Hey coolonka.
Praying to God to guide you to what is what is loved by Him is the best thing to do;
Allaah says (translation of the meaning):
“O My slaves, all of you are astray except those whom I guide, so ask Me for guidance, and I will guide you. O My slaves, all of you are hungry except those whom I feed, so ask me for food and I will feed you. O My slaves, all of you are naked except those whom I clothe, so ask Me for clothing and I will clothe you. … O My slaves, if the first of you and the last of you, your humans and your jinn, were to stand on a single plain and ask of Me and I were to give each one what he asked for, that would not cause any loss to Me greater than what is lost when a needle is dipped into the sea.”
Narrated by Muslim (2577).
The concept of Jesus praying to God makes sense since he was a servant and Messenger of Allaah/God, therefore an example to humanity. For him to be 'god' and then pray to God is illogical.
coolonka said:
and ther hail mary is in fact not praying to mary it is asking mary to pray for you. "holy mary mother of God pray for us sinners now and at the hour of our death"
Regarding the issue of praying to others to 'intercede' on their behalf to God, i'll tell you something amazing. The polytheists of old believed in God being our Creator and Sustainer.
Allaah says in the Qur'an (translation of the meaning):
And if you asked them, "Who created the heavens and the earth?" they would surely say, " Allah. [God]" Say, "Then have you considered what you invoke besides Allah ? If Allah intended me harm, are they removers of His harm; or if He intended me mercy, are they withholders of His mercy?" Say, "Sufficient for me is Allah ; upon Him [alone] rely the [wise] reliers." [Qur'an Zumar 39:38]
They believed it was God who created them and all that is in the heavens and the earth. However, what was their excuse?
“And those who take Awliyaa’ (protectors, helpers, lords, gods) besides Him (say): ‘We worship them only that they may bring us near to Allaah’”
[al-Zumar 39:3]
“And they worship besides Allaah things that harm them not, nor profit them, and they say: ‘These are our intercessors with Allaah’”
[Yoonus 10:18]
So you see, they would pray to others along with God, people who had passed away, or even stone idols. They claimed that these pious people were loved by Allaah/God, and therefore claimed that we should pray to these deities in order for Allaah to accept our prayers.
The reality is, this is the essence of shirk (associating partners with God in worship.) This is the greatest sin one can ever commit, because they are worshiping others along with God, the exact message which the Prophets of God have always called against. Why worship others along with God when it's Him alone who creates you, sustains you, causes you to die, and will ressurect you again to judge you on all that you did in this life?
This is the reality - if you really are thankful to God, then why not worship Him alone and be obedient to Him?
And (remember) when your Lord proclaimed: "If you give thanks (by accepting Faith and worshipping none but Allâh), I will give you more (of My Blessings), but if you are thankless (i.e. disbelievers), verily! My Punishment is indeed severe."
[Qur'an Abraham 14: 7]
Once, the Prophet (peace be upon him) was with his companion.
The Prophet said, "O Mu'adh! Do you know what Allah's Right upon His slaves is?" I said, "Allah and His Messenger know best."
The Prophet said, "To worship Him (Allah) Alone and to join none in worship with Him (Allah). Do you know what their right upon Him is?" I replied, "Allah and His Apostle know best." The Prophet said, "Not to punish them (if they do so)."
[Sahih Al Bukhari 93/471]
And Allaah says in the Qur'an (translation of the meaning):
Allah will admit those who believe and work righteous deeds, to Gardens beneath which rivers flow: they shall be adorned therein with bracelets of gold and pearls; and their garments there will be of silk.
And they had been guided [in worldly life] to good speech, and they were guided to the path of the Praiseworthy.
[Qur'an 22: 23-4]
Peace.