AntiScimitar said:
I have told you what that wife "beating' really means.I also proved in my post that a man,who witnesses his wife committing adultery,is more than likely to beat her,but Islam stops from that.
Secondly.When is this "beating going to be done."
It is like tapping.As explained in this video.
Secondly.
The rights of wife are just like rights of any other human.Except that it is the responsibility of the husband to provide for her.
Take an example which may serve as a basis.
If a husband invites her wife to intimacy,according to Islam,she has to agree yes?Firstly,if a womaan invites her husband for intimacy,It is obligatory for him to agree as well did you know that?
Secondly.If the wife is tired,or worn out,and then she refuses,it is no sin upon her.Meaning,if she is unable to do it,she can refuse and there is no sin upon her.Similiar is the case of a Husband who refuses intimacy with his wife.
It only implies when the wife is perfectly able for intimacy,and still she refuses.That is a sin.And this is the same for the husband.It is obligatory upon him to agree to her wife's request.
Thirdly.What are the rights of wives.The best treatment.They cannot be transgressed against.And the Prophet,peace and blessings be upn him,summarized it as follows:
"The best of you are those who are best to your wives..."
I will further give you a real life example.
There was a American MUslim,who had a Christian wife.A wife who used to speak against ISlam.But afterwards,she converted to Islam,just because of the kind treatment by her husband.
That is the right of wife.Best treatment.
Fourthly.
You said that you have explained that Hadith enough.But the Hadith you quoted was a weak hadith.It cannot be accepted.If you want to accept it,and consider yourself more knowledgable that Scholors like Albanee,who classed it as DA'IF,discussing with you further is useless.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TyQahPZmvU0
Fifthly.
You said that women are RULED over by men.
It is called gratitude.A man spends on you out of the money he earns,and you are going to be harsh towards him?
Also.
You said it is built around the "presumption" that women are weak.
Let me explain.
If a woman goes out of her house alone at night,Is there not every chance that she may get raped by another man?
The Western world,which you admire so much,has alot of rape cases.
So I ask you.If that women took her husband with her when she wants to go outside,Will the chances of her being raped not decrease greatly if not finished at all?
I have seen women infront of me getting harrassed.None of them had a male relative with them.
If they had a male releative with them,no one would dare taunt her.
I do not need to tell you why boys are afraid of the father of the girl,they have a crush on.
So yes,women are weak,and they need the protection of men to save them from various evils.Men are physically stronger,and the misuse and abuse of this strength,is a threat to women.And men protect from it.
If every women took a male relative with her outside,will the number of rapes not fall down significantly?
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I have told you what that wife "beating' really means.I also proved in my post that a man,who witnesses his wife committing adultery,is more than likely to beat her,but Islam stops from that.
Secondly.When is this "beating going to be done."
It is like tapping.As explained in this video.
Secondly.
The rights of wife are just like rights of any other human.Except that it is the responsibility of the husband to provide for her.
Take an example which may serve as a basis.
If a husband invites her wife to intimacy,according to Islam,she has to agree yes?Firstly,if a womaan invites her husband for intimacy,It is obligatory for him to agree as well did you know that?
Secondly.If the wife is tired,or worn out,and then she refuses,it is no sin upon her.Meaning,if she is unable to do it,she can refuse and there is no sin upon her.Similiar is the case of a Husband who refuses intimacy with his wife.
It only implies when the wife is perfectly able for intimacy,and still she refuses.That is a sin.And this is the same for the husband.It is obligatory upon him to agree to her wife's request.
Thirdly.What are the rights of wives.The best treatment.They cannot be transgressed against.And the Prophet,peace and blessings be upn him,summarized it as follows:
"The best of you are those who are best to your wives..."
I will further give you a real life example.
There was a American MUslim,who had a Christian wife.A wife who used to speak against ISlam.But afterwards,she converted to Islam,just because of the kind treatment by her husband.
That is the right of wife.Best treatment.
Fourthly.
You said that you have explained that Hadith enough.But the Hadith you quoted was a weak hadith.It cannot be accepted.If you want to accept it,and consider yourself more knowledgable that Scholors like Albanee,who classed it as DA'IF,discussing with you further is useless.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TyQahPZmvU0
Fifthly.
You said that women are RULED over by men.
It is called gratitude.A man spends on you out of the money he earns,and you are going to be harsh towards him?
Also.
You said it is built around the "presumption" that women are weak.
Let me explain.
If a woman goes out of her house alone at night,Is there not every chance that she may get raped by another man?
The Western world,which you admire so much,has alot of rape cases.
So I ask you.If that women took her husband with her when she wants to go outside,Will the chances of her being raped not decrease greatly if not finished at all?
I have seen women infront of me getting harrassed.None of them had a male relative with them.
If they had a male releative with them,no one would dare taunt her.
I do not need to tell you why boys are afraid of the father of the girl,they have a crush on.
So yes,women are weak,and they need the protection of men to save them from various evils.Men are physically stronger,and the misuse and abuse of this strength,is a threat to women.And men protect from it.
If every women took a male relative with her outside,will the number of rapes not fall down significantly?