Why is Allah doing this to me.

[smallkid]

Who's the teacher ?

 

[~ Sabr ~]

[MENTION=37162]smallkid[/MENTION] what is the main problem?

 

[noraina]

Brother, you have been given some very good advice. Allah SWT does NOT hate you, it could be that He wants to bring you closer to the Deen, to perfect your worship by you turning to Him in a time of difficulty. This could be Allah calling you to Him, so do not turn away. Have tawakkul, have trust in Allah's plan. As humans we sometimes only see a tiny pixel, it is Allah Who has the whole picture and can see things you are not yet aware of.

Try to read the story of the Prophet Ayyub (AS), his whole life pretty much fell apart and he must have struggled a lot but he kept his faith up.

And don't wish for death, life is too beautiful and has so many opportunities .

 

[smallkid]

My sister, isnt years of trial enough. I came close to Allah and when bad things continued to happen, I went back to what I was.

 

[~ Sabr ~]

So what have are you saying? Just because Allaah is constantly testing you, you want to end your life?

If that was what the Prophets did, we would be nowhere.

Allaah ONLY tests you because He 1) loves you or 2) cleanses you of your sins

 

[Umm Abed]

My sister, isnt years of trial enough. I came close to Allah and when bad things continued to happen, I went back to what I was.

Salam,

Never have a bad opinion of Allah Ta'ala. You can make dua asking Allah swt to remove your difficulties, and be patient.

 

[smallkid]

The most worrying thinng for me is to think what if e. Allah is not really in control and I have wasted my life by making revisions to for the pleasure of Allah and losing dunya because of those decisions.

 

[~ Sabr ~]

Muhammad :saws: was sinless since birth, so your point is flawed.

 

[Ineed Umar]

Mr. Deist is indeed right about about there being such a hadith in Bukhari but anything thing which goes against QURAN goes in the bin. Also here is an article confronting the whole issue

http://www.call-to-monotheism.com/d..._disprove_his_prophet_hood__assuming_he_did__

Please post had it and source because I had to Google to find it and it was very hard to find.

Please read more from hear.

 

[Eric H]

Greetings and peace be with you smallkid;

I shall only be 67 in a couple of weeks, and life is tough, you blunder from one crisis to the next. When you come to accept that life is not easy, you just accept it and get on with it.

Henry Ford, the founder of the Ford motor company said, whether you believe you can, or you believe you can't, you are probably right. You seem to have given up, and believe you can't, so that makes your belief right.

Once you believe you can, you then have to get of the bandwagon of despair, you need a determination and perseverance to succeed, it will not be handed to you. My daughter who is now 35 and has suffered with epilepsy through her life, she can cross the road and collapse in the middle of the road, somehow she finds the strength to keep going. She said failure is only failure when you stop trying and give up.

Failure happens when you blame others for your problems, if you are not doing enough, you need to do more.

I know you have the strength to keep going, and overcome your problems and doubts. You don't have to believe me, YOU NEED TO BELIEVE IN YOURSELF.

In the spirit of praying for the strength to persevere with loving kindness.

Eric

 

[smallkid]

Why is Allah goving everyone a similar test of 5 prayers, hajj and 30 days of fasting when he knows some people will fast in air conditioned rooms while the poor will fast working under scorching sun. Why Allah has commanded us 5 prayers when he knows that activity level of everyone is not the same. There is no equality in anything.

 

[Umm Abed]

Why is Allah goving everyone a similar test of 5 prayers, hajj and 30 days of fasting when he knows some people will fast in air conditioned rooms while the poor will fast working under scorching sun. Why Allah has commanded us 5 prayers when he knows that activity level of everyone is not the same. There is no equality in anything.

Allah swt knows us more than we know our own selves, after all, He is our Creator. It is not befitting for creation to question the Creator and we must be content in all conditions.

 

[smallkid]

I havent seen anyone suffer more than me. Everyone has atleast one success in life despite all their shprtcomings. I have none despite trying to remain as much close to Allah as possible. When my friends were drinking, I was doing tahajjud just to make Allah happy. And now each and everyone of them is a bacon of success, and I am here talking about suicide. Where is fairness of Allah ?

 

[Umm Abed]

I havent seen anyone suffer more than me. Everyone has atleast one success in life despite all their shprtcomings. I have none despite trying to remain as much close to Allah as possible. When my friends were drinking, I was doing tahajjud just to make Allah happy. And now each and everyone of them is a bacon of success, and I am here talking about suicide. Where is fairness of Allah ?

If you question like 'where is the fairness.." that in itself shows there is a huge deficiency in you which you need to work on. You need a constant introspection from yourself in order that you may succeed in life.

What I can say is, say, "Alhamdulillah for every condition You have put me in, O Allah!" and surely Allah's help will be with you ameen.

Have a look at your company. Dont mix with the wrong crowd or its effect will come on you. Their success is short lived, remember that. In any case, look at your own life, not others'

 

[~ Sabr ~]

Why is Allah goving everyone a similar test of 5 prayers, hajj and 30 days of fasting when he knows some people will fast in air conditioned rooms while the poor will fast working under scorching sun. Why Allah has commanded us 5 prayers when he knows that activity level of everyone is not the same. There is no equality in anything.

How is this a test?!?! WHY would you not want to worship the one who created you? Get yourself checked out for JInns brother, you are speaking very wrongly.

 

[noraina]

Brother, I will say again these trials you are facing are for a reason, a purpose - it is part of the test that life is, and failure only happens when you stop trying. So long as you struggle, have faith in Allah, build yourself back up, you are succeeding no matter how the odds might be. Even if everything is going wrong and you carry on trying that is no failure. Failure is when you despair in yourself and of Allah.

I feel as if you have lost patience - this is a vital trait of a believer, indeed of everyone who is successful. Continue your ibadat, and have patience. If you give up now you will have failed. The fact that you are posting here, asking for help and guidance, acknowledging your weakness is a great thing, it means you have not quite given up yet.

You might be feeling weak but hold on to Allah SWT. He will give you strength and guidance, He will show you the way, but only if you let Him and if you let go you'd only find yourself on your own. When you have no other friend or companion Allah is there for you.

Wa Alaykum Assalam

 

[sister herb]

I havent seen anyone suffer more than me. Everyone has atleast one success in life despite all their shprtcomings. I have none despite trying to remain as much close to Allah as possible. When my friends were drinking, I was doing tahajjud just to make Allah happy. And now each and everyone of them is a bacon of success, and I am here talking about suicide. Where is fairness of Allah ?

You haven´t seen anyone suffer more than you? Then, dear brother, I have to say that you haven´t seen a life very much, at the least not yet. Look around yourself and you can see suffering everywhere in this world - much more than you can ever imagine.

I think that it tells a lot about the human nature how we usually are reacting when we face something good or something bad in our lives. When something bad happens, we blame about it our destiny or Allah, while we should remember to thank Him. We should thank Him when something good happens to us - but we many times forget but also thank Him when something bad happens - but then we start to blame Him, be angry for Him or question His existance.

 

[Muslim Woman]

Allah burdens not a person beyond his scope.


(سورة البقرة, Al-Baqara, Chapter #2, Verse #286)

 

[smallkid]

Then my dear sister you havent been tested enough . lucky u.

 

[Muslim Woman]

Then my dear sister you havent been tested enough . lucky u.

how do u know ? We all have problems ; Prophets pbut faced more problems than us . No Prophet ever committed suicide . Put your focus on hereafter rather than this temporary world .