What age to marry?

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What age would YOU marry at or do YOU THINK is good to marry at?


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Re: What age to marry yo?!

ssiters need a bit older than wut habeshi said and brothers need a bit younger than habeshi said
like boys 17/18 girls 15/16

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Re: What age to marry yo?!

LOL I think boys 20/21/22 when they finish Uni and start with a job
and girls 17/18/19
Thats just my opinion :D
 
Re: What age to marry yo?!

:sl:

Well seems the brothers arrived:D I am gna give my say!

sisters 15/16/17/18(but thats very old!!)

Brothers 18/19/20

And never?? Like as in NEVER?? NEVER... wow!! Thats person must be very patient, something that our dear prophet (pbuh) didnt even do! uhm...

So ye thumbs up sister *SAFA* for ur ambition to marry at 16:D!
 
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^ loool they werent SUPPOSED to arrive. but yeh go ahead now

Oooh finally! I was about to go iNSAAAAANE looking at da option yall chose! I mean how can u marry AFTER you get WRINKLES?!?! Lool

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Jazakallah khair everyone for ur answers so far. Nice seein different opinions about this (even tho i was bout to go insane) :)
 
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AssalamuAlaykum

Wow....erm thats, lol wow at the sisters one. Never come across a bro with that opinion before :exhausted

14?!! :omg: dats reaaalyyy yung!!
i think sis: 18ish 19ish
brothers: 20-25

brothers need to get married younger than dat

ssiters need a bit older than wut habeshi said and brothers need a bit younger than habeshi said
like boys 17/18 girls 15/16

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In a perfect world I would like both brothers and sisters younger, but you know what, if a sister is brought up away from this culture, I mean I see families who are cultural Muslims letting their kids walk around in miniskirts and so forth and not putting Islam into you, they wear hijab due to culture, if sisters were brought up good, I dont think 14/15/16 is too young. Think about it, in the western world, girls at that age are ready for long term reletionships, the problem is that the men that are the same age as them are not, the guys end up cheating on them and so forth, though the girl is in 'love' with him he isn't as keen. (edit: I remembered, in college Muslims girls were into this too, wearing hijab and talking about Asif, and Ashraf and other muslim boys, I mean, think about it)

Thats why I think that age would be normal, since the western girls can fall in love at that age, then I dont see why the Islamic girls cant fall in love and marry at the age too.

As for the brothers, in the west unless you have a helpful family it is pretty difficult to marry and support a family. Brothers are asked to have a BA, then to be abit older than the sister, and also to be in a stable job. That's what I have come across. Unless you get a good Muslim family young brothers will find it hard to get married.

But yes, if the support was there I would like to think brothers should marry earlier, but then again, the brothers from among us who have been touched by western ideas would find it hard to be tied down at a younger age.
 
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In a perfect world I would like both brothers and sisters younger, but you know what, if a sister is brought up away from this culture, I mean I see families who are cultural Muslims letting their kids walk around in miniskirts and so forth and not putting Islam into you, they wear hijab due to culture, if sisters were brought up good, I dont think 14/15/16 is too young. Think about it, in the western world, girls at that age are ready for long term reletionships, the problem is that the men that are the same age as them are not, the guys end up cheating on them and so forth, though the girl is in 'love' with him he isn't as keen. (edit: I remembered, in college Muslims girls were into this too, wearing hijab and talking about Asif, and Ashraf and other muslim boys, I mean, think about it)

Thats why I think that age would be normal, since the western girls can fall in love at that age, then I dont see why the Islamic girls cant fall in love and marry at the age too.

As for the brothers, in the west unless you have a helpful family it is pretty difficult to marry and support a family. Brothers are asked to have a BA, then to be abit older than the sister, and also to be in a stable job. That's what I have come across. Unless you get a good Muslim family young brothers will find it hard to get married.

But yes, if the support was there I would like to think brothers should marry earlier, but then again, the brothers from among us who have been touched by western ideas would find it hard to be tied down at a younger age.


Wow, well thats a perfect post. Mashallah
So true, everything.
For everyone its different.
Jazakallah khair :)
 
Re: What age to marry yo?!

Sisters 14/5/6ish

Brothers 20ish

14 year olds are usually in the ninth grade... what about school? Would she finish high school? University? (not arguing btw, just wondering how school/marriage would work)

edit- unless it was the kind of marriage where they both still live in their parents house till they've grown up a bit, but i'm taking you don't mean that...?
 
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14/5/6ish
Whhhaaaaaaat? Raah lol..Thas young but erm I s'pose what you said above is true. But why get boys married later? Is it cause their brains develop a tad slower than gurls? Hehe. I'ma get shot for that. Like I think 20 =). [P.S To Safa, Sis what's wif tha 'yo' flex? Lol..?] Salaamz
 
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Whhhaaaaaaat? Raah lol..Thas young but erm I s'pose what you said above is true. But why get boys married later? Is it cause their brains develop a tad slower than gurls? Hehe. I'ma get shot for that. Like I think 20 =). [P.S To Safa, Sis what's wif tha 'yo' flex? Lol..?] Salaamz

LOoooooool!

I think girls not at 14. maybe, MAYBE 15..then any older is perfect :D

by older ... i DONT mean 18 19 20 21+++ Thats when u get wrinkles! wut u gna do wear the niqab 24/7?! :X Oops...


Loool wuttup wit u ppl messin wit my YO?!
lol
i dunno why it just sounds.......i dunno..YO!

lol
Next person pickin on my yo i mess yo up yo! :D (yeh i did purposely add extra YO's)
 
Re: What age to marry yo?!

Assalamualaykum

You should not ashamed, its quite an good and ineteresting question :)

I think that personally I would like to get married around 19, 20 or 21 period because well I will know by then what job route I want to go down or what I want to do in life. :D
But then again if I find a decent and good imaan guy then I'll get married :) Allah wills everything :D

Assalamualaykum
*KB*
:coolious:
 
Re: What age to marry yo?!

Assalamualaykum

You should be that ashamed, its quite an good and ineteresting question :)

I think that personally I would like to get married around 19, 20 or 21 period because well I will know by then what job route I want to go down or what I want to do in life. :D
But then again if I find a decent and had good imaan guy then I'll get married :) Alah wills everything :D

Assalamualaykum
*KB*
:coolious:

ashamed? of what??

Jazakallah khair for ur reply, Yeh a good religious person is good. not those type of 'religious' ppl who pray, but are extremely strict and crazy. lol
 
Re: What age to marry yo?!

Assalamualaykum

So sorry I didn't proof read :statisfie

Read it now Sister

Assalamualaykum
*KB*
:coolious:
 
Re: What age to marry yo?!

Assalamualaykum

*phew*

Assalamualaykum
*KB*
:coolious:
 
Re: What age to marry yo?!

For men, women, or both?
For both, at least in societies where women are educated and have jobs.
I'm not saying every woman should marry a man her age, love doesn't know borders, and it also depends on the taste.
 

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