Love or Desire (A good article to read Insh'Allah)

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IsaAbdullah said:
man i cant wait till i have kids, imagine just going masjeed with them and teachin them quran, and being imam to your whole family at night prayer, waking their little bodies up, helping them do wudu and then seeing then postrate and teachin them the way of our prophet peace be upon him, watchin them grow, hearing them recite quran, man I so so so cant wait, omg, you have to love kids.
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Wow brother, I love your enthusiasm and passion. May Allah give you the children of your dreams. Ameen.

Not to burst your bubble or anything but having children as got to be the toughest job ever! Especially when they vomit and you have to clean it up. Otherwise, InshaAllah, kids are adorable.

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for real man, that is disgusting, i mean like changing nappies and all but man, i mean, ur seed growing before your eyes, watchin him or her prayin in their tiny feet, educating them, teachin them how to write, playing games with them and teaching them and so on, given them everything we never had, by allah's will, man its gonna be hard, but i hope it goes well.

lol u aint burst my bubble, i think the hardestthing may be the birth, thats some disgusting phase.
 
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IsaAbdullah said:
man i cant wait till i have kids, imagine just going masjeed with them and teachin them quran, and being imam to your whole family at night prayer, waking their little bodies up, helping them do wudu and then seeing then postrate and teachin them the way of our prophet peace be upon him, watchin them grow, hearing them recite quran, man I so so so cant wait, omg, you have to love kids.
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That made me go awwww so sweet mashaAllah. Then I scrolled down and I saw...

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for real man, that is disgusting, i mean like changing nappies and all but man,
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That's so typical of many men. Even my son who's only seven (mashaAllah) told me that he will never change his kids nappies. He said it was disgusting. But he did say that he will play with them all the time ;D

Oh well there's still hope...

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As the scroll down the posts I wish some of the brothers and sisters here were with me atttending the courses on child abuse. It's a mandatory course for prospective foster parents.

I got the impression that when you're rich, your life's will be all gay and dandy. I hope you're right. Of course, you gotta live how you want to live.

I'm glad some of us are living in the real world. Oh ya, one question, for those teenagers, do your parents know that you're online responding to strangers' posts? [you don't have to answer this]

Love and desire. What a laugh. :)

I'll pray for YOUR kids. :)

Who knows, when I see them at the welfare office or DHS, they'll tell me, "momma used to be on the computer all day" and "daddy hit momma and yelled at us"

Quoting Ripley: "I hope you're right. I really do"
 
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I have deleted all off topic posts from this thread. If you disagree with an argument which a member has presented, you are not obliged to accept it, and you are more than welcome to offer a response. However personal attacks on fellow members in unacceptable,

barakallahu feekum.
 
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Takumi said:
As the scroll down the posts I wish some of the brothers and sisters here were with me atttending the courses on child abuse. It's a mandatory course for prospective foster parents.

I got the impression that when you're rich, your life's will be all gay and dandy. I hope you're right. Of course, you gotta live how you want to live.

I'm glad some of us are living in the real world. Oh ya, one question, for those teenagers, do your parents know that you're online responding to strangers' posts? [you don't have to answer this]

Love and desire. What a laugh. :)

I'll pray for YOUR kids. :)

Who knows, when I see them at the welfare office or DHS, they'll tell me, "momma used to be on the computer all day" and "daddy hit momma and yelled at us"

Quoting Ripley: "I hope you're right. I really do"
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Ahki i like your style, but like u said there are kids here so i think u should chill out a bit with them.:)

We dnt know they might be here to learn, so dnt discourage them pls.

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iqbal_ibn_adam said:
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Ahki i like your style, but like u said there are kids here so i think u should chill out a bit with them.:)

We dnt know they might be here to learn, so dnt discourage them pls.

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Chill out? I've chilled out with them so many times that I feel I'm in the North Pole now. :p

Thanks for the advice. I'll heed it.

You are blunt, straightforward and you go for the kill. :)

I like that. :)
 
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Takumi said:
Chill out? I've chilled out with them so many times that I feel I'm in the North Pole now. :p

Thanks for the advice. I'll heed it.

