assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu (OP)
I will describe my problem in short, my husband n I were in a relationship before marriage for 8 years, we also crossed the limits which we shouldn't have. After 8 year now we are married for almost 4 years and have tow kids Alhamdulillah. After marriage I realise that my husband is involved in zina with more than one woman but not ready to come to me. I find pictures and several proofs about the same. So I too got involved on shirk to stop his disaster. I have created a situation for him that he can't do zina with other women but only can come to me. Even this has been a year.He is very frustrated since then but not ready to build a relationship with me. He keeps insulting me and has a bad behaviour. It affects the kids who r 3yrs girl and 1.5 yr boy. He has a doubt on me that I may have done something to block his illegal relationships but he can't talk about it. Please suggest what should I do. Shall I break that shirk bond for him and let him free? I m going through a fire of hell. Also plz tell me will Allah accept my Ibadan after I doing this shirk to stop my husband. I hv starreciting full surah baqarah. Will it help me. Plz suggest what should I do.
I have taken a firm decision to reverse all that I have done. Just waiting for tomorrow to speak with the concerned person who can reverse it. It's my neeyat. Will I be forgiven by Allah swt.also I will seek forgiveness from my husband. Will I still be called a muslim. I have a mountain of questions in my mind. But all I wana know is if I will b forgiven and will Allah accept all my ibadah. Plz revert. I m in a bad state of mind. I m in great disgust for what I have done and I really mean it.
If you went to a magician to do this magic, then do not go back to that person to reverse it. That person is out of the fold of Islam if they are practicing this terrible thing. If you have the objects/amulets, then there's a specific way to break the magic. Can you describe what was done exactly?
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
I didn't do anything myself, just instructed the person to stop my husband's desire to get fulfilled with other women but me. I don't know what he did. I don't have anything with me. Please suggest
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
format_quote Originally Posted by Muslimaah2
I didn't do anything myself, just instructed the person to stop my husband's desire to get fulfilled with other women but me. I don't know what he did. I don't have anything with me. Please suggest
Ok so what information did he ask for, or what did you give him??
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
I hv spoken with the person to reverse everything that I had done. He said it's difficult but he will do it. Brother/sister, does thT lessen my sin. M I a step towards Islam now. Please revert. Jazak Allah
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
Subhanallah
Lady you need to make serious taubah. You meet Allah with this sin you are in huge trouble. Jahannam is no joke the least punished is a man with two coals of fire underneath his feet because of which his brain will boil. Can you bear that?
Allah will forgive all sins for the one who repents sincerely to him and that includes kufr and shirk but subhanAllah I hope you understand the seriousness of what you've done
Make taubah before it's too late and inshaAllah Allah will forgive you
“Allah gave you a gift of 86,000 seconds today, have you used one to say ‘Alhamdulilah"
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
format_quote Originally Posted by Muslimaah2
So, now that I hv decided to undo what I did, will that get me forgiveness?
Undoing what you did won't nessecarily get forgiveness
Taubah will inshaAllah
Turn to Allah with regret in your heart for what you did, make a sincere intention to never return to the sin and ask Allah to forgive you. You do this inshaallah Allah will forgive you
Allah is so merciful sister, I was reading in tafsir ibn kathir that Allah will not punish for a sin his slave have repented from
Btw you might want to say shahadah again as sihr is a nullifier of a person's islam
“Allah gave you a gift of 86,000 seconds today, have you used one to say ‘Alhamdulilah"
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
You will also have to ask your husband to forgive you. Black magic is a heinous crime. As it involves the rights of another person, they must forgive you before Allah accepts your Tawbah.
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
Walekumassalam
Undoing what I did was the first step of my taubah. Next will b with Allah n my husband. I don't know how will I do it to my husband. M really scared that he may leave me.
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
Repentance.
Allah is Most Forgiving. He allows us to make mistakes and seek forgiveness from Him.
If w think too much, we will only despair. Only He can read your intentions, and it seems to me that you have repented. Do not repeat it.
With regards to your situation with your hubby, that is a different story. I cannot advise on that matter, but remember that life is a test as the Quran spelled out in a verse that our property, wives and children are tests for us. So when faced with severe tests from those closest to us, what do we do? Do we stick to the right path or follow our nafs and pride?
In life, we will fail over and over again, hence it is important to get the intentions correct and to constantly seek forgiveness for errors known and unknowingly committed by us.
As long as my heart does beat, I shall live, not lie
For when my heart does stop its beat, with truth, I die.
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
format_quote Originally Posted by Aisha
You will also have to ask your husband to forgive you. Black magic is a heinous crime. As it involves the rights of another person, they must forgive you before Allah accepts your Tawbah.
This is very true. But if she tells her husband, this may cause greater damage.
Re: assalamoalaikum wa rahmatullahi wa barakautuhu
Dear Sister, its not permissible for you to go back to the magician, even if it is to ask him to undo the spell. This is a second mistake and it's worse than the first time - You and your husband both need to turn to Allah and amend your situation according to Islamic guidance.
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format_quote Originally Posted by Zeal
Inshallah
Have you renewed your nikkah since the last time you committed this shirk.. if not make sure you do for a valid marriage
Inshallah let's do one step at a time. Let the sister fix her mistakes first and let's bring proof/evidence before we start suggesting she does this or that.
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