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There was a rumor, a madrasah in East Java, Indonesia issued a fatwa "Facebook is haram". Then people in my city ask a local aleem, KH Miftah Faridl, and he said, Facebook can be used for good purpose or bad purpose. KH Miftah Faridl himself use facebook for da'wah.

Also, when I visited a website that created by alumnae of Dammaj Darul Hadith in Indonesia I found list of facebook accounts. The owner of those accounts are students of Shaykh Yahya Al Hajoori.

I agree with KH Miftah Faridl, Facebook can be used for good purpose or for bad purpose. Depend on the user themselves. However, from my observation, Facebook is the favorite social networking site for wrong people who use Facebook for bad purpose.


PS: I do not use Facebook.
 
There was a rumor, a madrasah in East Java, Indonesia issued a fatwa "Facebook is haram".
Sorry, forgot to explain. Fatwa "Facebook is haram" just a rumor. There was a confirmation, the fatwa that issued by that madrasah was not "Facebook is haram", but "Haram to use Facebook for wrong purpose"
 
Salaam,

How many articles are you going to post? I mean cannot you not do a summary and then post the sources?

wa'salaams,


why? does it bother you? does it take up too much space? or are you getting tire do of negating everything posted thus far?
 
There was a rumor, a madrasah in East Java, Indonesia issued a fatwa "Facebook is haram". .

Imams forbid use of Facebook for flirting or gossiping

Indonesian imams label "virtual" flirting a sin


Surabaya, INDONESIA (Agencies)

A group of Indonesian imams warned Muslims on Friday not to use popular Internet networking sites like Facebook for flirting or gossiping.

A non-binding resolution issued after a meeting of hundreds of scholars from Java and Bali islands warns that using sites like Facebook can lead to sinful lust and "obscenity."

"We forbid the use of Facebook, Friendster and other social networking sites unless they are being used to foster Islamic teaching," a spokesman for the clerics, Abdul Muid Shohib, said.

"So spreading ill words about others, gossiping and other things that go against religious teaching on social networking sites in the virtual world are forbidden according to Islamic law."

Facebook is hugely popular in the world's most populous Muslim country, and while rulings from Islamic clerics are influential they are rarely followed to the letter.

Indonesia ranks fifth behind the United States, the United Kingdom, Italy and France in terms of Facebook use, according to Internet tracking website Alexa.com.

This is despite its crumbling or, in many areas, non-existent digital infrastructure, and the fact that the majority of the country's 234 million people have little or no access to computers.

Shohib acknowledged that the networking site, where people can set up their own profile pages and share comments and pictures with their friends, was also popular among students and imams at Indonesia's conservative Islamic schools.

"We realize that the virtual world is hard to control," he said.

"There are many senior imams who worry because Por*nographic images often pop out while they interact through Facebook," he added.
 
Trapped girls updated Facebook instead of calling police

By Bonnie Malkin in Sydney - 08 Sep 2009

Police in Australia have voiced their concern about the growing use of social networking sites after two young girls who were trapped in a drainage well system updated their Facebook profiles instead of calling the emergency services for help.

The girls, aged 10 and 12, used their mobile phones to access the popular website and update their statuses, alerting friends and family that they were lost in a storm drain in Adelaide's southern suburbs. Their exact status updates have not been released.

The girls were rescued at about 7.30pm on Sunday night after a friend, who was online at the time, decided to call the police. Ambulance crews were sent to the scene but the girls were not injured and did not require treatment.

Glenn Benham, a spokesman for the Metropolitan Fire Service (MFS) in Adelaide, said it was lucky that someone had seen their status update and realised that it was not a joke. Storm drains are prone to flash flooding and are very dangerous, the fire service has warned.

"It is a worry for us because it causes a delay on us being able to rescue the girls," he told the Australian Broadcasting Corporation.

"If they were able to access Facebook from their mobile phones, they could have called 000 [the Australian equivalent of 999], so the point being they could have called us directly and we could have got there quicker than relying on someone being online and replying to them and eventually having to call us via 000 anyway."

