Coping with Depression, stress and anger

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Re: Wallahi I Cant Take It Anymore

Anonymous Tester said:
i know that loving someone is wrong and i shouldnt do that before marriage but he is the only person that i want to get married to - but i dont know if he feels the same about me
and the coursework is too much!!!!!!!!!!!! i have to give all of that in two weeks!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
:'( :'( :'(
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Allah, the Exalted, says:

"Say: O `Ibadi (My slaves) who have transgressed against themselves (by committing evil deeds and sins)! Despair not of the Mercy of Allah: verily, Allah forgives all sins. Truly, He is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful". (39:53)

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IbnAbdulHakim said:
wallahi love before marriage is nothing more then a game of the shaytaan. i pray Allah makes u understand this
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^^ word up, its a pile of bullshh if ya ask me, its a common phase, sooner or later i hope u'll understand

and as for coursework? i managed to do mine rougly like 3 weeks b4 the due date, it's possible trust me, i wont lie tho - u most prolly wont get the best of grades, but ur making it out to be 'mission impossible' or sutin...
 
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Turn each anxiety, each fear and each concern into a Dua (supplication). Look at it as another reason to submit to God and be in Sajdah (prostration), during which you are closest to Allah. God listens and already knows what is in your heart, but He wants you to ask Him for what you want. The Prophet said: Allah is angry with those who do not ask Him for anything (Tirmidhi).

The Prophet once said that in prayer, he would find rest and relief (Nasai). He would also regularly ask for God’s forgiveness and remain in prostration during prayer praising God (Tasbeeh) and asking for His forgiveness (Bukhari).

Allah wants you to be specific. The Prophet advised us to ask Allah for exactly what we want instead of making vague Duas. Dua is the essence of worship (the Prophet as quoted in Tirmidhi).

"Call on your Lord with humility and in private: for Allah loveth not those who trespass beyond bounds. Do not make mischief on the earth, after it hath been set in order, but call on Him with fear. And longing (in your hearts): for the mercy of Allah is (always) near to those who do good" (Quran 7:55-56).

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Sister of Islam
 
Re: Wallahi I Cant Take It Anymore

Anonymous Tester said:
^^ word up, its a pile of bullshh if ya ask me, its a common phase, sooner or later i hope u'll understan
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sis( i'm guessing your a sis) easy. What bro IbnAbdul Hakim said is true. don't jump down his throat
 
Re: Wallahi I Cant Take It Anymore

salaam
may i ask, what is stopping you from marring this person??


(think positive, hasn't allah made you a MUSLIM?)
wa salaam
 
Re: Wallahi I Cant Take It Anymore

you must seek the counsel and advice of someone who you know is a reliable and good muslim in your actual life.

staying online will worsen your situation since depression gets worse when a person is alone. Also from an Islamic perspective the Shatan tries to isolate you from people so that you feel alone and helpless.

So please do seek the counsel of someone who you can actually meet and confide in (preferably a Muslim person)
 
Re: Wallahi I Cant Take It Anymore

IbnAbdulHakim said:
sorry

its just theres nothing to do but do it lol.

all he/she has to do is get down and work hard, pray hard so she can relax hard in jannah
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couldn't agree more but when you have a pile of cwk you search frantically for a loophole and just don't pay attention to logic
 
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DeepOcean said:
sis( i'm guessing your a sis) easy. What bro IbnAbdul Hakim said is true. don't jump down his throat
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erm no :-[ that wasnt her, that was me...and no i wasnt jumpin down abduls throat...i wasnt talkin about him at all ;D i was talkin about LOVE BEFORE MARRIAGe n how its a pile of...

capiche? :p
 
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"all he/she has to do is get down and work hard, pray hard so she can relax hard in jannah" - easier said than done !!!!!!!!

""may i ask, what is stopping you from marring this person??""-we are both young yet(in our teens)-his dad does not like me and my mum does not like the boy

!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!SPEECHLESS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
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""couldn't agree more but when you have a pile of cwk you search frantically for a loophole and just don't pay attention to logic"" --yes sister you understand me

""was talkin about LOVE BEFORE MARRIAGe n how its a pile of...""" -- ive not committed anything indecent! i just say salam! whats wrong with that!
 
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salaam
could someone please provide this brother/sister with a lecture about
'love before marrige' am sure it will help
:)
wa salaam
 
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anonymous said:
""was talkin about LOVE BEFORE MARRIAGe n how its a pile of...""" -- ive not committed anything indecent! i just say salam! whats wrong with that!
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u gone crazy to marry a bro becoz all u was saying is salaam? lol seriously :p?

ok i dont know if thats possible :S


seriously ploy of the shaytaan, just be careful
 
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""u gone crazy to marry a bro becoz all u was saying is salaam? lol seriously :p?""
--NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I USED TO BE REALLY CLOSE WITH HIM AND WE USED TO TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING - HE IS MY DISTANT RELATIVE-BUT HIS DAD INTERFERED AND NOW WE HARDLY TALK THAT MUCH

THIS IS TOO MUCH PAIN..THIS HEARTBREAK...WALLAHI !!!!!!!!!!!
 
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Sis I know what your going through. Exactly. I went through the same last year. I was all set to marry this brother. STUPID STUPID me let myslef fall before the nikah. The nikah never happened. It took me a while to get over it. But got over it, I have.

As for cwk? it won't last the rest of your life.
 
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""may i ask, what is stopping you from marring this person??""-we are both young yet(in our teens)-his dad does not like me and my mum does not like the boy
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have you tried speaking to your parents about the issue... i've seen many teens get married, there is nothing wrong with getting married young - that's if you're ready or you feel that you must get married otherwise you will fall into zina

allah knows best
wa salaam
 

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