Question about discipline children

[sumay28]

I've tried the other way. I didn't start with spanking. I just recently starting the booty-whoopin'. I hate it. I tell them that I hate it. But if I don't, I'll be stepped on. When I beat them, they think twice before repeating what they did. But kids forget. My baby niece is definitely a little less violent. She screams, but she thinks twice before hitting the other kids. The beating works, but they just find new bone-headed things to do. There's 4 of them, man! They feed off of eachother's bad behavior. I was an only child... no one to really get me into trouble. If my dad yelled at me I would shatter into a million pieces. You yell at these kids they laugh! :rant:

 

[Anette]

I've tried the other way. I didn't start with spanking. I just recently starting the booty-whoopin'. I hate it. I tell them that I hate it. But if I don't, I'll be stepped on. When I beat them, they think twice before repeating what they did. But kids forget. My baby niece is definitely a little less violent. She screams, but she thinks twice before hitting the other kids. The beating works, but they just find new bone-headed things to do. There's 4 of them, man! They feed off of eachother's bad behavior. I was an only child... no one to really get me into trouble. If my dad yelled at me I would shatter into a million pieces. You yell at these kids they laugh! :rant:

I also have four children so I know what you talking about regarding feed off of eachother´s bad behaviour.

I feel so sad when you are writing that you hate it.

It is not easy bringing up children and we all do our best. That is something that is for sure.



Peace