ADOPTION IN ISLAM. what do i do??

honestly i feel like giving up on everything now.i'm locked in my room and i threw up blood and i cant breath properly and i feel like letting myself suffocate and die. i cant even cry loud enough now. i cant take this anymore.........

i know thats haram and i hate myself for saying that and that makes me hate myself even more which makes me want to let myself die. i'm in dire need of some good change or words or i'm afraid i wont be here tomorrow, which is good for you guys, finally you'll get rid of me!
 
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ramen-thelegend said:
honestly i feel like giving up on everything now.i'm locked in my room and i threw up blood and i cant breath properly and i feel like letting myself suffocate and die. i cant even cry loud enough now. i cant take this anymore.........

i know thats haram and i hate myself for saying that and that makes me hate myself even more which makes me want to let myself die. i'm in dire need of some good change or words or i'm afraid i wont be here tomorrow, which is good for you guys, finally you'll get rid of me!
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No, don't say that. Good for us? rid of you? Never would we think of a sister like that, at least not me.

Stay strong, verily Allah SWT is with the patient.

May Allah SWT grant you sabr in these hard times. Ameen.

May Allah SWT heal you. Ameen.
 
Allah wants to make things easy for you, don't stress and take your grandpa with you iA. :)

و عليكم السلام و رحمة الله
 
Also sis, I know you're going through a tough time, may Allah make it easy for you, you are strong. May Allah forgive us all and guide us, in sha Allah your trial will be a means for you to enter Jannah. ❤️

Hopefully this would be of much use.

At times of distress the Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, Allah's peace and blessings be upon him, would say:

-يَا حَيُّ يَا قَيُّوْمُ بِرَحْمَتِكَ أَسْتَغِيْث

Transliteration: Ya Hayyu ya Qayyoomu, bi raHmatika astagheeth

Translation: Oh Living, oh Sustainer, in your mercy I plead for rescue. (At-Tirmidhi)



Prophet Muhammad ﷺ would also say:

-اللّهُمَّ لا سَهْلَ إلا ما جَعَلْتَهُ سَهْلا وَأنتَ تَجْعَلُ الحَزْنَ إذا شِئْتَ سَهْلا

Transliteration: Allahumma laa sahla illaa maa ja`altahu sahlan, wa anta taj`alul-hazna idhaa shi' ta sahlan.

Translation: Oh Allah, there is nothing made easy except what you make easy, and you make the difficult easy, if you wish. (Ibn Hibban and Ibn As-Sunni)


"Those who have believed and whose hearts are assured by the remembrance of Allah . Unquestionably, by the remembrance of Allah hearts are assured." (Qur'an, 13:28)
 
Could some scholars take a bit of time out and answer this sisters questions and concerns over her adoption situation please.

Your it in my duas sis please don't do anything you'll regret and please wait till some knowledgable person gets back to you. May Allah make it easy for you and forgive your sins Ameen
 
Greetings and peace be with you ramen;

honestly i feel like giving up on everything now.i'm locked in my room and i threw up blood and i cant breath properly and i feel like letting myself suffocate and die. i cant even cry loud enough now. i cant take this anymore.........
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This is more than likely caused by stress and worry. Read through the 99 names of Allah, he is a merciful, just and forgiving God, you have to believe his mercy is greater than his anger.

Pray for help, wisdom, peace and serenity to do his will, you have little power to do anything else.

Are there any sisters here who can offer ramen any help in the UK?

May Allah bring blessings on you and your family.

Eric
 
Are there any in wales or wherever she will be? Will anyone want to accompany her?

Any sister who'd like to sleep overnight, etc. lol. May Allah reward any sister who'd do this. Ameen.
 
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Unless he is related to you some other way he is not your mahram.

Therefore you would have to cover yourself in front of him.

However do this with hikmah and explain the issue carefully these kind of issues are very sensitive.
 
Saleem Khan said:
Unless he is related to you some other way he is not your mahram.
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Saleem Khan said:
Therefore you would have to cover yourself in front of him.

However do this with hikmah and explain the issue carefully these kind of issues are very sensitive.
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i dont understand......
who is it you're talking about? my brother or grandpa?
i do what with hikmah? who do i explain this to?
am i aloud to live with my brother?
 
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Eric H said:
Are there any sisters here who can offer ramen any help in the UK?
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Serinity said:
Are there any in wales or wherever she will be? Will anyone want to accompany her?

Any sister who'd like to sleep overnight, etc. lol. May Allah reward any sister who'd do this. Ameen.
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in neath! or maybe swansea but most probably in neath, i mean i lived in neath but its a small town so maybe ...but no its neath. i know. so?:cry:
 
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in neath! or maybe swansea but most probably in neath, i mean i lived in neath but its a small town so maybe ...but no its neath. i know. so?:cry:
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May Allah SWT grant / give in a sister the good intention to help you, and sleep overnight, give you food etc. Like a mother. Ameen. :) (I hope that dua is OK)

may Allah SWT Forgive me if I said anything wrong
 
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