You are blunt, straightforward and you go for the kill. :)

I like that. :)
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lol
 
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I mean changing nappies is gonna be disgusting but it is part of the package so imma have to do it.

and I really dont get all this abuse stuff, erm, I dont, I dont see what ya gettin at bro
 
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samina1 said:
I DONT NEED UR CORRECTION BROTHA, FIRST PUT ON UR GLASSES THN TALK TO ME... I SAY IT DA WAY I KNW IT OKY, ALHUMDOLIHA...
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first calm down and say i seek refuge in Allah (swt) from iblis. inshA

second, why do u hate love?lol


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heartbroken people start to hate love kind of get put off.....(i think)...and tht smiley looks like a burnt tomato.....
 
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iqbal_ibn_adam said:
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first calm down and say i seek refuge in Allah (swt) from iblis. inshA

second, why do u hate love?lol


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wel salam firstable bro, and seconly i hope ur in da highest spirit of islam.
iam calm down alhumdoliah. sorry to say this, but i dont really wna talk abt love... i have family experience with love n i hate it bcz of tht.. so i rather sty away from tht topic..
:sister: ma salam
 
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samina1 said:
wel salam firstable bro, and seconly i hope ur in da highest spirit of islam.
iam calm down alhumdoliah. sorry to say this, but i dont really wna talk abt love... i have family experience with love n i hate it bcz of tht.. so i rather sty away from tht topic..
:sister: ma salam
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jk, point taken.
if that's the case than it doesn't mean u have to be like this for rest of your life. my little adive to you is that spk to sum sisters and inshA fings will work out for u one day.
do not be depressed, life is too short

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iqbal_ibn_adam said:
jk, point taken.
if that's the case than it doesn't mean u have to be like this for rest of your life. my little adive to you is that spk to sum sisters and inshA fings will work out for u one day.
do not be depressed, life is too short

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JAZAKALLAH KHAIR YA KHEE FOR DA ADVICE..
INSHALLAH I WIL THINK ABT THT.. IAM SURE I WILL BE ABLE TO LOVE ONE DAU.. BUT IM NOT SURE WHO.. ALLAH KNWS WHTS RIGHT FOR ME.. SO I WIL WAIT ALHUMDOLIAH.:)
FI AMANI ALLAH
 
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samina1 said:
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR YA KHEE FOR DA ADVICE..
INSHALLAH I WIL THINK ABT THT.. IAM SURE I WILL BE ABLE TO LOVE ONE DAU.. BUT IM NOT SURE WHO.. ALLAH KNWS WHTS RIGHT FOR ME.. SO I WIL WAIT ALHUMDOLIAH.:)
FI AMANI ALLAH
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sry if i said sumfing wrong, r u angry u got u CAPS on?
 
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Salam all!

Nice topic !
although i don't find time to watch movies but i agree... the influence they have on people is quite big!
At this is a point i would just like to emphasise on the role of media and it's effects that you'll all agree are no doubt great!
why don't we use this to promote the true islam then, in a way that is halal and has effect on youth too!
But for this we need to have a different approach towards deen and technology and purpose it serves instead of indulging over useless things about that is haram and that is halal ....
same thing that can be used to make people astray can be used to put them on the right path!
but instead what are we doing still stuck in the past not getting over it and still fighting over minor things, making sections and promoting OUR point of veiws and forgetting the true religion and most of all ALLAH!!

thanks
 
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Asslamu Alaikum

Jazakallah Khair for that article Sister taebah!!!

Asslamu Alaikum
Shakirah
 
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....and about love...uhmm i guess people loved when there were no movies,got married had kids raised them..right or wrong they knew and Allah SWT knows the best so He gave us the guidelines..
i don't think any harm in love it's just another emotion and everyone loves according to their own capacity and restrictions which only they allow themselves to be bound to, thats how the world is surviving! :)
can't really say much on it.
 
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assalamou 3alaykou
wajazakoum allah khayren for this article it is very intrsting, ana a want to say that now the effect of media is more dangerous that the magie , with all those fitan we ask, allah atabat. alaso i want to say that love it is not someting bad but it chould be in the right moment whith the right person
 

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