to wear the hijab or not to wear the hijab

Assalamo-alaikum-warahmatullahi-wabrakatu

sis where is that daleel that its a sunnah to wear hijab pls?

when says
“O Prophet! Tell your wives and your daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks (veils) all over their bodies (i.e. screen themselves completely except the eyes or one eye to see the way)”
[al-Ahzaab 33:59]

I am failing to understand what brother iqbal_ibn_adam has said wrong here!!!!!!! he is just stating the truth! Why are you getting all worked up???

Masalaam
Br Abdullah
 
:sl:
sorry but I don't care. I don't think anything if people question anything about islam due to lack of knowledge etc. But this has nothing to do with that. This is blaming Allah :'( I can't take it and I wont be calm when I hear such stuff coming from a muslim. I've seen stupid women blaming Allah cuz someone in their family has died. I wanna slap their silly little faces when they beat their chests and say "Allah why did you do this cruel thing to us?" No way am I going to remain calm. I'll let someone else do that part.

This reminds me of a relative of mine (who knows everything about islam) who was visiting us one day. Ok, he had a bad day and you know what he said? he said "It's His fault up there!" I said "Who's?"
and he replied "Him! up there!!!" what the heck! How dare he address Allah like that? He had pure contempt written all over his face. I told him to get out of my house and come back after he has reflected on what he'd said and asked Allah for forgiveness. :giggling: He drove off, and came back 30 minutes later and said sorry and we had a good laugh at me telling him to get out! ;D I know if I'd said "Awwww bro0o don't say that... it isnt Allah's fault blah blah blah." It wouldnt have had an impact on him. I told him he was lucky I hadnt slapped him :D He was shocked but said he didn't blame me for what I'd done. I know I get emotional, but I can't take it when someone says something bad about Allah. It kills me :'(

Anyway I'm not going to pretend to be something I'm not for the sake of a few reps. To me that's hypocrisy. Forget that! I'd rather say what is in my heart. At least you know with me.. what you see is what you get :thankyou:

:w:


:sl:
I agree wid u and also i'm proud of u is well that u feel this way when sum ppl say things that they shouldn't.
One thing u have ask urself is that do u love Allah swt more than prophet (saw) did?
I am sure the answer will be Prophet (saw) so my advice to u is that follow the footsteps of the beloved of Allah swt.

You also need to understand that Allah swt judges a person by his niya (intention), so as long as yours is clear than inshA the rewards is there for u.:)
 
:sl:
I agree wid u and also i'm proud of u is well that u feel this way when sum ppl say things that they shouldn't.
One thing u have ask urself is that do u love Allah swt more than prophet (saw) did?
I am sure the answer will be Prophet (saw) so my advice to u is that follow the footsteps of the beloved of Allah swt.

You also need to understand that Allah swt judges a person by his niya (intention), so as long as yours is clear than inshA the rewards is there for u.:)

:sl: i know what ur saying bro and u mean good. But I'm not perfect and i dont expect others to b. but in these situations i cant control myself . i dont think the prophet would've remained calm if a muslim had refered to Allah in dat way either.. it might look like a weakness on my part to others.. but i hope i always feel this way :statisfie lol
:w:
 
sister....as long as you stay on top of your deen you should be alright.....talk to whoever you want, jus tbe careful who you choose to talk to.....you dont have to wear hijab if youre not comfortable with it...but when you do wear it, than you should wear it for Allah, not for a boy, or mom and dad, or me, or whoever......people might talk about you but Allah is the only one who will judge you.......so just concentrate to stay on your deen......keep islam in your heart and make du'a asking God for guidance.......as far as the boy goes, if you think that he understands your worth as a woman, and is willing ot be patient with you than talk to him....if he is not understaning of your worth as a muslim sister, than move on and find yourself another brother.....there are so many men in the world, noone says you should give yourself to the first one who comes around

peace
bez
 
Let me first make a point to say that hijab is fard on females of age.

I would always incourage someone to wear hijab. However, hijab is not a temporary decision or alternative. Depending on the type of person you are and where you live really affects your ability to chose to wear hijab or not. However, regardless of the situation, it is fard. But it is better to be a good Muslim and not wear it, then to wear hijab and think that makes you a good Muslim....

peace, Naimah
 
:sl:
sorry but I don't care. I don't think anything if people question anything about islam due to lack of knowledge etc. But this has nothing to do with that. This is blaming Allah :'( I can't take it and I wont be calm when I hear such stuff coming from a muslim. I've seen stupid women blaming Allah cuz someone in their family has died. I wanna slap their silly little faces when they beat their chests and say "Allah why did you do this cruel thing to us?" No way am I going to remain calm. I'll let someone else do that part.

