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Aye! lets not forget ,women are a little bit demanding we have to put that into perspective,maybe the brother is trying something to please his wife maybe hes stuck between spending time with his wife and chilling out with he's mates,and because he is married he's trying hard to balance the both.

We have some ppl here especially the sisters who are fuming as it were and saying he just married her for this for that! but to be honest we dont know why he married her only allah knows and we also have to remember that the brother asked her to marry him which means he probably longed for her and with this great desire from him ,loving and spending time will not be a stumbling rock it will be easy
 
for sum1 who chose the gal, he aint showin much.
he dont spend time with her, he dont take her out, he can do for days without talkin to her. He lies to her. If she says lets go somewhere he says no, take someone else, and if they do go he sits there misreably.
I know how my mate is and she is being calm about this and does things he says but he is always moody and screwing at her.
Now that the lying has started, it aint gettin easier. A husband who goes out and says he bak in hours but takes 4 hours and returns at 5am.. is that something that he needs to do??? no.. she is in his house.. she only has him but hes not around eiva..
 
Lonely Gal said:
for sum1 who chose the gal, he aint showin much.
he dont spend time with her, he dont take her out, he can do for days without talkin to her. He lies to her. If she says lets go somewhere he says no, take someone else, and if they do go he sits there misreably.
I know how my mate is and she is being calm about this and does things he says but he is always moody and screwing at her.
Now that the lying has started, it aint gettin easier. A husband who goes out and says he bak in hours but takes 4 hours and returns at 5am.. is that something that he needs to do??? no.. she is in his house.. she only has him but hes not around eiva..
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Is he even a practising muslim?? people marry non-practising muslims expecting everything to be 'mashallah perfect'
 
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I think both Lonely Gal and Ahmedjunior have a valid point.

If he's not practising, u cant expect more.

He married her, and this is not how he should behave.
 
Lonely Gal said:
he is not practising but surely if u chose sum1, u wud acknowledge them
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Why would you acknowledge anything if you couldnt acknowledge and practise the most important thing(islam) that helps you deal with life including marriage

:rollseyes
 
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^ Exactly what I was going to say.

How do you know he's not a playa n was playin with her?
 
asalam alaikum wr wb,

I just wanted to say that not all non practicing muslims are bad people or bad husbands. It also depends on whether the person has any decency,moral values and humanity. I can find 'practicing' muslims who treat their wives like dirt. If the heart is bad, religion isnt going to do anything.


wa alaikum asalam wr wb.
 
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Sis Scents of Jannah ...it also depends on what he is practising many people in South Asian countries now mix culture with Islam ..they take what they like of Islam and take what they like of their culture..BUT a person who takes Islam as a way of life fully and tries to change their habits of Jahilliyah it is understandable but if a person is not willing to change then that person has to go..

SIs Lonely Gal...You don't know the husband's past nor do you have to answer anyone's questions or assumptions ..you need to talk to you friend and see how she feels also tell her to talk to her husband about it ..if he is not fulfilling what she wants then you gotta tell her what to do
 

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