Is love that ends in marriage haraam?

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

If u like someone, but had no relation..is that still haraam? Or that might be somethin different..

 

[- Qatada -]

If u like someone, but had no relation..is that still haraam? Or that might be somethin different..

:salamext:


Check this insha'Allaah:

It is not possible for a man or a woman to find out about the real character of one another through correspondence and conversing before marriage, because neither of them will show anything but their best side.

http://www.islamicboard.com/422315-post6.html



:wasalamex

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

ill check it..thnx.

 

[syedanoor]

so you just want to completely disregard the hadith then?
everything the prophet says serves a purpose,and even if it doesn't make much sense to us,it is still our duty to accept it

salaam

no i do not disregard the hadith. but will you agree that it is best that love happen after marriage? others before myself have said the same thing in different words, "love the person you marry not the person you love" wouldn't that be stating the same thing?

love in this day and age usually happens out of mingling and mixing which has been labeled as haraam in islam

if two like each other and get married and all works out then that is simply great!

all i'm trying to say is that when one loves out of wedlock there is always a bit of risk that they won't end up with each other. but falling in love with the one u marry AFTER u marry them is just much more safe frm one's heart from breaking and going out against any laws set.

but after all, when one thing has been made halal by Allah and said to be halal by the Rasul (SAW), then who are we to label it prohibited upon ourselves?

as long as everything is done in halal terms it's all good

walaikum assalaam

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

Not its not really the same...
You might not luv the person u marry, but steadily u will build feelings.

 

[ymijunooni]

jazakallah khair