Hate it. Hate it. HATE IT!!!!!

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snakelegs said:
i wonder why some people concern themselves with and judge someone else's practice or non-practice of his religion. shouldn't this be a matter between that individual and god?
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yes thats what i think as well
 
snakelegs said:
i wonder why some people concern themselves with and judge someone else's practice or non-practice of his religion. shouldn't this be a matter between that individual and god?
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This is a good question. Is it that they wish to control others? What is it that makes someone so judgemental and preoccupied with what others are doing?
 
Aalimah said:
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I HATE IT when people (mostly muslims) turn things around in Islam, I.E. rules to suit it for them! Can they not see that arguing with the Hadith and Qur'an will not get them anywhere but in the hellfire?!?!

Like today I tried telling a girl, with Hadith and Qur'an references that Music is haraam and she just laughedin my face! I was shocked and dissapointed at the attitude ofa Muslim towards the Hadith and the Qur'an! :heated:

What is this world coming to?!?!?!?!

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assalaamu alaykum sister,

you must first create respect for the Quran and ahaddith before you use them on people.

say things like... if Allah said this to you would you listen to him?
if they say yes, then point out to them that the Quran is the word of Allah and should be read, recited and respected as such.

obviously if they say no they have fundemental issues it might be best addressing through methods more familiar when giving da'wah to the kuffar as opposed to naseehah to the muslims.

ask them if they love the prophet Muhammad (saws)?
ask them if Allah (swt) tells us to obey him in the Quran then who are we to disobey?

when they have this love of Allah and his Rasool (saws), the Quran and ahaddith, then everything else becomes easier to deal with.

assalaamu alaykum,
Daw'ud
 
Panatella said:
This is a good question. Is it that they wish to control others? What is it that makes someone so judgemental and preoccupied with what others are doing?
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this is a very western concept of religion being a personal affair and nobody elses business.

as muslims we love our siblings in islam and want the best for them, we want them to practice the true religion of God - Islam, as much if not better than ourselves.

so when we see a muslim falling over and in need of help then we help, as best we can because they are our brothers and sisters in islam.

islam is also a whole way of life, it does not limit itself to the personal but also to society as a whole so where something will damage the whole of society we take action to defend it for the greater good of the community.

hope this helps explain matters.

peace be upon those who follow righteous guidence,

Daw'ud
 
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The scholars nowadays giv dawah to suit their own needs :rant:
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I think it is incorrect to make a general statement such as this, because as we know, there are many people referred to as 'shaykhs' and 'scholars' when in fact they are not, and many people give fataawa when they are not in a position to do so. So to say something about 'the scholars' includes the 'true scholars' and is therefore unfair and wrong. Insha'Allaah, let us be more careful about what we say regarding the people of knowledge.

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Dawud_uk said:
assalaamu alaykum sister,

you must first create respect for the Quran and ahaddith before you use them on people.

say things like... if Allah said this to you would you listen to him?
if they say yes, then point out to them that the Quran is the word of Allah and should be read, recited and respected as such.

obviously if they say no they have fundemental issues it might be best addressing through methods more familiar when giving da'wah to the kuffar as opposed to naseehah to the muslims.

ask them if they love the prophet Muhammad (saws)?
ask them if Allah (swt) tells us to obey him in the Quran then who are we to disobey?

when they have this love of Allah and his Rasool (saws), the Quran and ahaddith, then everything else becomes easier to deal with.

assalaamu alaykum,
Daw'ud
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Jazakallah akhi
 
Aalimah said:
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I HATE IT when people (mostly muslims) turn things around in Islam, I.E. rules to suit it for them! Can they not see that arguing with the Hadith and Qur'an will not get them anywhere but in the hellfire?!?!

Like today I tried telling a girl, with Hadith and Qur'an references that Music is haraam and she just laughedin my face! I was shocked and dissapointed at the attitude ofa Muslim towards the Hadith and the Qur'an! :heated:

What is this world coming to?!?!?!?!

:w:​
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Thats true sis ..... the same happened to me :heated:
You've done your job and inshaAllah you'll be rewarded for that.
Now leave it to the person whom you told .... Make dua'a may Allah guide the person.:)

Nowadays, some Muslims complain that Islam has sooo many restrictions....but my question to them is that "Did Islam change with time?" ..... No, right? .... so it's just that we're just tooo into the worldy stuff so we find our beautiful religion difficult to follow.
Some Mullahs even say that music is allowed so this makes the matter more confused. Even with the reference of Quran & Hadith they disagree and ask WHY is music/pictures not allowed?? ..... They say that everything has a reason so what's the reason for this?? :grumbling
 
so it's just that we're just tooo into the worldy stuff so we find our beautiful religion difficult to follow.
Some Mullahs even say that music is allowed so this makes the matter more confused. Even with the reference of Quran & Hadith they disagree and ask WHY is music/pictures not allowed?? ..... They say that everything has a reason so what's the reason for this??
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Yeh sis i totally agree! Jazakallah for the reply :)
 
Dawud_uk said:
this is a very western concept of religion being a personal affair and nobody elses business.

as muslims we love our siblings in islam and want the best for them, we want them to practice the true religion of God - Islam, as much if not better than ourselves.

so when we see a muslim falling over and in need of help then we help, as best we can because they are our brothers and sisters in islam.

islam is also a whole way of life, it does not limit itself to the personal but also to society as a whole so where something will damage the whole of society we take action to defend it for the greater good of the community.

hope this helps explain matters.

peace be upon those who follow righteous guidence,

Daw'ud
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Exactly. Respect akhi!
 
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Here's a simple method I think every muslim should follow practice what you preech or at least have the niya to.
 
Just wondering What evidences did you give from the Qu'ran and Sunnah?

Salam Aleykum
 
Im sorry to sound disrespectful sister Aalimah, but someone doesnt follow islam the way you do, so what?

The man in the hadith, who murdered 99 people, he wasnt following Quran and Sunnah, but he still went to Jannah, Allah forgave him.

So i really dont like this arguement, ok, so you dont like it when people take and leave pieces of Islam, but maybe they have their reasons for doing so, and even if it IS wrong, What's to say Allah wont forgive them? We cant say anything to be honest.

AND furthermore, can i just say, if picking and leaving bits of islam is bad for you, then what exactly are you doing in a forum where men and women both freely chat in cyberspace?
 
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