Marina-Aisha
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omg thanx everyone i dunno if ill have time to look at all these nw but thanx advance
i dont know any sisters..i dont know any muslims expect my partner..i want to go to the mosque but i dont have the right clothes.
hahaha i am kinda nervous to be honest but i dont wanna go in there lookin like some hoochie mama, showing skin and stuff. i want make a good impression. Anyways i found a great site http://www.shukr.co.uk/ has great stuff and my partner ahmed is in saudi arabia and bought me few things too
Sister just get a regula maxi skirt or maxi dress from the mall and wear a cardigan on top to cover your arms and any pashmina or scarf will do.. No one is going to criticize you for not getting a jilbab ye big by ye wide believe me I have seen teenage girls in the mosque with the tightest jeans and a scarf on top.. I think maybe you're a bit anxious about going there and how you'll be perceived rather than if you can find the right thing to wear, am I right?
I don't think you can make a bad impression, seeing how concerned you're.. either way you shouldn't be concerned with the kind of impression you make. I pity a people so judgmental that they'd focus on cosmetics over essence & I really hope you'll meet with wonderful people in fact insha'Allah I know you'll be.. back in the days when I wasn't practicing I would be invited by Muslims who didn't know I was a Muslim and a middle easterner at that & they were very nice, never once did I hear oh My God, you're an alleged Muslim, you're wearing that, you're doing what, instead I was invited to iftars and lectures & the subject of my very overt sins never entered the scene.. . Just bite the bullet and go ukht.. four out of every five converts is a woman I don't think they were all fiddling in the closet for what to wear (although I admit it is a woman thing ''I haven't a thing to wear'') .. We all have to start somewhere ..May Allah swt make it easy on you..hahaha i am kinda nervous to be honest but i dont wanna go in there lookin like some hoochie mama, showing skin and stuff. i want make a good impression.
I don't think you can make a bad impression, seeing how concerned you're.. either way you shouldn't be concerned with the kind of impression you make. I pity a people so judgmental that they'd focus on cosmetics over essence & I really hope you'll meet with wonderful people in fact insha'Allah I know you'll be.. back in the days when I wasn't practicing I would be invited by Muslims who didn't know I was a Muslim and a middle easterner at that & they were very nice, never once did I hear oh My God, you're an alleged Muslim, you're wearing that, you're doing what, instead I was invited to iftars and lectures & the subject of my very overt sins never entered the scene.. . Just bite the bullet and go ukht.. four out of every five converts is a woman I don't think they were all fiddling in the closet for what to wear (although I admit it is a woman thing ''I haven't a thing to wear'') .. We all have to start somewhere ..May Allah swt make it easy on you..
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Thanx im super nervous, to be honest im not great at making friends cos im very very shy but hopefullly it will be fine so i can learn more bout islam and learn hw to pray![]()
im liked? im suprised im not driving everyone crazy with all my questions and threads haha
You're great at making friends.. I find that hard to believe given how much you're liked here..=)
you're indeed & very personable!im liked? im suprised im not driving everyone crazy with all my questions and threads haha
you're indeed & very personable!
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^Wow! I've been sewing almost all my life but I've never heard of self-threading machines. It sounds awesome! But nowadays all domestic sewing machines do buttonholes/fancy stitching etc. Sewing is really easy sis and you would enjoy it so much. The way I see it is, it's like driving a car. The pedal controls the speed and your hands control the fabric like as in steering it. Once you can sew straight lines, you can sew anything. It really reminds me of how once you can drive a car without going all over the place, you can drive anywhere. Lol, I so want you to give it a go. You'll also find it amazingly therapeutic.
i know this gonna sound bad but ive never sew in a day of life let alone make a hole dress but i do like the thought of having thats one of kind..like couture dresses hahaLadies,
By all means buy what you need. But also learn how to sew your own clothes. You can make 2/3 items for the price of a shop bought one. Abayas especially are really easy as are skirts. Use patterns if you can't cut freehand. And the best thing is that no one else will have the same clothes as you. That has to be worth it.
You mean there actually is something you can't do? :haha:
I am embarrassed to say this because I always pride myself on being able to conquer anything, but when it comes to art I am :hmm: in art class I always called my work 'abstract' & ahead of its time but it is because I have no sense of time/space, proportions, dimensions well you get the pic.. It is one of those things I love but can't do.. I feel if I attempt something the proportions would be positively laughable ;D;D I do like the idea of my own clothes unworn by anyone but I always commission a seamstress to do it for me..
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I had this dress made but with long sleeves.. I don't even know how you can attempt a dress like that.. I do like buying the material myself because I can purchase cotton or silk in lieu of polyester..
Jazaki Allah khyran ukhty, I am going to find the sewing machine I am talking about and post it here insha'Allah
i know this gonna sound bad but ive never sew in a day of life let alone make a hole dress but i do like the thought of having thats one of kind..like couture dresses haha
:skeleton:^o)You mean there actually is something you can't do?
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