Terry Flew, Professor of Media and Communications at the Queensland University of Technology, said Facebook and sites like it had become the first port of call for young people who wanted to get their message – no matter how serious – out into the public realm.

"For these kids, by the sounds of it, being on Facebook is just such a pervasive part of their lives that it seems the first line of response if they need to communicate a message to others.

"I guess for these people the natural way to send a message out to their friends and others is via Facebook, unfortunately in this case the message was that they were stuck in a stormwater drain."

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/technology/facebook/6155017/Trapped-girls-updated-Facebook-instead-of-calling-police.html
 
A group of Indonesian imams warned Muslims on Friday not to use popular Internet networking sites like Facebook for flirting or gossiping.

A non-binding resolution issued after a meeting of hundreds of scholars from Java and Bali islands warns that using sites like Facebook can lead to sinful lust and "obscenity."
Just clarify. Those Imams/scholar are from an organization that run a number of female madrasah. Not scholars from MUI (Indonesian ulama council)

Before issued fatwa about Facebook, they issued four fatawa. Only one of those four fatawa that approved by MUI, the rest were refused because these are based on very weak daleel.
 
7.5 million Facebook users are under 13: study

5/10/2011

WASHINGTON — Some 7.5 million of the 20 million minors who used Facebook in the past year were younger than 13, and a million of them were bullied, harassed or threatened on the site, says a study released Tuesday.

Even more troubling, more than five million Facebook users were 10 years old or younger, and they were allowed to use Facebook largely without parental supervision leaving them vulnerable to threats ranging from malware to sexual predators, the State of the Net survey by Consumer Reports found.

Facebook's terms of service require users to be at least 13 years old but many children, or their parents, get around that rule by giving a false birth date when they sign up for the social networking site.

Parents of kids 10 and younger who use Facebook "seem to be largely unconcerned" by their children's use of the site, possibly because they think a young child is less vulnerable to Internet risks, the study says.

But while a 10-year-old might not download pornography on the Internet, he or she does "need protection from other hazards that might lurk on the Internet, such as links that infect their computer with malware and invitations from strangers, not to mention bullies," the study says.

More than five million US households have been exposed in the past year to "some type of abuse" via Facebook, including virus infections, identity theft and bullying, says the study, for which 2,089 US households were interviewed earlier this year.

Consumer Reports urged parents to delete their pre-teens' Facebook accounts -- or ask Facebook to do so by using the site's "report an underage child" form
-- and to monitor teenage kids' accounts by friending them or keeping an eye on their activity via siblings' or friends' Facebook pages.

It also called on Facebook to "beef up its screening to drastically reduce the number of underage members."

Facebook was not immediately available for comment.




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Docs warn about Facebook use and teen depression

03/28/2011

CHICAGO, Illinois — Add "Facebook depression" to potential harms linked with social media, an influential doctors' group warns, referring to a condition it says may affect troubled teens who obsess over the online site.

Researchers disagree on whether it's simply an extension of depression some kids feel in other circumstances, or a distinct condition linked with using the online site.

But there are unique aspects of Facebook that can make it a particularly tough social landscape to navigate for kids already dealing with poor self-esteem, said Dr. Gwenn O'Keeffe, a Boston-area pediatrician and lead author of new American Academy of Pediatrics social media guidelines.

With in-your-face friends' tallies, status updates and photos of happy-looking people having great times, Facebook pages can make some kids feel even worse if they think they don't measure up.

It can be more painful than sitting alone in a crowded school cafeteria or other real-life encounters that can make kids feel down, O'Keeffe said, because Facebook provides a skewed view of what's really going on. Online, there's no way to see facial expressions or read body language that provide context.

The guidelines urge pediatricians to encourage parents to talk with their kids about online use and to be aware of Facebook depression, cyberbullying, sexting and other online risks. They were published online Monday in Pediatrics.

Abby Abolt, 16, a Chicago high school sophomore and frequent Facebook user, says the site has never made her feel depressed, but that she can understand how it might affect some kids.

"If you really didn't have that many friends and weren't really doing much with your life, and saw other peoples' status updates and pictures and what they were doing with friends, I could see how that would make them upset," she said.

