Can I cure homosexuality?

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Assalamu'alaikum
I am a gay Muslim, and have been gay for as long as I can remember (childhood). However, of course, as a child I never thought that I was strange because I didn't know what homosexuality was. But nowadays I know what is halal and haram- homosexuality is haram. People say that we choose to become homosexual. However, I did NOT choose to be homosexual- I have always liked men, and what's worse, I have no sexual desire for women whatsoever. Nevertheless, I regularly pray to Allah for Him to "cure" me- I pray for Him to make me heterosexual like most other Muslims. I don't want to be gay because I know that Allah has told us homosexuality is a sin. I beg for all my Brothers and Sisters to give me advice- what prayers can I say, what can I do, to make me straight? I hate being gay, because it makes me feel like a hypocrite- I pray to Allah, and then I watch TV and become excited if I see an attractive man. So it's not just the fact that being gay is haram- it's also being a hypocrite too.
Please help me
 
a knw where u r cumin from bro bt i dn't av any advice at all ta help cuz NEVER cum across a lad dat is gay.....

i hope uda ppl can help u

take care
 
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just remember bro that Allah (SWT) will only punish you if you partake in homosexual acts. maybe this is a test from Allah, in which case He won't abandon you and He will listen to your sincere duas.
can you live without your tv, bro? nowadays, in every other show, men and women are taking off their clothes and flaunting their bodies. it'll only increase your desires and like the old cliche goes, add fuel to the fire.
don't give up hope in Allah's mercy and continuing praying to him.
insha'Allah, we will all make dua for you and continue advising you.
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welcome to da forum...:welcome: :)

i say dat u rememba Allah in wateva u do...n insha allah it may help :)

:w:
 
o bro sorry NOT welcumin yea :(

welcum ta da forum :)

hope u enjoy ur stay

tk/cr
 
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I read somewhere that it's psychological and IslamOnline.net I believe someone asked a scholar so you should look there. I'll go check it out for you in the meantime.

*opens tab*

Ok here's some:
- http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/...ounselingE/CyberCounselingE&cid=1132468085193
- http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/...ounselingE/CyberCounselingE&cid=1120469515285

And here's the search page for 'homosexuality':
- http://www.islamonline.net/completesearch/english/CompleteSearchCnAck.asp


No one is born Gay, we're all created by Allah (swt) to worship him. Men and women play different roles in society, and one of men's roles is to get married, take care of the family, have children, etc... If you're gay you wouldn't benefit mankind as much, not saying you don' have skills to build something or create software for example, but you wouldn't be attributing in accordance to the nature of human beings.

Islam helps society in every way, and there's a cure for every illness, we should pray for this brother.
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try a psychatrist. i know about... 15 people who used to be gay and they are now happily married to a member of the opposite sex.

as i'm sure u knw, homosexuality is a mental illness, and is curable through psychological exercises. see a psychatrist, inshAllah it will help.
 
Salaam.

If you are actively homo-sexual, then you'll need to do something about the company you keep. Rid the friends and people who you do such acts with or talk about with. If you just think like that, then I can only suggest pre-occupying the mind with something. When you see men you like, think of God and occupy your mind with another thought.

It's hard for me to advise, but I guess your problem can be treated the same as those Muslims who masturbate. Hopefully someone can provide some links on that matter.

Hope that helped in some way.
 
London2006 said:
Assalamu'alaikum
I am a gay Muslim, and have been gay for as long as I can remember (childhood). However, of course, as a child I never thought that I was strange because I didn't know what homosexuality was. But nowadays I know what is halal and haram- homosexuality is haram. People say that we choose to become homosexual. However, I did NOT choose to be homosexual- I have always liked men, and what's worse, I have no sexual desire for women whatsoever. Nevertheless, I regularly pray to Allah for Him to "cure" me- I pray for Him to make me heterosexual like most other Muslims. I don't want to be gay because I know that Allah has told us homosexuality is a sin. I beg for all my Brothers and Sisters to give me advice- what prayers can I say, what can I do, to make me straight? I hate being gay, because it makes me feel like a hypocrite- I pray to Allah, and then I watch TV and become excited if I see an attractive man. So it's not just the fact that being gay is haram- it's also being a hypocrite too.
Please help me
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hey bro.. welcome 2 da site..

wel ive never met anyone who woz/is gay but this advice iz comin 4rm da top of my head..

im really happi 2 hear dat u actually r following da Islamic ways and trying to get rid of this sin.. keep praying to Allah, you never know da power of prayer.. Allah will listen 2u very soon, inshahallah and help u.. a true Muslim like urself, wud try to seek advice and help so u can get rid of this.. i advise dat u read da Qur'aan and keep on praying during prayer times.. as long as u havent engaged in sexual acts u wont get any punishment.. thatz all da advice i can giv u bruv, i hpe i woz a help 2 u :statisfie

and i will pray to Allah so He will answer ur du'as..
 