This reminds me of a relative of mine (who knows everything about islam) who was visiting us one day. Ok, he had a bad day and you know what he said? he said "It's His fault up there!" I said "Who's?"
and he replied "Him! up there!!!" what the heck! How dare he address Allah like that? He had pure contempt written all over his face. I told him to get out of my house and come back after he has reflected on what he'd said and asked Allah for forgiveness. :giggling: He drove off, and came back 30 minutes later and said sorry and we had a good laugh at me telling him to get out! ;D I know if I'd said "Awwww bro0o don't say that... it isnt Allah's fault blah blah blah." It wouldnt have had an impact on him. I told him he was lucky I hadnt slapped him :D He was shocked but said he didn't blame me for what I'd done. I know I get emotional, but I can't take it when someone says something bad about Allah. It kills me :'(

Anyway I'm not going to pretend to be something I'm not for the sake of a few reps. To me that's hypocrisy. Forget that! I'd rather say what is in my heart. At least you know with me.. what you see is what you get :thankyou:

:w:
Sisters !! Allah and his prophet Muhammed(pbuh) has put great stress on wearing of hijab for women. Hijab is compulsory for a women when she leaves her home. Hijab helps save women their modesty.

In america every day numbers of rape cases are registered imagine if american women start wearing hijab. This numbers can be drasctically fall. So hope Allah shows us the right way.
 
Sisters !! Allah and his prophet Muhammed(pbuh) has put great stress on wearing of hijab for women. Hijab is compulsory for a women when she leaves her home. Hijab helps save women their modesty.

In america every day numbers of rape cases are registered imagine if american women start wearing hijab. This numbers can be drasctically fall. So hope Allah shows us the right way.

EXACTLY!..It really is that plain and simple when it comes down to the nitty-gritty. Hijab was send down as a shield and protection for women. And that's what the word means, "curtain" You can't see inside my house, and I'm not gonna give you any ideas, so go knock on someone elses door!:giggling: "bye-bye" and have a nice day. On top of that you automatically demand repect when you step out of your house. Can you believe that a scarf on your head and loose clothing does all of that?...yup! that's why it's fard.

peace, Naimah
 
Sisters !! Allah and his prophet Muhammed(pbuh) has put great stress on wearing of hijab for women. Hijab is compulsory for a women when she leaves her home. Hijab helps save women their modesty.

In america every day numbers of rape cases are registered imagine if american women start wearing hijab. This numbers can be drasctically fall. So hope Allah shows us the right way.

alhumdulillah i wear hijaab. but u quoted my post in ur reply..how come? my post was addressing something else to another member :P :?
 

i really really really really need to start wearin my scarf, dunno wat it is but i find it really hard!!!

May Allah(swt) guide me inshaAllah and make it easy for me

INSPIRE ME GYALS :sister: :sister: :sister: :sister:
 

i really really really really need to start wearin my scarf, dunno wat it is but i find it really hard!!!

May Allah(swt) guide me inshaAllah and make it easy for me

INSPIRE ME GYALS :sister: :sister: :sister: :sister:


:sl:
There are lot of things we muslims should do, but we dnt do them coz we find it hard etc.
we need to understand the true teachings of Al-Islam,if we can do that and im sure we will do as wat Allah swt has ordered us to do.
There are lot of things we need to change about ourself to be able to obey the laws of Allah swt.
One of the many things which we need change is our company, There is a Ahadeeth of Aisha (ra) that wheneva u see a person dnt ask them how they are just look at their company and it will tell u the state of the person. So it is very important that we should take care of this issue inshA.
I know it's not easy coz shaytan is an open enemy to us.
One of the main thing we should understand is that, whateva we have been ordered to do we should do it for the pleasure of Allah swt and not for the rewards.

My advice to all is the seek refuge in Allah swt from shaytan.
 
:sl:
There are lot of things we muslims should do, but we dnt do them coz we find it hard etc.
we need to understand the true teachings of Al-Islam,if we can do that and im sure we will do as wat Allah swt has ordered us to do.
There are lot of things we need to change about ourself to be able to obey the laws of Allah swt.
One of the many things which we need change is our company, There is a Ahadeeth of Aisha (ra) that wheneva u see a person dnt ask them how they are just look at their company and it will tell u the state of the person. So it is very important that we should take care of this issue inshA.
I know it's not easy coz shaytan is an open enemy to us.
One of the main thing we should understand is that, whateva we have been ordered to do we should do it for the pleasure of Allah swt and not for the rewards.

My advice to all is the seek refuge in Allah swt from shaytan.

JAZAKALLAH 4 DAT BRUV MELL BEAR DAT IN MIND :sister:
 

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