picky woman rejects 150 proposals

[~Taalibah~]

People can go through a lot just to get to the top!

:salamext:

Hey! People of today aren't that bad... ... depends on where u look [n someone put the msn smiley back on please!]

You are right there, but the question is how are you going to know where...^o)

 

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:salamext:

i would smack my forehead but i done that too many times already, a sigh will have to suffice

Yo! thats my ting!!!

You are right there, but the question is how are you going to know where..

Look inside your heart....and you'll find them (I'm serious, You'll know)

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

:salamext:

Look inside your heart....and you'll find them (I'm serious, You'll know)

so if i looked into my heart i'll automatically find the right partner without searching around?? lol stop reading shakespear ;D

 

[Umm Hurairah]

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

It's true people! When you find your Prince/Princess then you will practically fly over da moon (not that I'm talking from experience of course *outta*)

 

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so if i looked into my heart i'll automatically find the right partner without searching around?? lol stop reading shakespear ;D

:salamext:

Thy is NOT reading shakespeare, they doth not like shakespeare :blind:

You KNOW what I mean man.... *rollseyes* [i want that smiley bak az wel!]

 

[DaNgErOuS MiNdS]

They guy proposing must have been a pest.

 

[~Taalibah~]

:salamext:



Yo! thats my ting!!!



Look inside your heart....and you'll find them (I'm serious, You'll know)

I guess if the person comes to you/proposes then you can look in your heart, but you can just look in your heart and find the right person?!^o):? Still i dont know, its hard to know who's fooling and who's not...

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ Assalamu Alaikum

Still i dont know, its hard to know who's fooling and who's not...

the person whos not fooling will make it clear that they want to marry you as soon as possible, the person who is fooling will delay the marriage as soon as possible

 

[~Taalibah~]

^ Assalamu Alaikum



the person whos not fooling will make it clear that they want to marry you as soon as possible, the person who is fooling will delay the marriage as soon as possible

Not always. I know of 2/3 ppl who's lives were messed up with marriage. They act very holy before getting married but after its totally different. being married for a month+ someone's husband only came home for supper ONCE! But i know there are good ppl out there...

 

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:salamext:

**STAY SINGLE** - Love ain't worth the pain..

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Not always. I know of 2/3 ppl who's lives were messed up with marriage. They act very holy before getting married but after its totally different. being married for a month+ someone's husband only came home for supper ONCE! But i know there are good ppl out there...

see its stuff like this that makes me think its better to get married back home (in bangladesh)


not saying that bangladesh doesnt have its fair share of blah but meh :-\


Assalamu Alaikum

 

[Umm Hurairah]

:salamext:

**STAY SINGLE** - Love ain't worth the pain..

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

That's not alwayz the situation. Plus I think completing half my deen will be worth it Insha Allah.

 

[Al-Zaara]

Not always. I know of 2/3 ppl who's lives were messed up with marriage. They act very holy before getting married but after its totally different. being married for a month+ someone's husband only came home for supper ONCE! But i know there are good ppl out there...

Yupp. You gotta be reaaal careful, seriously.

And actually I recommend to go for someone whom your parents and friends know... Because they kinda know and see how that person is and acts, when he/she is not around you...

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

:salamext:

**STAY SINGLE** - Love ain't worth the pain..

Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

if you dont get married and do haraam acts such as excessive intermingling then how can you expect the hardships to be worth it?

Marriage is the foundation required to make the love work in harmony

 

[~Taalibah~]

Asalaamualaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatu,

That's not alwayz the situation.

Thats true! Allah Ta'aala will show us the right person when the time comes, Insha'Allah.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

huge reminder::::

the worst thing to be is pessimistic >!!


Assalamu Alaikum wa Rahmatullah

 

[Cognescenti]

.......
Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
Make me a match,
Find me a find,
catch me a catch
Matchmaker, Matchmaker
Look through your book,
And make me a perfect match


Matchmaker, Matchmaker,
I'll bring the veil,
You bring the groom,
Slender and pale.
Bring me a ring for I'm longing to be,
The envy of all I see.

......

 

[jzcasejz]

Lol, what a funny lady...

"But the man I marry needs to be handsome and tall, needs to accept life here in our village - and must be a hard worker with a good heart."

Yeah, okay! Anything else? :rollseyes

 

[~Taalibah~]

Yupp. You gotta be reaaal careful, seriously.

And actually I recommend to go for someone whom your parents and friends know... Because they kinda know and see how that person is and acts, when he/she is not around you...

Todays time this is not always the situation. Talking from experience i know that some boys/girls will act very good in front of certain adults and are completely different when they are with ppl their own age. They hide and do all the wrong then the parents think that this person is good, because they dont know whats happening! The kids their age knows because they dont care to hide it from them.

 

[~Taalibah~]

huge reminder::::

the worst thing to be is pessimistic >!!

I agree 100% with that!