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MASSIVE family problems - no one wears niqaab in ma family/relatives!!
 
you know what the beautiful thing is, someone comes up to you almost everyday asking for help, lol why would they do that if they scared of you? see people dont fear muslims, they know we're gentle people :D


and ukhtee, i wud do this even if i was at scotland, i hav no doubt bout that lol
 
Muj4h1d4 said:
:salamext:

MASSIVE family problems - no one wears niqaab in ma family/relatives!!
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imagine u wasnt muslim, n u kno u gtta revert but its like no-one else is muslim. You can eiva spread your dawah or succumb to their ways.


btw, i was the first person in my family to keep a beard too, and i had to take on all the arguments, after the first few it gets really really FUN :D
 
|)431)M1 said:
in my fam, yeah they do...:exhausted

Ok ima shurruP now

And go cry

Peace. :laugh:
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when i realised beard was obligatory i felt happy and hyper lol, wats all the tears about?

BE HAPPY, WE GOT ANOTHER WAY TO PLEASE ALLAH :D :D
 
:salamext:

Yeh, but its hard, when ur parents dont want you to do it coz of society and NO ONE in the WHOLE of ur relatives does it :muddlehea
 
Muj4h1d4 said:
:salamext:

Yeh, but its hard, when ur parents dont want you to do it coz of society and NO ONE in the WHOLE of ur relatives does it :muddlehea
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IMAGINE THE REWARD FOR RE-IGNITING THIS BEAUTIFUL SUNNAH :D


you LUCKY sister yoU :D :D
 
Muj4h1d4 said:
:salamext:

Yeh, but its hard, when ur parents dont want you to do it coz of society and NO ONE in the WHOLE of ur relatives does it :muddlehea
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Now that's what i'm talking about :enough!:

Even ma mops is like no and shes a niqaabi, init :muddlehea:uuh::-\imsad:heated:
 
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sis i kno how u feel coz i was in ur possition once. i thought tp maself wat if i find on the day of judgement that it was wajiib!!! so in order to be the safe side, its better to wear it so that on qiyamah if its wajiib then ur safe, if not then u will be rewarded. ur a WINNER both sides.

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Muj4h1d4 said:
:salamext:

Yeh, but its hard, when ur parents dont want you to do it coz of society and NO ONE in the WHOLE of ur relatives does it :muddlehea
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none of ma family wear it. i go to a college where am the only only one who wears it. its hard but the reward is huge inshaAllah.

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:salamext:

Could someone give me starting tips Inshaa Allaah? I mean mentally preparing myself?
And if I do it secretly from my family, would that be wrong? Like obviously I couldn't do it to relatives house, but to college?
 
Asselamu aleykum,

According to the Hanafi madhab, if I remember correctly, it is obligatory if the woman is very beautiful, otherwise it's recommended.

http://www.muhajabah.com/finalrule.htm


Having face and hands show, is not a sin and that is the Hijab. Now this dispute about Niqaab has yet to be solved and great Imams haven't come to an agreement and they've got so many details in both sides, Allahu Aleem this dispute may continue until the Day of Judgment.

Abu Hurairah (radhiallâhu anhu) narrated that the Prophet (sallallâhu ‘alayhi wasallam) said, “Religion (Islam) is very easy and whoever overburdens himself in his religion will not be able to continue in that way. So you should not be extremists, but try to be near to perfection and receive the good tidings that you will be rewarded; and gain strength by offering the prayers in the mornings, afternoons and during the last hours of the nights.” (Bukhâri 1/38)

Now to you. Listen religion is not suppoused to be hard, so don't make it hard on yourself, do what you feel most comfortable with, follow the Shariah and Sunnah (Islam) and lastly, Allahu Aleem.
 
According to the Hanafi madhab, if I remember correctly, it is obligatory if the woman is very beautiful, otherwise it's recommended.


^ lol yes ukhtee i mentioned this already in a previous post
 
Muj4h1d4 said:
:salamext:

Could someone give me starting tips Inshaa Allaah? I mean mentally preparing myself?
And if I do it secretly from my family, would that be wrong? Like obviously I couldn't do it to relatives house, but to college?
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lol sis its pretty hard to do it secretly dont you thiNK?

as for mentally preparing, just think about akhirah, think about Allah, think about the sahabiyaat.

and then remember that nothin matters but Allahs pleasure :D.

but ukhtee try your best to properly feel proud about it and be confident! you dont want the first person that attacks you to completely weaken you!
you gotta stay strong, may Allah help us all!!
 
IbnAbdulHakim said:
According to the Hanafi madhab, if I remember correctly, it is obligatory if the woman is very beautiful, otherwise it's recommended.


^ lol yes ukhtee i mentioned this already in a previous post
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Asselamu aleykum,

Yes, akhi I know. Just thought I too should say it.

IbnAbdulHakim said:
lol sis its pretty hard to do it secretly dont you thiNK?

as for mentally preparing, just think about akhirah, think about Allah, think about the sahabiyaat.

and then remember that nothin matters but Allahs pleasure :D.

but ukhtee try your best to properly feel proud about it and be confident! you dont want the first person that attacks you to completely weaken you!
you gotta stay strong, may Allah help us all!!
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Take his advice, inshaAllah. He said pretty much everything I would have said (yet again). :D
 
:sl:

Maybe it won't be easy for them accept right away, and most probably those who you love most and are closest to will turn against you, but thats all part of the plan. You can either sit back and fear your parent's and family's reaction, or you can prepare yourself for it and be able to answer them in a polite yet firm way. By fearing their reaction, you won't get yourself anywhere, and the longer you fear them, the more things Shaytan will whisper for you to fear. But if you stay strong about it and defend yourself, you'll end up gaining their respect for your strength.

Remember that they only care about you, and after a while inshaAllah they will come around.

Stay strong and do what you believe in for the sake of Allah.
 
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There are difference of opinions amongest the 'Ulimah on this issue. Also this subject has come up a number of times on the forum please use the search facility :)

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