Should i marry a non-muslim that wants to convert?

[ZeeshanParvez]

Once he converts and becomes Muslim for the sake of Allaah, only then can you marry him.

If that happens, you still do not know if he is good for you in this world and the next.


So, you pray the Istikhaara prayer (the prayer of guidance) before you marry him.

 

[Studentofdeed]

Sister I agree with ZeeshanParvez.
Trust in Allah and if this man is written for you he will himself come and marry you.
But you have to protect yourself just in case this man doesnt turn out to be what you hope to be.
Pray istikhara and keep your distance and refer him to the local scholar or imam.
He has to convert to Islam not just because it would discipline him but because he believes in it as well.
Just pray istikhara and if it doesnt work out and he doesnt propose to you...know Allah has in store for you a better man

 

[xboxisdead]

Sister I agree with ZeeshanParvez.
Trust in Allah and if this man is written for you he will himself come and marry you.
But you have to protect yourself just in case this man doesnt turn out to be what you hope to be.
Pray istikhara and keep your distance and refer him to the local scholar or imam.
He has to convert to Islam not just because it would discipline him but because he believes in it as well.
Just pray istikhara and if it doesnt work out and he doesnt propose to you...know Allah has in store for you a better man

I will add to it....that better man could be in the afterlife and not dunaya. So exercise patience if you never one here...know that man for you is not in dunaya but in akhira.

 

[AbdurRahman.]

Thank you for your kindness Abdurrahman. If only more Muslims would take heed. Negative assumption is a sin and you're supposed to make 70 excuses for fellow muslims but most muslims will not even make one and are quick to find faults You are different so may Allah reward you for that. I think that's another reason why I like him, I am so used to muslims having bad character. Alhamdullilah, I asked him about his bad habits so I can give him tailored Islamic information that will help him. This is the reason he divulged information about alcohol and porn. And yes he discussed marrying me and I didn't stop him and that might have been wrong of me, though I did not flirt myself. In shaa Allah the positives of him converting will outweigh any harm done. And if Allah saves him from the hellfire through me, it's a tremendous honor and blessing. He said he's going to keep reading and will in shaa Allah take his shahadah on the first day of Ramadan. In shaa Allah everything will work out well. Thanks again brother

You are welcome sister it's my pleasure to try and help

InshAllah he'll be a very pious Muslim as he's already got a very kind and considerate heart which really is the aim of ibadah