Parents are a big reward from Allah

[MazharShafiq]

[emoji995] آ Writing a very tutorial.

When a elder was sick, his mother came to visit his father, the elder heard the arrival of his mother, hoped to get upset and kissed the head of the mother and his feet and did not let them know their condition. After sitting in the condition of patience, talking to her mother, but she left the maternal house, fell down on the bed due to the pain and became angry. When consciously, the family asked why you put yourself in trouble like that?
-So let's say that every child's pain and pain sounds wound in the heart of parents, so I did not want to get my mother out of this punishment.

-Perhaps your parents have not fulfilled your expectations; But believe that whatever they had, they have all removed them.
-When we engage in life's dreams, forget the good parents, but remember the first thing in the sorrow .. !!
Value your parents It's a tree that gets tired and never looks like again.
-Take the fruits of prayers by serving them .. !!

Mother is the main source of light in the dark paths of life; and the father who is a stupid protector is strong. !!

 

[xboxisdead]

Re: parents are a big reward of Allah .

[emoji995] آ Writing a very tutorial.

When a elder was sick, his mother came to visit his father, the elder heard the arrival of his mother, hoped to get upset and kissed the head of the mother and his feet and did not let them know their condition. After sitting in the condition of patience, talking to her mother, but she left the maternal house, fell down on the bed due to the pain and became angry. When consciously, the family asked why you put yourself in trouble like that?
-So let's say that every child's pain and pain sounds wound in the heart of parents, so I did not want to get my mother out of this punishment.

-Perhaps your parents have not fulfilled your expectations; But believe that whatever they had, they have all removed them.
-When we engage in life's dreams, forget the good parents, but remember the first thing in the sorrow .. !!
Value your parents It's a tree that gets tired and never looks like again.
-Take the fruits of prayers by serving them .. !!

Mother is the main source of light in the dark paths of life; and the father who is a stupid protector is strong. !!

I am not sure that is a positive thing. I think nowadays been a father is stupid. Maybe you should revise it from parents to mothers instead. Mothers are a big reward from Allah and just talk about mothers. Leave fathers aside. In the future there may be no such thing as parents but mother only.

 

[Mandy]

Re: parents are a big reward of Allah .

I am not sure that is a positive thing. I think nowadays been a father is stupid. Maybe you should revise it from parents to mothers instead. Mothers are a big reward from Allah and just talk about mothers. Leave fathers aside. In the future there may be no such thing as parents but mother only.

Now I am completely puzzled.
In other posts you often talked about how "some" women can be evil and how "some" mothers try to push fathers out. And you always say that beavior is bad (which I completely agree).

But now you are saying that only mothers are good for children????
Aside from the obvious biological question of how to create a family with only mothers, why would you think that children would be better off with a single parent?? Men and woman are different and we bring different abilities in raising children. As a mother who is unfortunately single, I can tell you being a single parent is a burden and not at all something I would wish on anyone else.

 

[xboxisdead]

Re: parents are a big reward of Allah .

Now I am completely puzzled.
In other posts you often talked about how "some" women can be evil and how "some" mothers try to push fathers out. And you always say that beavior is bad (which I completely agree).

But now you are saying that only mothers are good for children????
Aside from the obvious biological question of how to create a family with only mothers, why would you think that children would be better off with a single parent?? Men and woman are different and we bring different abilities in raising children. As a mother who is unfortunately single, I can tell you being a single parent is a burden and not at all something I would wish on anyone else.

Nothing puzzling. The world have clearly informed us that fathers are unnecessary and not needed and so many children are been raised by single mothers. In additional to that, it seems cutting ties is accepted only if it is cutting ties between child and father and that is normal, accepted and not really considered a bad thing. Add to the fact...soon the Y chromosome will disappear from the face of Earth...rendering the entire population exclusively female. So perhaps lesbianism will become the norm...who knows. One thing for sure...society have told me and the world around me have taught me that mothers are positive and superior and fathers are negative and stupid and inferior. So my conclusion on the fact...that talking about parents seems unnecessary when you can only talk about one parent...mother. Now there have been endless studies shows that children raised by a mother alone is crippled and children fair better (especially boys) when fathers take a huge role in raising the children. But we live in a world where we don't care for that. That sorta goes against the narrative that fathers are unnecessary and we don't need narrative. So we can't have that. So i am fulfilling the narrative and what I should say that fits the narrative! I don't want to be a fish out of water, now do I?

 

[MazharShafiq]

Re: parents are a big reward of Allah .

I am not sure that is a positive thing. I think nowadays been a father is stupid. Maybe you should revise it from parents to mothers instead. Mothers are a big reward from Allah and just talk about mothers. Leave fathers aside. In the future there may be no such thing as parents but mother only.

no I will not agree with you If one is a stupid father, it does not mean that it will apply only to all the fathers because the Father also takes a lot of hardship to grow the child.

 

[xboxisdead]

Re: parents are a big reward of Allah .

no I will not agree with you If one is a stupid father, it does not mean that it will apply only to all the fathers because the Father also takes a lot of hardship to grow the child.

Yes, but whatever hardship he takes can be done alone by the mother or her mother or any female in the family member and/or by the government or by any male member of the family. Hence, a father is replaceable by nature and is unnecessary. So in my opinio it is stupid for any man to invest his resource and time on something that can replace him easily and will not yield appreciation or benefit. Isn't that common sense? Now if he wants to do it for ego reasons, I aint stopping him. But fatherhood is now one of the most well...not appealing role. Besides...I don't know why..but when we talk about parents it feels weak...it weakens the role but when you talk about mothers only..it comes out strong. Isn't that why in any Islamic lecture we only talk about mothers and just her and nothing else about families. We don't even talk about spouses and anything else. So that should mean something, shouldn't it?

 

[azc]

I am not sure that is a positive thing. I think nowadays been a father is stupid. Maybe you should revise it from parents to mothers instead. Mothers are a big reward from Allah and just talk about mothers. Leave fathers aside. In the future there may be no such thing as parents but mother only.

Both are important for children