Wife get upset at me for very petty things...wut do?

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Like for example we're getting along fine then all of a sudden I did no wrong but just being me and she would say something that she would want a specific response to get but I have no idea then she goes not talking to me the whole day..assuming I'm not having fun with her. What the heck??!

You can't expect to change a person but they have to themselves right????
 
Stoic said:
Like for example we're getting along fine then all of a sudden I did no wrong but just being me and she would say something that she would want a specific response to get but I have no idea then she goes not talking to me the whole day..assuming I'm not having fun with her. What the heck??!

You can't expect to change a person but they have to themselves right????
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when couple loves each other then this kind of miffing is common in married life. So take it easy.
 
azc said:
when couple loves each other then this kind of miffing is common in married life. So take it easy.
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No, do not take it easy. If you ignore the situation it will only get worse. There is a reason for everything. Ask her. What is it that makers her sad. Perhaps you are ignorant of the reality where she sees something that you don't. Be real with her, she is your wife. Maybe you are not being a good husband. Be a man and be upfront with your wife.
 
ahmed.younes said:
No, do not take it easy. If you ignore the situation it will only get worse. There is a reason for everything. Ask her. What is it that makers her sad. Perhaps you are ignorant of the reality where she sees something that you don't. Be real with her, she is your wife. Maybe you are not being a good husband. Be a man and be upfront with your wife.
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plz see OP's other threads as well.
 
Stoic said:
Like for example we're getting along fine then all of a sudden I did no wrong but just being me and she would say something that she would want a specific response to get but I have no idea then she goes not talking to me the whole day..assuming I'm not having fun with her. What the heck??!

You can't expect to change a person but they have to themselves right????
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Rule number 1
Never make your personal/marital problems public by discussing them on a public forum. Never, ever, ever - ever!

Rule number 2
Speak to people you know and trust. The advice of a trusted confidante is likely to be personalised, considerate, and thoughtful.

Rule number 3
Be patient.

Rule number 4
Talk to your wife. Resolve your issues with her. Not with strangers who have nothing to do with the issues at hand.
 
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'Abd-al Latif said:
Rule number 1
Never make your personal/marital problems public by discussing them on a public forum. Never, ever, ever - ever!

Rule number 2
Speak to people you know and trust. The advice of a trusted confidante is likely to be personalised, considerate, and thoughtful.

Rule number 3
Be patient.

Rule number 4
Talk to your wife. Resolve your issues with her. Not with strangers who have nothing to do with the issues at hand.
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I agree! 100000000000000000000000000%!!!!! NO ONE HERE IS EVER QUALIFIED to answer marriage problems and bias and prejudice will cause more harm than good. Leave affair matters to family matters. I doubt the world would want to know of my dirty laundry -_-
 
brother dont worry tooo much, this is what happens in married life haha, as long as it doesnt get too far to the point you both are constantly arguing everyday, you should look into it and see whats going on
 
"she would say something that she would want a specific response to get but I have no idea then she goes not talking to me the whole day"

That's a bit childish to be honest. Just acknowledge her concerns or queries, tell her you'll think about it and respond when you obtain a good answer. Or, maybe she's not talking to you because she's thinking about the answers herself or other things. Difficult to say.....but May Allah bless your marriage with goodness. Ameen.
 
Fighting in Islam is a natural aspect of life. There are no two thoughts on it really. However when I fight with my husband or he fights with me. we start talking about hadith and how to improve our lives. we revert to islamic verses and it makes us feel better. both of us. I recommend this to everyone.

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Fighting in Islam is a natural aspect of life. There are no two thoughts on it really. However when I fight with my husband or he fights with me. we start talking about hadith and how to improve our lives. we revert to islamic verses and it makes us feel better. both of us. I recommend this to everyone.
 
Ask her openly y she behaving like this . If she doesnt answer u can discuss with her family specially whome u r close with . Let her family handle her .there will be sure to be a solution
 

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