah 2:153]

"And certainly,
We shall test you with something
of fear, hunger, loss of wealth, lives and fruits,
but give glad tidings to As-Sabirin (the patient ones, etc.).
Who, when afflicted with calamity,
say: "Truly! To Allaah we belong
and truly, to Him we shall return." [ Al-Baqara 2: 155~156]

"And He will provide him
from (sources)
He never could imagine.
And whosoever puts his trust in Allaah,
then HE will suffice him.
Verily, Allaah will accomplish his purpose.
Indeed Allaah has set a measure for all things." [ At-Talaq 65:3]

"Verily We have created man
into toil and struggle." [ Al-Balad 90:4]

Know that when you have problems or in difficulty, then it is by Allaah's permission for HE says:

"Say: "Nothing shall ever happen to us
except what Allaah has ordained for us.
He is our Maula (Lord, Helper and Protector)."
And in Allaah
let the believers put their trust." [At-Taubah 9:51]

"No kind of calamity can occur,
except by the leave of Allaah
And if any one believes in Allaah,
{Allaah} guides his heart (aright):
for Allaah knows all things." [At-Taghabun 64:11]

"...There did Allaah give you one distress after another
by way of requital
to teach you not to grieve
for that which had escaped you,
nor for that which had befallen you.
And Allaah is Well Aware of all that you do." [Al-Imran 3:153]
 

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