"It's like a big popularity contest — who can get the most friend requests or get the most pictures tagged," she said.

Also, it's common among some teens to post snotty or judgmental messages on the Facebook walls of people they don't like, said Gaby Navarro, 18, a senior from Grayslake, Illinois. It's happened to her friends, and she said she could imagine how that could make some teens feel depressed.

"Parents should definitely know" about these practices," Navarro said. "It's good to raise awareness about it."

The academy guidelines note that online harassment "can cause profound psychosocial outcomes," including suicide. The widely publicized suicide of a 15-year-old Massachusetts girl last year occurred after she'd been bullied and harassed, in person and on Facebook.

"Facebook is where all the teens are hanging out now. It's their corner store," O'Keeffe said...




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Mom on Facebook sentenced in son's drowning death

4/15/2011

GREELEY, Colo. (AP) — A northern Colorado woman who was playing a game on Facebook while her 13-month-old baby drowned in a bathtub was sentenced Friday to 10 years in prison.

Shannon Johnson, 34, of Fort Lupton, cried as District Judge Thomas Quammen told her he didn't think she was a bad person or that she killed her son on purpose, the Greeley Tribune reported. But, he added, that doesn't mean her action wasn't criminal.

"You left this little boy in a bathtub so you could entertain yourself on the computer by playing games," Quammen said. "And you left that 13-month-old human being, little Joseph, incredibly for those reasons."

Johnson pleaded guilty in March to negligently causing the death of her child. The charge carried a sentencing range of four to 12 years, but it also left open the possibility of alternative sentencing, which means she might have avoided spending time behind bars. Authorities rejected that option, saying they didn't want to play down the seriousness of her crime.

According to court documents, Johnson put her son in the tub for his bath a little after 8:30 a.m. on Sept. 20. She then left him unsupervised as she went to another room to share videos, check status updates and play Café World on Facebook.

When she returned to the bathroom, she found Joseph sideways and face-down in the water.

Johnson called 911 to say Joseph wasn't breathing. Paramedics were able to revive the toddler but he was pronounced dead at a Denver hospital.

According to the affidavit, Johnson told police the boy "wanted to be left alone" and was a very "independent baby." She also told police she knew what it was like to be told "no," and she did not want her baby to be told "no." The affidavit says she also did not want him to be known as a "mama's boy."

Johnson told police she gave the boy a bath every day — sometimes twice a day. She said that on the day Joseph died, the water level might have been higher than usual.

Johnson told police she had been leaving Joseph in the bathtub alone for weeks.

Johnson also told authorities that her son had a seizure at his grandmother's house a month earlier and had been given anti-seizure medication in case it happened again. Doctors didn't diagnose the cause of the seizure and there were no other occurrences, Johnson said.

The investigation into the boy's death was delayed while investigators waited for the final autopsy report. That report came back Jan. 3. It said the baby died of anoxic brain injury, cardiac arrest and drowning, according to the arrest affidavit. Johnson was arrested days later.

She was also sentenced to five years of mandatory parole following her incarceration.

Weld County Undersheriff Margie Martinez told KMGH-TV in Denver that Johnson's mother said she had warned her daughter of the danger of leaving the toddler unattended in water just days before he drowned.

"She told her she wouldn't do it anymore," Martinez said.
 
:salamext:

those articles are craaaaazy. shows what the internet can do to people. i think my friend was telling me about how a couple neglected their own child, resulting in it's death... all because they were busy caring for their VIRTUAL baby. :rolleyes: audhubillah...
 
^ son, reply to salams at least. All these video games made you so rude !
 
^ aah ! he got me again. Cbdullahi is very smart. :rolleyes:

Abdullahii what is the C for in your new name ?
 
Infographic: 6 Privacy Problems In Facebook’s Updates


Timeline and the open graph call for a review of one’s privacy settings.

People continue to ignore the ever-growing number of privacy concerns with Facebook. Here are some warnings from CheckPoint ZoneAlarm‘s infograph about timeline and open graph.

