We are not misguided Sikhs. A Sikh is supposed to be most balanced person and fair to all, which we are. Humanity is best religion of all and even Sikhi believes that.
If you ask your elders, you will know that in 1947, clashes were between Sikhs and Muslims rather than Hindus and Muslims. My great grand father used live in Lahore before partition. They went to India via train. They heard that the Muslim who helped him get out of Pakistan was killed and everybody in trains before and after theirs was killed. If you ask someone, you will find out that Sikhs killed Muslims in Muslim villages and put them on fire and vice versa...
Khalsa is spiritually perfected person and I don't think you are a spiritually perfected person. So, it doesn't make sense to call yourself a Khalsa