Issue of working women

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I didn't mean talking privately, I meant posting on the forum like this, in everyone's view.
 
:salamext:

I didn't mean talking privately, I meant posting on the forum like this, in everyone's view.

yes, they could meet in a publicly open forum like this , but then they could decide that they want to talk in more private environment. they could possibly even meet up as their relationship progresses. so yes, even if brothers and sisters intermingle online, they should try to restrain from going far. it is the smae, whether online or in real life...
 
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They are YOUR responsibility. So YOU have to try your best to see to it that they are not involved in freemixing, e.g. send them to a single sex school.

OT: Men should work and earn the living Inshaa Allaah.

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whats OT mean?
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:salamext:

^^^ OT=On Topic.

yes, they could meet in a publicly open forum like this , but then they could decide that they want to talk in more private environment. they could possibly even meet up as their relationship progresses. so yes, even if brothers and sisters intermingle online, they should try to restrain from going far. it is the smae, whether online or in real life...

You're right sis. Inshaa Allaah we should stay within the boundaries of the forum.
 
salams

we must realise that public forums are 'public'...

it is not haraam to converse in public,,,(depending on the topic of discussion)..if this leads to private messaging etc...then it is an indiv. haraam.the forum cannot be held accountable for such acts...as with other haraam issues in islam. the moderators do their best to maintain free mixing.

we must all set our standards and hope for Allah to keep us in the rite path..we must intermix to teh degree of our need...and keep our conscience alert and our prophets sunnah in our sights...

w/s.
 
salams

we must realise that public forums are 'public'...

it is not haraam to converse in public,,,(depending on the topic of discussion)..if this leads to private messaging etc...then it is an indiv. haraam.the forum cannot be held accountable for such acts...as with other haraam issues in islam. the moderators do their best to maintain free mixing.

we must all set our standards and hope for Allah to keep us in the rite path..we must intermix to teh degree of our need...and keep our conscience alert and our prophets sunnah in our sights...

w/s.

yep:okay:
 
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yeah, im not the one getting up at seven am , for a nine-five job.lol
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that made me smile! try getting up at 4am with a hungry, crying baby who won't go back to sleep till 6.30am, just as his older brother is getting up and demanding breakfast and non-stop conversation (and plan and implement his home education too). I worked all through my twenties in an eight-six job, believe me after my first baby was born I longed for those days of lunch breaks, tea breaks and clocking off at six!

alhamdulillah the rewards of motherhood are immense insha'Allah, but it ain't the easy option. It is a wonderful thing and very satisfying and lots of fun, but at the same time it is very very hard and can be extremely stressful. It is a 24 hour a day job and working 9-5 is an absolute DODDLE compared to it.

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:salamext:

Lol Subhaan Allaah that’s so true. And much more tiring than actual work if you look at it in that perspective.
 
I am starting to find this thread disheartening!
sob7an Allah


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