Where does she go?

[- Qatada -]

Please don't judge me if I am igorant. I am trying to make sense of the Qu'ran.

We don't judge the qur'an on what any person says, unless they have proof from the qur'an to backup what their saying. Therefore i feel that you shouldn't make any judgement of the qur'an, unless you have an understanding of what is said. Regardless of what the average person may think or say.

Therefore, i advise you to read the tafsir/explanation of the Qur'an from this link:

http://www.theholybook.org/en


That way, it won't offend no-one and you won't be guilty of your ignorance.



Peace.

 

[glo]

We don't judge the qur'an on what any person says, unless they have proof from the qur'an to backup what their saying. Therefore i feel that you shouldn't make any judgement of the qur'an, unless you have an understanding of what is said. Regardless of what the average person may think or say.

Therefore, i advise you to read the tafsir/explanation of the Qur'an from this link:

http://www.theholybook.org/en

Thanks, Fi_Sabilillah

The link opens a general Qu'ranic search engine. Is that what you wanted me to have?
Or was the link meant to be to a site answering the original question about the appropriateness of physical violence within a marital relationship?

What does the Qu'ran say about a husband having intercourse with his wife against her wishes? About hitting her in the face? And about threatening her with a knife?

Did you give me the above link so I can find out for myself?

That way, it won't offend no-one and you won't be guilty of your ignorance.

Peace.

Thank you, brother!

Peace

 

[- Qatada -]

Hi glo.


I pasted that link because theres links there which give a tafsir/explanation of the qur'an in detail, and i thought that it was what you may have been after.


Anyway, regarding your questions - you might be interested in listening to these lectures on women's rights in islam by yusuf estes. He uses the bible and the Qur'an to find the similarities, differences and also what society says regarding women's rights etc. If you're interested, you can take a look and he's likely to discuss the issues you addressed above too insha'Allaah.


You can download off:

http://www.islamicboard.com/islamic-multimedia/30976-yusuf-estes-lectures.html



Peace.

 

[AnonymousPoster]

put ur emotions in the dunny for a moment...

I am sorry? I don't know what putting my emotions in the "dunny" for a while is going to do for this lady? if you are the person who posted the first query, I am baffled as to why you'd seek help on a cyber counseling forum, if disinterested in the replies you'd get?

I hope you'll do the right thing!

Assalamualikum warhmathullahi warbarakathuhu

am confused here because reading all this there are two "anonymous accounts" the same && talking to there self

walikumassalam warhmathullahi warbarakathuhu

I am not the one who posted the query!

 

[Dawud_uk]

assalaamu alaykum,

islam is a practical deen, the person asking this question should take her in or see someone else pious and trustworthy takes her in.

what is more this 'brother' should be dealt with because if the fear of Allah through persausion will not work then the fear of a fresh beating might as sad as that is to say.

once she is out of the situation there are people she can contact for help if the local imams cannot or will not help.

for example in the uk there is the shariah council who act in the position of qadi (islamic judge) where the locals refuse to act correctly.

subhanallah it is sad that it has come to this and the community around her will be held accountable if she could have been helped and they didnt do their duty towards their sister in islam.

assalaamu alaykum,
Abu Abdullah

 

[Pk_#2]

Ameen to the du'a!



May Allah help you to help your freind!

 

[Snowflake]

To the original poster - please take this seriously.

If you can't or don't want to get involved personally, I am willing to do it. I am not even scared of the sister's bully of a husband and will 'sort' him out if I have to!

How I get to the sister is my headache which I know how to sort out. If you want me to help her practically, PM me your email add. and we'll take it from there. Let's not wait for another bruise to appear before helping her.

 

[AvarAllahNoor]

Her husband has hit her in the face before, forced himself on her, I think that might be allowed, as in she has to be intimate when he wants unless she has a reason like illnes,

allowed??? Which insane person told you that:?

 

[Malaikah]

I am sorry? I don't know what putting my emotions in the "dunny" for a while is going to do for this lady? if you are the person who posted the first query, I am baffled as to why you'd seek help on a cyber counseling forum, if disinterested in the replies you'd get?

dont be confused, its pretty obvious from the writting stlye that they are different people.

allowed??? Which insane person told you that:?

some things get passed off as part of the religion even though they never were.. weird. :rollseyes

 

[AvarAllahNoor]

To the original poster - please take this seriously.

If you can't or don't want to get involved personally, I am willing to do it. I am not even scared of the sister's bully of a husband and will 'sort' him out if I have to!

How I get to the sister is my headache which I know how to sort out. If you want me to help her practically, PM me your email add. and we'll take it from there. Let's not wait for another bruise to appear before helping her.

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Je Ke Fateh.

Now this is a true muslim sister....Helping those that need it .

Waheguru Ji Ka Khalsa Waheguru Je Ke Fateh.