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How to disable Facebook Timeline and get the old profile back


by
Sharon Vaknin November 29, 2011

When Facebook Timeline was announced, it didn't take long for the Internet to figure out that even though the new profile design isn't yet available to the public, anyone could get it immediately with this little hack.

Today, over 1.5 million users have activated Timeline with this workaround, making the new profile visible to each of them and anyone else who has enabled it.

Eventually, Facebook will mandate Timeline for everyone, and when that happens, expect a lot of backlash. Many people, even those who opted in to the new design, seriously dislike it. They're calling it narcissistic, cluttered, and creepy.

If you concur, and you were one of those people who enabled Timeline, there's still a way to enjoy the old profile design (while it lasts.)

Step 1:
Head to the Facebook Developers page where you originally created an app to enable Timeline. Click "Edit app."

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Step 2:
The only way to remove Timeline is to delete the app. If you are an actual developer, you're out of luck. Otherwise, click "Delete app" in the left sidebar.

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Once you confirm the app deletion, your Facebook Timeline will be disabled.

http://howto.cnet.com/8301-11310_39-...d-profile-back

 
We need to do a summary. A summary that includes the advantages and disadvantages of using Facebook. If the disadvantages outweighs the advantages, then Facebook should not be used. To ban it is another question...
 
Let me share with you my Problem with Facebook :

3 years ago. I was at university. I was good with my studies, but I was moneyless. And I was looking for a job to get some money to continue my studies, but nothing was appearing to go the right way. So I was extremely depressed, and was loosing years of hard work because of thing beyond my hands.
I was doing my prayers at masjid, but my imaan was decreasing and I was loosing hope. I was already imagining myself when I will be 40 or 50 years old without home and without wife because I didn't get a nice job to ensure my living.
Meanwhile I was also using FB, like every guy. It started with class friends sharing stupid stuff, comments, likes etc. I was already thinking that facebook is really a waste of time (to facebook lovers, no offence intended, just my personal opinion. you know what I mean, bla bla)
But really, It was like : when someone shared something beneficial, like important news or scientific reserach or knowledge, you don't find anyone interested, except some fake 'likes' just to not hurt you. But when you share something extra stupid just to make a laugh or to pass time because you can't sleep, then you find hundred of comments and likes. I was convinced that human "nafs" is not interested in serious and beneficial things, "nafs" is only interested in passtimes, laughs, and in compliments. "Nafs" is also not interested in sincere critics.
And Facebook creators where aware of this weakness in this nafs, so they gave us what we need in the name of "social networking" and "it let's you find your friends and keep in touch with family" or whatever. And the result is young people loosing their precious youth's energy and their time in just empty talks.
Add to that, haram online talks and relationships (between opposite genders), immodest pictures, songs, games, etc..
And add to that, the insults about religions. What made me more depressed and more angry is that 90% of facebook users are inexperienced, uncultivated young people. Most of them do not know about the different religions and what is every religion about. They even don't know what are the atheist arguments and what religious people have already replied to them. I don't have any problem with people of different religion or way of thinking as long as they are intelligent enough to carry on a civilized discussion.
But the problem is that some people used facebook to insult islam, prophet muhammad pbuh, and Allah without supporting their point of view with sound argument. They made FB pages about the prophet and posted offensive pictures.
One stupid thing I did is that I was thinking as a muslim, my duty is to stay on FB and reply to these offenders. I was logging into their filthy pages and trying to discuss with them and to defend islam.
But after months of "fights" I realized I was stupid, what was I thinking about ? They are not even ready to talk, they are racist uneducated people who are mad about islam and they don't want to talk to muslims, they only want to insult us and feel better.
The FB users who are Muslims are not making things better, they are whether starting fight with those bigots, or even worse, they are spreading the offensive pictures or messages without being aware of that.
In facebook I was between tow bad things : the fitnah of social networks, and the fitnah of anti-muslims. There was some good stuff, like ulama' fan pages where you find some lectures or courses. But was not able to concentrate and learn too much from this stuff, because of the environment of FB : pictures of girls at the right, chat messages at the bottom, advertisments, etc..
The most upsetting thing about FB is that facebook was not doing any measures about these offensive anti-islam pages, But it was quickly closing every page that attacks zionism or israel or about the right of palestinians.
At that moment things were clear : Like every media tool, facebook is taking the same way : attacking Islam, and controlled by the same rich zionist minority.
I decided that FB is not my place (Facebook lovers : personal opinion, remember)
I disabled my account. But I was suffering addiction remains.
So I wanted to join a clean community, to learn more about my deen to protect myself against anti-muslims and to find answers for some questions I have. and to replace my need to FB.
First I was searching for a FB-like muslim social network : I find many examples, but not really "islamic". I kept searching and googling again. I found IslamicBoard on the list of links, I don't remember what is the order, but what I remember is that it attracted me because of the thread it was discussing at that time. It was about the existence of God. What surprised me too is the diversity of religions here : I found beautiful discussions where you find muslims, christians, atheists, and sometimes jews, or hindus, etc. That made me think that islam could flourish more in a free civilized environment, then in an oppressing or uncivilized area.
I loved this forum and loved all the members here, and since then, I didn't leave it.
 
