How to get rid of attachment and dependency on parents?

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Life seems so boring...How do I get rid of this thought?

Honestly my life seems so boring and lonely...I have friends but do not wish to hang around with them because it does not interest me going out to the cinema or going to a fancy restaurant for food and drink....plus they talk about the same things all the time...who's going out with who or who's getting married or whose really pretty...my friends who I do like are married and have kids to look after etc...I don't know why I dont like feeling like being around anyone...I know its not good...but I dont know what to do...I feel no joy...it feels like my soul is dead....I have so many things to do but don't know where to start...I just feel like sleeping and not doing anything...

Also on a side note...how do I develop fear of the hellfire? its just like I've accepted that I will be in there and it will be right as Allah swt is the most just....sometimes feel like im useless I cant do anything right...everything has to be perfect....
 
Re: Life seems so boring...How do I get rid of this thought?

Honestly my life seems so boring and lonely...I have friends but do not wish to hang around with them because it does not interest me going out to the cinema or going to a fancy restaurant for food and drink....plus they talk about the same things all the time...who's going out with who or who's getting married or whose really pretty...my friends who I do like are married and have kids to look after etc...I don't know why I dont like feeling like being around anyone...I know its not good...but I dont know what to do...I feel no joy...it feels like my soul is dead....I have so many things to do but don't know where to start...I just feel like sleeping and not doing anything...

Also on a side note...how do I develop fear of the hellfire? its just like I've accepted that I will be in there and it will be right as Allah swt is the most just....sometimes feel like im useless I cant do anything right...everything has to be perfect....

I guess you'll develop the fear wen you read abt it. scares me alot web u read abt it in the Qur'an.

keep asking Allah to grant u jannah Allahuma inni asaluka jannahtul firdos ( oh Allah I ask u for jannah ul firdos). u cn recite this dua or Allahuma ajirni minnan nar. (O Allah save me from the hell fire).

ukhti we're all human beings no ones perfect, we make mistakes buh Allah is there to forgive us one shouldnt lose hope.
 

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