If you are actively homo-sexual, then you'll need to do something about the company you keep. Rid the friends and people who you do such acts with or talk about with.
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very good advise...

this condition can be overcome...

God bless you
 
:sl: br. London2006,

From IslamToday.com:
Question: I have a big problem. Sometimes I think that I am a gay, but at the same time I have feelings towards women too. I feel miserable. I know Islam is against homosexuality. Am I sinful to have these feeling towards men?

Answered by Sheikh `Abd al-Wahhâb al-Turayrî, former professor at al-Imâm University in Riyadh

If a man has homosexual tendencies in his heart, he is not sinful for these. Allah does not call us to account for the feelings in our heart that we cannot always control. However, we are called to account for the deeds that we do.

A man who has homosexual tendencies must avoid acting upon them. He should remain chaste and seek his reward with Allah for his abstinence.

I advise you to do the following:

1. Do not proceed with those feelings. Instead, engage yorself with something else that is productive.

2. Do not look at men with desire.

3. Do not respond to any mental desire to do any action conforming to these feelings, by touching other men, coming closer to them, or the like.

4. Increase your portion of worship, particularly fasting, if you can do so.

May Allah guide you always. (SOURCE)​
So this is a test from Allah swt and you must patiently persevere and control any inclinations you may have of this nature and not act upon them. If you persevere, God will bestow upon you an immense reward. Your duty is just to control your desires, God will help you with the rest. You are not responsible for something beyond your control.

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Welcome!

May Allah help you and guide you the the right path.
 
I will make du'a for you. Allah answers the call of those who call on Him. Inshallah Allah will make it easy for you.

peace,
Naimah
 
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wellcome here bro
can't give better advice than others in this matter
but can pary fr u
may Allaah help u...........................................:)
 
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:sl: br. London2006,

From IslamToday.com:
Question: I have a big problem. Sometimes I think that I am a gay, but at the same time I have feelings towards women too. I feel miserable. I know Islam is against homosexuality. Am I sinful to have these feeling towards men?

Answered by Sheikh `Abd al-Wahhâb al-Turayrî, former professor at al-Imâm University in Riyadh

If a man has homosexual tendencies in his heart, he is not sinful for these. Allah does not call us to account for the feelings in our heart that we cannot always control. However, we are called to account for the deeds that we do.

A man who has homosexual tendencies must avoid acting upon them. He should remain chaste and seek his reward with Allah for his abstinence.

I advise you to do the following:

1. Do not proceed with those feelings. Instead, engage yorself with something else that is productive.

2. Do not look at men with desire.

3. Do not respond to any mental desire to do any action conforming to these feelings, by touching other men, coming closer to them, or the like.

4. Increase your portion of worship, particularly fasting, if you can do so.

May Allah guide you always. (SOURCE)​
So this is a test from Allah swt and you must patiently persevere and control any inclinations you may have of this nature and not act upon them. If you persevere, God will bestow upon you an immense reward. Your duty is just to control your desires, God will help you with the rest. You are not responsible for something beyond your control.

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Very nice support. Yes brother, your only duty now is to control your desire for God knows you're suffering in combating your own desire. You didn't want to be like that but God has destined you to be like that with wisdom and sagacity that we can't yet comprehend and understand. Believe me, your pain in your struggle to go against your evil desire won't be in vain, will be taken into account by God. You will be God's lover if you managed to do that!
 
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Salaam o alaikum wa Rahmatullah

May Allah guide you and strengthen you. Aameen.

Everyone has already given you good advice. I just wanted to quote a few ayaat's from the Holy Quran.

"On no soul doth Allah Place a burden greater than it can bear..." 2:286

"Seek help in patient perseverence and prayer..." 2:45

"Restrain yourself patiently with those who call on their Lord morning and evening, desiring His face. Do not turn your eyes from them, desiring the attractions of this world. And do not obey someone whose heart We have made neglectful of Our remembrance and who follows his own whims and desires and whose life has transgressed all bounds." 18:28

"You who believe! Seek help in steadfastness and prayer. Allah is with the steadfast." 2:153

InshaAllah, Allah hears and knows all. This life is a test. For each and everyone of us. This is part of your trials of this life. All we can do is our best. May Allah forgive us and guide us. Aameen.

"Perform prayer and give the alms. Any good you send ahead for yourselves, you will find with Allah. Certainly Allah sees what you do." (2:110)

AllahuAlim
Alaikum salaam wa rahmatullah
 
salaamaleykum bro,
stay strong, just take it as a MAJOR trial from Allah to you.
remember that this life is just temporary..the main objective is the heareafter.
as servantforever has said..there are centres where they do 'soul healing'...if u have any desi contact..i'm sure they will know a Sufi Sahb or sumthing like that.Normally they do soul-healing.
A friend of a classmate was a lesbien..and she's going for soul-healing ..i'm not sure of the outcome though.
well..be strong,inshaAllah.
 
Just make dua and have conviction that Allah answers it. Remember, Allah always tests the believing men. I will pray that you pass wilh flying colours.
 
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