Firstly, I am sorry that you've lost everything in the storm. There are many places you can go to for help. I am not sure about New Jersey but, if you go to any organization they should be able to give you some resources available for the sandy victim. The dept of labor is helping out with people who've lost jobs, FEMA is out there as well. Please get in touch with them. If anyone is from New Jersey in this thread and knows about any resources that this individual can take adventage of please come forward and help. Also, I am sure the muslim organizations in NJ should be able to help as well. I dont live in NY therefore, I do not have much info.
Secondly, I would like to remind you that whatever happens it only happens for the best as Allah SWT is in control of all our affairs. Your situation right now may not make any sense to you and you may be thinking what good could possibly come out of this. But, it is no doubt a trial from Allah SWT and requires patience from his servants. know that the days of ease are waiting for you. Turn to Allah SWT for help and rely on him. The Sahabas faced many obstacles and faced harsh conditions compared to us, however, they were steadfast in their iman and firm in their belief. Those who love Allah SWT cannot pass this life without trials. that in itself is a source of cleansing and mercy. May Allah make it easy for you and give you sabr.
Coping with Life!!!!
"We cannot contol life: we cannot control the changes in weather, health, time, our emotions, places, and condition. If we are not prepared for such changes; then when they occur, will cause us to punge in a state of despair, anxiety, emotional disablity and breakdown.
Today, We as Human beings, we forget reality....we forget the Truth! We forget this basic understanding of life that we are unable to control life and are not able to avoid the negatives that it brings our way. With All the advancement, Humans Today are in a state of denial and heedlessness; we can also call it a state of blindness and A lie." Ahmed Moait