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How would you even know what a woman wears under this?
And is it anybody's business to even wonder about it? :?

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I notice in Glo's picture the Muslimah has gloves on. I diddnt think showing the hands was haram, just painting the nails or jewelry on them?
 
glo said:
How would you even know what a woman wears under this?
And is it anybody's business to even wonder about it? :?

Glo, this is with respect to people who wear open abayas , where if the wind blows , even the short T_shirt and a part of the waist is seen. And when they walk , the jeans is obviously visible. (if every woman wears this type of abaya the pic shown then i feel the problem of at least girls wearing hijab will be no more)
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Alpha Dude said:
Asalamu Alaykum,

Sister, I can understand where you're coming from, but the way I see it, these people don't realise the importance of such acts in the first place, so no matter how much we condemn such behaviour, it will be of little effect.

If we examine why they do such things, we realise that it's because they are perhaps not grounded in their Islamic belief. Sometimes people don't have enough faith in Allah in the first place, so condeming them is really not going to achieve much (most likely, it will push them further away from Islam).

We need to tackle the root first, and that is bringing them to Allah. If you can make them sincere in their quest to be good muslims, then all outward acts will follow naturally.

That's the way I see it anyway.
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I agree , if we love ALLAH Subhanalawatallah ,then we would strive hard to please HIM , by doing what he likes and by not doing what he does not.
As far as wearing jeans for a girl is concerned , its not allowed , above mentioned hadiths are enough for the proof, the body and the contours are being seen .
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Relating a story of Asma bint Abu Bakr (Radhiallah TAllah Anhu) when in the old age she had become blind

Her son, al-Mundhir once sent her an elegant dress from Iraq made of fine and costly material. Asmaa by this time was blind. She felt the material and said, "It's awful. Take it back to him".
Al-Mundhir was upset and said, "Mother. it was not transparent . "


"It may not be transparent," she retorted, "but it is too tight fitting and shows the contours of the body."
Al-Mundhir bought another dress that met with her approval and she accepted it.
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Source : Companions of the Prophet (Sallaloho Alaihi wassalam)
http://muslimslibrary.googlepages.com/
 
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Asma Shaikh said:
Glo, this is with respect to people who wear open abayas , where if the wind blows , even the short T_shirt and a part of the waist is seen. And when they walk , the jeans is obviously visible. (if every woman wears this type of abaya the pic shown then i feel the problem of at least girls wearing hijab will be no more)
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Thank you for your explanation, Asma Shaikh. :)
 
I agree , if we love ALLAH Subhanalawatallah ,then we would strive hard to please HIM , by doing what he likes and by not doing what he does not.
As far as wearing jeans for a girl is concerned , its not allowed , above mentioned hadiths are enough for the proof, the body and the contours are being seen .
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Wearing jeans is not prohibited sis; provided they are not exposed like you said. As for clothing that resembles mens, then so do coats, jackets, and even abayas look like jubbas but are slightly flared at the bottom. The prohibition to imitate men and vice versa relates to dressing like them to appear as such. Styles of clothing do not differ much expect in colour, fabric and design.

"It may not be transparent," she retorted, "but it is too tight fitting and shows the contours of the body."
Al-Mundhir bought another dress that met with her approval and she accepted it.
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Yup, that just shows that a womans clothes mustn't reveal her shape. It doesn't prove they cannot wear tight clothing underneath abayas. The whole point of wearing an abaya, jilbaab, large shawl, is to cover what's underneath e.g. tight/revealing clothes.


yeh but thats nt wat i meant lol... i meant thers nothing wrong with wearin jeans even if you not wearin abaya.
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yes there is if you're going outside in them
 
As Salaam Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakatuhu

^ U right, Sister AhLAAM.

If we don't using to wearing the abaya, when we are wearing the jean and then it will be showed our body shape. Which is haraam!
 
Nice thread mashallah.i once used to wear tight clothing before i came into practicing islam..nd it's true i wasn't grounded in my belief which is why i dint evn think it was rong...Alhamdullah Allah (S.W.T) guided me
 
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MashaaAllaah sis, may Allaah guide u until ur soul departs from ur body, Ameen. Please make dua for me.
 
Ameen to that and Inshallah i will sis and plz do fr me too because we often do get carried awy before we realize wht we do rongg
 
on that note... anyone got any tips on how to wear modest clothing i live in australia and cant find much clothing that i can wear especially during summer when all the things on sale are short sleeved, and in winter all the shops sell three quarter length sleeved clothes and nowhere sells long skirts because i hate to say it but they arent very fashionable ... i try to wear baggy pants with long tops but it seems i am always looking the same due to the limited amount of options ... any hep out there???
 
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i mean help HELP lol
 
AhLÄÄM said:
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Yes there is sis, you're revealing your body shape.
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hows that revealin ur body shape??? ... all jeans arent tight... there are mnay types of jeans.. and im on about the loose ones. nothing wrong with that as far as your wearing a long kameez or sumit with em.
 
hmm...
u dont HAVE to wear gloves. u dont even have to wear the niqab.
and hijab is not to cover the hair, hijab is to cover up, u dress modestly hijab is part of that.
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Im not like that...just sayin.
:)
Nice reminder sis
Jazakallah khair
 
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^ i don't wanna go in too much detail but it reveals the shape of ur legs.

Anyway, girls should avoid it.
 
SouLda_Gal said:
hows that revealin ur body shape??? ... all jeans arent tight... there are mnay types of jeans.. and im on about the loose ones. nothing wrong with that as far as your wearing a long kameez or sumit with em.
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Even if they are not tight, you can still make out the outline of the legs due to movement. Perhaps if one stood still like a statue it'd be less obvious. Even loose jeans worn without an abaya take something away from the modesty factor. It points to a love of exhibiting oneself to others.

Normal clothing, shalwar kameez - whatever kind, should be covered with a loose outergarment when going out. If one wears shalwaar kameez with a shawl on top, you can still see the waist and hips. God knows I've seen so many women's kameezes blow up with the wind, revealing the lower half of the body clearly. That's not pardah.

Allah has stated in the Quran: "O Prophet! Tell thy wives and thy daughters and the women of the believers to draw their cloaks close around them. that will be better, *so that they may be recognized and not annoyed. Allah is ever forgiving, merciful...." (from A.Yusef Ali's translation of the Qur'an; other versions translate the original Arabic as "veils" where Ali uses "cloaks").

*Recognised as women who guard their modesty


I also think displaying your jeans alters other's perception of you. It's like saying, "Look at me - I'm an ultra modern muslimah!" So it looks as if you want people to notice you for being trendy. It just doesn't go hand in hand with how a muslimah should identify herself as the epitome of simplicity and modesty.
 
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