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That's cool because it's not a pointless debate, it's educational.
I was referring more to silly debates where no side gives in, are more about point-scoring than truth, and which don't even matter in the long run.
Yes.. people get emotionally charged, or upset.. they take it personally... I take some posts personally -- If you'd get to the root of it, you might find the reason a debate got heated isn't even the topic itself--
I am not writing this to defend my position, rather explain why things spiraled to this point-- fact is, I wasn't going to partake in the whole debate, except one post I found rather condescending from the start, as if someone has all the knowledge of the cosmos and is coming to teach us vagabonds the ways of the world ( I find that to be a common symptom on most any forum) Someone reads a book or two, it touches them in a particular way, it becomes their crusade and new religion!--
What I can't tolerate is injustice toward a fellow Muslim-- not whether or not someone believes in G-D.. Genuinely I don't give a rats A$$.. and I have no interest at all in extending du'wah to anyone...
So, that is my Achilles -- I exerted some minor efforts in the evolution not (creationists dealt a blow thread)... it wasn't until a Muslim member from the forum gathered all the threads on evolution and put them under one post that I started browsing through it.. and I found two members in particular with an ongoing cruel and cutting stylistic edge to their writing... Which made me pick on one in particular-- on the account it was grossly in error from a scientific stand point.. what is worst I ask than error laced with condescension?
The few things I got out of it:
1-Hopefully proving that having a good grip on English, and the "vulgar tongue" doesn't qualify you as a scientist.. nor is cutting and pasting someone else's research so when questioned about the most basic of concepts in a way to communicate it to others seems daunting..
2- using cruel language to chastise a member isn't acceptable such as with this particular post
I personally didn't take the above, though not directed at me, to be a kind response to someone genuinely asking a question.Why don't you actually learn about evolution before getting involved in a discussion about it? That might stop you from getting so confused all the time.
3- Lastly the title in and of itself was convoluted as if an epiphany, and it turned out to be a wowser only from the opposite end of the spectrum...
on the con side
It was an absolute waste of my time... But I hope some passer by somewhere gains something from it? and with this I hope I have cleared at least my position as to why? & hopefully you'll have concluded that it isn't about scoring, rather a taste of their own medicine...