Facebook Menace - What we should do

The issue of Facebook and their latest antics against our Beloved Muhammad sallallāhu ῾alayhi wasallam has angered and frustrated the Muslim Ummah. The reaction of the Muslim Ummah in the face of such blasphemy is appreciated. This malevolence is not foreign to Islam and the Muslims. During the time of our beloved Muhammad sallallāhu ῾alayhi wasallam, individuals like Ka’ab Bin Ashraf , Abu Lahab, his wife and others were also guilty of defaming our Prophet sallallāhu ῾alayhi wasallam. Their fate is known to all.

Our responsibility as Muslims to our beloved Muhammad sallallāhu ῾alayhi wasallam is as follows:

1. To delete Facebook accounts and any other media that deems it acceptable to disrespect our beloved Rasoolullah sallallāhu ῾alayhi wasallam and never to reactivate them again.

2. To inform others of the above as well.

3. Deleting facebook is one form of expressing our love for Rasoolullah sallallāhu ῾alayhi wasallam. However, objective love of Rasoolullah sallallāhu ῾alayhi wasallam is to inculcate his teachings in our life.


Boycotting that site on principle alone should be enough. But if you want to look at it on monetary value. Facebook makes $2.39 per user visiting their site and having an account, that's how much you are giving to facebook to insult your prophet. Pakistan's internet traffic composed of 25% was going to facebook, so for example let's just say out of the 200+ millions of Pakistanis, even if only 50 million were visiting facebook that's 50 million times 2.39 = $119.5 million dollars facebook is making of Pakistanis alone. What about rest of the Muslims on there? So you see you are supporting the enemies of Allah and His Messenger by having your account there, and well lets just I would rather not be raised as one of them (kuffars) on Judgment Day nor as a supporter of them.

And since Facebook itself refused to do anything at protest of a nation (Pakistan) shows their position on this and I would venture to say it may even be obligatory for us to not have anything to do with that site.


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How do I permanently delete my account?


If you deactivate your account from the "Deactivate Account" section on the Account page, your profile and all information associated with it are immediately made inaccessible to other Facebook users. What this means is that you effectively disappear from the Facebook service. However, if you want to reactivate at some point, we do save your profile information (friends, photos, interests, etc.), and your account will look just the way it did when you deactivated if you decide to reactivate it. Many users deactivate their accounts for temporary reasons and expect their information to be there when they return to the service.

If you do not think you will use Facebook again and would like your account deleted, please keep in mind that you will not be able to reactivate your account or retrieve any of the content or information you have added. If you would like your account permanently deleted with no option for recovery, log in to your account and then submit your request by clicking here.

If you are currently unable to access your account, you will need to reset your password in order to log in. In order to do so, click the "Forgot your password?" link that appears above the field where you would normally enter your password. Once you’ve followed the instructions to reset your password and can log in, you can deactivate or delete your account using the steps outlined above.
 
^You know, it would have saved a lot of time to have just posted the above message at the beginning of this currently seven page long thread...
 

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