Top 10 excuses by women who don’t wear the Hijab

[Ibn Abi Ahmed]

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[Al_Imaan]

some of them are very true, intresting post

actually all them are true...I have cuzins that give half of those excuses....Alhamdulillah, thank Allah(swt) I don't do that. May Allah(swt) guide them to the straight path and give them hidaya.

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

Good article! I never had anyone tell me to wear it. I was in junior high and i wanted to wear hijab, but my mom didnt allow me till i got to college! then i slowly forgot it about and didnt care, then all of sudden im back on track ;D lol, Alhumdullilah.

JazakAllah Khair for that

 

[Malaikah]

6. Respectable women never wore Hijab.

So? I can list about a billion other things that they didn't do. Does that mean we shouldn't do them either?

The most respectable women, for example, the prophets wives and the early Muslim women, did wear it.

It is the command of Allah swt that we must wear it, end of story.

 

[lolwatever]

^ plus how does one define respectable ^o)

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

That line is such an oxymoron....
not saying they didnt have respect...but one does have MORE with the hijab, MashAllah.

 

[zaria]

Excuse Seven: I don’t wear hijaab based on what Allah says: “And proclaim the grace of your Rabb” [Soorah Ad-Dhuhaa 93: 11]. How can I cover what Allah has blessed me with of silky soft hair and captivating beauty?!

I never heard this one either. is there a Surah 93:11?

Allah Alim

 

[iqbal_soofi]

So? I can list about a billion other things that they didn't do. Does that mean we shouldn't do them either?

The most respectable women, for example, the prophets wives and the early Muslim women, did wear it.

It is the command of Allah swt that we must wear it, end of story.

There's no doubt that prophet's wives were the most respectable women. They were respectable women because they were the prophet's wives. Different laws applied to the wives/widows of the prophet than for other wome. So we need not bring them into the debate. What I meant by the 'respectable women' were our own grand mothers and great grand mothers who took active part in decision making and all other practical walks of life and worked shoulder to shoulder with our forefathers in farms and fileds. They never wore hijab. They never needed to because our forefathers always respected them from their hearts. They respected daughter of everyone as the common daughter of the village.

 

[AvarAllahNoor]

If the Quran states the wearing of hijab is compulsory, then why is it not implemented in the same way sharab is prophibited?

 

[Umm Yoosuf]

There's no doubt that prophet's wives were the most respectable women. They were respectable women because they were the prophet's wives. Different laws applied to the wives/widows of the prophet than for other wome.

With regard to the Hijab have you not read this Ayaah:

"O Prophet, tell your wives and daughters and the believing women to draw their outer garments around them (when they go out or are among men). That is better in order that they may be known (to be Muslims) and not annoyed..." (Qur'an 33:59)

The Hijab was a MUST for the Wives of the Prophet and the believing women.

So we need not bring them into the debate. What I meant by the 'respectable women' were our own grand mothers and great grand mothers who took active part in decision making and all other practical walks of life and worked shoulder to shoulder with our forefathers in farms and fileds. They never wore hijab. They never needed to because our forefathers always respected them from their hearts. They respected daughter of everyone as the common daughter of the village.

So? That doesn't count because the Law of Allah prevails above that! Allah orders the women to cover themselves whether they are around respectable males around or not. Not wearing the Hijab is due to ignorance or disobedience to Allah.

 

[shible]

Assalamu alaikkum (warah).

dear brothers and sister ,

I really appreciate for this thread.

But wat happens on the other side on wearing Hijab ( this is happening in my country).

One part of our Sisters wear Hijab for the following.

1. to cover themselves from their parents and relatives when they are roaming with other Man . And i am 100% sure that not all the men they are Roaming with are lovers and Due their activities Hijab is used it as a shield from entering heaven and as a Pass to Enter the Hell.

I am not Blaming Everyone I am jus saying that One part of Our Sister's

If i am wrong in any case then correct me since i am seeing this happening in my Home town

 

[lolwatever]

There's no doubt that prophet's wives were the most respectable women. They were respectable women because they were the prophet's wives. Different laws applied to the wives/widows of the prophet than for other wome. So we need not bring them into the debate. What I meant by the 'respectable women' were our own grand mothers and great grand mothers who took active part in decision making and all other practical walks of life and worked shoulder to shoulder with our forefathers in farms and fileds. They never wore hijab. They never needed to because our forefathers always respected them from their hearts. They respected daughter of everyone as the common daughter of the village.

just because they have to be respected as relatives, doesnt necessitate they're respectable in Allah's eyes... for the non-ignorant ones amongst them that is.

 

[One Man Army]

I know of a older women, family friend, muslim women, she recently went pakistan. she didnt wear a hijab, n she said that the men out their are disgusting, that in the end she was actually forced to wear 1 due to the way people just stare at you (in perverted ways, eying up women etc). personally i dont think its in covering the women up, its teaching the men how to control themselves, instead of treating women like meat, and covering them up cuz men cant control themselves. what does it say in the Quran about lusting for women?

 

[Malaikah]

^It is a sin for men to look at women who are not their wives with lust. Men are commanded to lower their gaze in the Quran. Just because a women is dressed immorally, does not give them the right to look at her, it is a sin on them to do that. They are not allowed to look at her, simple as that.

At the same time, women are required to cover themselves to protect themselves from the lustful gazes of perverted men.

 

[skhalid]

The hijab is part of my self respect...and it will always remain that way inshallah

 

[hayaa__786]

That was nice masha allah sister... i know so many sisters with these excuses....:-[

 

[One Man Army]

but what about the extent of when women wear gloves, and cover faces so just eyes are visible? isnt this unfair that a women must go to these extents just because men cannot control their minds? i agree, they should dress modistly, jus as men should with self respect.

 

[lolwatever]

but what about the extent of when women wear gloves, and cover faces so just eyes are visible? isnt this unfair that a women must go to these extents just because men cannot control their minds? i agree, they should dress modistly, jus as men should with self respect.

a bit like asking "isn't it unfair that we have to lock our car doors just because robbers can't control their temptation to steel" innit

i dont know if the gloves etc is obligatory or not, but you get my point...

 

[One Man Army]

lol the last post makes me laff. women are not an item that you own. that someone can come and steal. lol i find it really funny how u described that in ur post. the fact remains, the issue is with giving men a method on controling their minds, not covering up their women. so what about other women, such as westernised people? you see, the problem of men not being able to control themselves is not tackled, al though they mite not be looking at other muslim women, they still will have it in their minds when they see normal women.

Sexual desire, anger, greed and emotional attachment - may these be gone, and egotism as well.
Nanak seeks the Sanctuary of God; please bless me with Your Grace, O Divine Lord.

 

[Nσσя'υℓ Jαииαн]

They're supposed to lower their gaze. And if they do look, Allah knows why they do it, intentionally or untentionally. Thats the whole point. Everything we do or are told is a test for us.